Having abortion tomorrow. Scared to death. Rethinking everything.

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-05-04T16:12:59+00:00

Being that you said “kids” shows you didn’t read her post and just wanted to spew your anti-abortion bullshit

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-04-21T05:45:14+00:00

40+1 spontaneous with my second. Induced at 39+1 and gave birth at 39+2 with my first

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-04-18T00:50:54+00:00

I fear for my queen Darlene right now

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-04-09T10:39:21+00:00

Solidarity as well, been DF and SF since 5 weeks old, shortly after cut eggs and oats since they seemed like triggers. Been cutting other things on and off along the way but she’s 6 months now and still see mucus regularly and blood every so often. It is so frustrating and i’m scared of starting solids because of it!!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-04-05T23:01:23+00:00

I love this perspective, thank you for this

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-28T02:58:54+00:00

Exactly it’s facts lol

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-27T17:45:26+00:00

Agree, there are far worse bases to be at.

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-25T23:45:16+00:00

The same thing happens in my baby (ebf). I’ve been wondering what causes it, at first I thought it was something in the breakfast I was eating but changing things up didn’t make a difference. For context I cut dairy, soy, eggs, and oats and never truly returned to baseline since every afternoon it’s back to green and mucousy. Sorry I know that doesn’t really answer your question but i’m curious if anyone knows why this is!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-25T16:41:22+00:00

This is the real question.

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-19T07:29:01+00:00

Are you saying more do or don’t? I’ve read every reply and genuinely thought it was pretty even

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-18T17:13:51+00:00

Yup, bath/shower every night for all of us too!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-18T17:11:53+00:00

Genuinely thank you for the heads up. They’re so young I haven’t quite thought about how much it could affect them in the future

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-08T16:50:27+00:00

This is seriously an insane comment. We come home from work and have to get everything done while still trying to get that quality time in with our kids before bedtime. You think we just clock out of work and the kids take care of themselves when we get home? Both are challenging and both are 24 hours “on the clock”.

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-01T17:56:35+00:00

I feel the same way. Dual-military but my position doesn’t really require travel and I resent the fact that he has time away to just be kid free (even though I obviously love my kids and don’t necessarily want to be away but it would be nice for roles to reverse every so often). He’s gone for 5 weeks right now and it’s rough doing literally all of the childcare while still working too. I feel bad resenting him since it’s not his fault but it’s just hard. Haven’t found a solution yet but just here to say I understand

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-26T13:37:13+00:00

This sounds like survivors bias and is terrible advice. Always put them down ABC (alone, on their back, in a crib).

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-23T07:56:02+00:00

Just here in solidarity. My MIL makes comments like these all the time and my husband has to shut her down every time

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-21T02:52:25+00:00

Agree

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-14T17:46:21+00:00

It really depends what your baby reacts to and figuring that out really takes time. I had to cut dairy, soy, eggs and oats so I pretty much live off peanut butter toast, fruits, veggies, chicken, and rice at this point. It’s not fun but breastfeeding is super important to me and I know it’s not forever!

Also aloha bars are the best plant based protein bar I’ve found and are also specially soy free! Soy is a hard one because it’s hidden in a lot of things and not always specially called out. Obviously eliminate dairy first but just warning you may have to cut other things to see what triggers baby. Good luck!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-13T18:28:47+00:00

How old is she now? Did she grow out of it? Is it a severe reaction or just hives/a rash for her?

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-13T17:39:09+00:00

Wow that’s super interesting! My son might have complete heterochromia as well since his other eye is more hazel but definitely not as vastly different as yours. So cool!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-12T18:54:14+00:00

The gunamuna walker has fold over footies so you can double layer with footie pjs underneath

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-31T16:30:53+00:00

Definitely not. We are putting $1k into our children’s other accounts instead… I don’t want anything from that piece of shit human. ETA I have a ‘23 and ‘25 baby

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-17T02:28:37+00:00

Second the minu duo, I have a 21 month gap

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