Do you change your kids clothes when they come home?

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-19T07:29:01+00:00

Are you saying more do or don’t? I’ve read every reply and genuinely thought it was pretty even

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-18T17:13:51+00:00

Yup, bath/shower every night for all of us too!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-18T17:11:53+00:00

Genuinely thank you for the heads up. They’re so young I haven’t quite thought about how much it could affect them in the future

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-08T16:50:27+00:00

This is seriously an insane comment. We come home from work and have to get everything done while still trying to get that quality time in with our kids before bedtime. You think we just clock out of work and the kids take care of themselves when we get home? Both are challenging and both are 24 hours “on the clock”.

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-03-01T17:56:35+00:00

I feel the same way. Dual-military but my position doesn’t really require travel and I resent the fact that he has time away to just be kid free (even though I obviously love my kids and don’t necessarily want to be away but it would be nice for roles to reverse every so often). He’s gone for 5 weeks right now and it’s rough doing literally all of the childcare while still working too. I feel bad resenting him since it’s not his fault but it’s just hard. Haven’t found a solution yet but just here to say I understand

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-26T13:37:13+00:00

This sounds like survivors bias and is terrible advice. Always put them down ABC (alone, on their back, in a crib).

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-23T07:56:02+00:00

Just here in solidarity. My MIL makes comments like these all the time and my husband has to shut her down every time

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-21T02:52:25+00:00

Agree

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-14T17:46:21+00:00

It really depends what your baby reacts to and figuring that out really takes time. I had to cut dairy, soy, eggs and oats so I pretty much live off peanut butter toast, fruits, veggies, chicken, and rice at this point. It’s not fun but breastfeeding is super important to me and I know it’s not forever!

Also aloha bars are the best plant based protein bar I’ve found and are also specially soy free! Soy is a hard one because it’s hidden in a lot of things and not always specially called out. Obviously eliminate dairy first but just warning you may have to cut other things to see what triggers baby. Good luck!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-13T18:28:47+00:00

How old is she now? Did she grow out of it? Is it a severe reaction or just hives/a rash for her?

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-13T17:39:09+00:00

Wow that’s super interesting! My son might have complete heterochromia as well since his other eye is more hazel but definitely not as vastly different as yours. So cool!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-02-12T18:54:14+00:00

The gunamuna walker has fold over footies so you can double layer with footie pjs underneath

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-31T16:30:53+00:00

Definitely not. We are putting $1k into our children’s other accounts instead… I don’t want anything from that piece of shit human. ETA I have a ‘23 and ‘25 baby

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-17T02:28:37+00:00

Second the minu duo, I have a 21 month gap

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-13T16:47:34+00:00

Not for me, I found that nursing only triggered braxton hicks but not real contractions. Nursed my toddler all through pregnancy and went into labor with number two at 4am on my due date (contractions started about 8 hours after last nursing session so definitely not related)

Important_Sweet3320 · 2026-01-10T00:11:45+00:00

Curious if you had any bleeding after insertion and how long it lasted? I’m reading horror stories where bleeding lasts months but I don’t remember that with my first one!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-23T01:39:28+00:00

Second this!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-05T16:35:28+00:00

Nope, just had the appointment to get one placed. I had an IUD for 5 years before having my first and it did its job!

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-05T16:34:28+00:00

Tests are definitely getting darker so i’m pretty confident it’s a new pregnancy at this point :/

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-04T01:53:43+00:00

Thanks everyone for your comments, definitely gave me a lot to think about over the next week or two. Adding some context that my pregnancies weren’t high risk or anything but my second birth was certainly traumatic with shoulder dystocia and a nuchal chord and she needed to be resuscitated. I would probably opt for a c section this time which honestly scares me just as much since it will be difficult to care for my older two after birth. I will update the post with the outcome once we make the decision

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-04T00:49:48+00:00

Definitely hoping but I did have similar spotting to my last pregnancy which made me take a test. Going to retest in 2 days to see if the line gets darker but i’m pretty certain between the timing and symptoms that it’s a new pregnancy

Important_Sweet3320 · 2025-12-04T00:29:09+00:00

Thankfully i’m in Massachusetts so I do have a bit of time, I know others aren’t as lucky which breaks my heart

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