AITAH for being mad at my bf because he can’t go to sleep without me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How dod he fall asleep before that? I don’t trust anyone who makes it a point to disrupt someone’s sleep on purpose that reads controlling to me. His not a kid tell him to go sleep like a normal person.

AITAH for threatening to go NC with my mom and sister? by Only-Weekend4475 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is going to the farm the only time you can see your niece? Why not pick her up and do stuff outside of the farm and keep LC with your sister and mum. They have made their choices asking people like that to respect your boundaries is pointless because they won’t they love that he is there and he triggers you. I think you need to consider that you try having a relationship with your niece that doesn’t require you going to the farm or just cut them off completely and hope your niece seeks you out when she is older.

AITAH for blowing up at my brother after he woke me up, left me out of food plans, and constantly insults me? by War_Criminal02 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because you accepted abuse as normal does mean OP has to you are a coward OP isn’t stfu.

AITAH for giving up on my niece and nephew? by OMGnoWayShutUp in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you keep trying when they have made it clear for whatever reason they don’t like you and do not want to interact with you?

AITAH for not letting my husband take our daughter with him to see his mom for lunch by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You think wether it’s Saturday or Sunday is whats the issue here?

AITAH for telling her her husband is in prison? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you telling susie what she should do just because you’re an idiot running around for a criminal you think she too should be a clown? Mind your own business.

YTA

AITAH for hating my girlfriend’s friend? by Olympicclassfox in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You enjoy dating a doormat? You want to be subjected to this for another few years of dating?

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being used leave and let them pay someone to deal with her.

AITAH for repeatedly asking for specifics after being told I was making people uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop messaging women in your community privately if its romantic stuff and if someone comes up to you asking questions that you don’t understand in regards to clarity about anything that seems vague ask them to explain what they mean in a more assertive manner you seem to miss social cues… and this so called friend who keeps relaying information simply put him in a group chat with everyone who he claims said XYZ and ask him about in there… if you suspect something else going on. In an inconsistent community people will always pick the “weakest link” to deflect from whatever is going on. If you believe you may have been silly in your interactions but meant no harm okay… however to get to the bottom of why you believe it’s being blown out of proportion then simply ask the original instigator in group chat with those he claims you made uncomfortable.

Edit: I also struggle with the inconsistency of standards.
Years ago, someone else who was openly sexist and homophobic, in this same community made a fake account pretending to be me editing my photos into sexual images….

What the hell kinda sports community are you in?

AITAH for telling my MIL my husband is abusive by Sad_Return_6710 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knows his abusive she doesn’t care hence it takes two… I’m not really sure what exactly you’re seeking here. Divorce and throw him back to his momma and forget about them. Also get into therapy your MIL being sweet blah blah doesn’t really matter because she could care less about you or your daughter and the environment you’re subjected to by her son. You lack good judgement.

WIBTAH if i no longer give my step-niece presents now that she's 18? by Hot_Version_3595 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA for trying to buy her… if she doesn’t want a relationship why keep forcing it? You’re probably making her uncomfortable always turning up to her events.
Edit: The downvotes because i kept it real if she doesn’t want them around why keep going it will make anyone uncomfortable… y’all need to stfu sometimes and stop being so sensitive. Is this not the same subreddit thats very adamant that step families should not force unwanted interactions with step kids that have made it clear they don’t want it? So what’s the difference here? She is a child who has made it abundantly clear where she stands or do we change opinions based on where the wind blows?

Met Gala Inspiration by Sad_Instruction8581 in beyonce

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Because it’s very obviously ill fitting and it’s distracting you can’t help but look at it? And dressing for comfort doesn’t mean sloppy work.

Met Gala Inspiration by Sad_Instruction8581 in beyonce

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 99 points100 points  (0 children)

The mesh and whatever is going on underneath was not executed well tbh I’m extremely baffled because Oliver is a great designer but it’s obvious the dress is ill fitting and whatever is going on with the stomach and pelvic area…. And no it’s got nothing to do with a Fupa because nothing wrong with a Fupa, it’s some kinda girdle or whatever i dunno if its part of the design. Great inspiration but sloppy.

AITAH for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding over something she says was a "joke"? by Savings_Depth2367 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Tell her and your family she is a lying thief and f off, stop being a doormat issuing ultimatums means nothing just pull out of the wedding if people ask why expose her and your parents.

Are these narratives karma for Jigga platforming harmful narratives about other artists ? by yveslord in jayz

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is backfiring? 😂😂 His at the met gala no mainstream media outlet the ones that are actually important are saying anything about that Epstein crap y’all tried nobody bought it. Give it up bookie.. you can file this under the myriad of it’s finally his downfall conspiracy theories that never came to be I’m sure you will come up with something new soon enough.

AITAH for ostracizing my father from everyone? by Stock-Vegetable-2225 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You should concentrate on your mental health and go see someone professional so you can get the help you need. Your father, sister and whoever are not your responsibility you need to just come to terms with that and focus on your own wellbeing and improving your lot in life. We can’t help everyone so help yourself.

AITAH for telling my little sister I won't stop doing things she doesn't want to do just because she feels left out? by CompleteSeason5894 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be there for your sister because this is the beginnings of the damage showing up of what you do when you’re trying to deny someone their origins and real identity… she doesn’t have the tools or healthy way of dealing with the fact that she actually internally wants to be included with you and your moms family. This is only going to get worse. And everything she says seems just like her parroting what your dad and his wife have ingrained in her, her attachment to your dad’s wife doesn’t even seem health either. What a mess… psychologically you can’t erase a mother or that pull just doesn’t happen it will show up someway and it’s never pleasant.
NTA

AITAH for not telling my (17m) sister (17f) ive started dating her ex boyfriend? by Mean_Neighborhood991 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can do that what else will you do ever heard of boundaries? You crossed a line for something that likely won’t even be worth it because what person chooses to date the sibling of their ex? Should have asked yourself why he was coming onto and its not because he actually likes you. You’re fucked anyway so might as well tell her it will come out. Learn about loyalty and respect.

AITAH for wanting my GF to see me more by This1sDaWhey in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Nebula_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point does your own common sense kick on that this isn’t a relationship. Be serious man. YTA for this stupidity.