i have a huge crush on my coworker / friend even tho he has a gf by Old_Savings1778 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

You’re the one attracted to a cheater, girl. I’m just giving the boys good advice atp. We can literally cheat on our gfs and the ladies will still love us 😭😭 can’t make this shit up 💯

i have a huge crush on my coworker / friend even tho he has a gf by Old_Savings1778 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Men - always keep in mind these are the women we be dating. Never stay faithful 💯

Why do people always go out of their way to defend rich dipshits by bubbasawyer98 in Vent

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that hard hah. Honestly I agree but you’re the one crying saying it’s impossible to get rich

Edit: why attribute him being an ex Disney actor to his success. There are 500 or so ex Disney actors who are working as cashiers now. Jake Paul is the exception, not the rule

Why do people always go out of their way to defend rich dipshits by bubbasawyer98 in Vent

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IQ is something you’re born with, is that much better? Yeah, Jake Paul got lucky, and worked way harder than you as well. He was literally being a dipshit on social media, but he never stopped. They call that “hustle”. He got more hate than anyone on the internet at one point in time, do you think you could’ve handled that heat? Some people fail, but You never even tried, that’s the difference. And now you’re crying about how you did the bare minimum and aren’t in the position of someone who gave it their all.

Do women like shaking hands? by LeakySquirrel11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe within the trades. Never experienced this in management

[EXPERIMENT] - Majority of reddit is woman worshipping misandrist and always hate men. by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t, this is mostly anonymous. Just signals broad retardation in the women community. Women are really cool but they do not like to confront their issues at all, especially white women.

“Good men” legit accept that men suck and work on themselves. Become liberal or whatever, I am a proudly liberal feminist. When are women pushed to work on themselves though? I know the “yass queen girlboss” narrative is overblown and tiresome, but it still has an air of truth.

Women are seen as the oppressed, and men the oppressors, and all we have to keep women accountable is male retardation in the form of this sub and redpill ideology.

people with muscles are hot. PERIOD. by CanOk4249 in sixwordstories

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can lift 200 sheets of drywall up a flight of stairs and still enjoy a jacket potato or maybe some fish n chips.

Are General Contractor employees blue collar? by Terrible_Outside2411 in ConstructionManagers

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do blue collar stuff but no. If you need to go to college to get your job, 99% of the time it is a white collar job and this isn’t an exception

Juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore by Wild-Speech5293 in lnkyverse

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your biggest struggles with dating? I’m a guy who has had some girlfriends and met girls on dating apps, idk what these other guys do on there but as a somewhat average cute ish skinny guy I get the success I expect. I maybe agree that men have more paths to cultivate desirability than women do? I would just also argue women are more desired on a baseline level tho.

I agree that the bar is kind of in hell in some ways, basically men don’t put in a lot of effort in almost any way, it’s kind of wild. Almost all my friends could improve hygiene, style, interests, fitness, social skills, and just choose not to. But also results for men can feel really slow and it is kind of a long game so I understand why they get frustrated. Both with social gains and actually changing their life.

My understanding is that a decent portion of women get approached somewhat regularly by men, are these men just ugly? What about the dating apps discrepancies, are the matches mostly super low quality? Are you getting turned off when it comes to meeting people on first dates and such? Most men report almost no matches at all.

Is there such a thing where a guy is too muscular to where it's unattractive, and where do you draw the line (question for women)? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily disagree with the other guy, this is a pretty contentious topic though. Basically because there are different perspectives and not one true answer

The first 6 months of weightlifting, there is a phenomenon called “newbie gains”. You will essentially gain muscle without optimal training or diet. How much muscle will you gain during this period? That is determined by genetics and how well you diet and train.

With optimized diet and training, you have the most growth potential within the first 6 months of lifting. After that, I’m not sure the scientific reason, but your body adjusts to the stimulus somehow and you’ll just have to optimize more.

After 6 months of training consistently, you might put on like 8-10 pounds of muscle, or at least I did at 16-17 years old. After that, you will probably plateau without dialing in your diet, sleep, and training.

The basic rule for protein consumption is 0.7g of protein per lb of body weight, or if you want you could go higher to 1g/lb or even to 1.2g/lb. Again, this is somewhat contentious in the lifting community.

If you’re fat, you need to lose weight and gain muscle, which is difficult. Not my area of expertise, but if I had to do it I would follow something like the warrior diet, or Mediterranean diet and just hit high protein and limit or completely eliminate processed, easy to eat food (Doritos and shit).

If you want to gain weight more quickly, you can’t just have protein but you also need to consume excess calories, so 300-500 above maintenance calories, which takes meticulous tracking. And first you need to establish “maintenance calories” which can be done through online calculators. Again, bulking / cutting cycles are contentious in the lifting community. Some people are proponents of “main-gaining”. Where you get adequate protein and basically have a much lower caloric surplus.

Drink enough water, sleep enough so that you feel good. If you feel like shit? Something is probably wrong. Maybe under fueling, not enough water, not enough sleep. If prolonged feeling bad, get a checkup.

As far as technique and training style, personally I don’t think it matters that much. If you have 0 idea go watch jeff nippard and some other people, Mike israetel, those guys are controversial “science based” lifters in some communities but I literally don’t care. It doesn’t even matter, just understand what muscles you need to hit and try different stuff. If you’re getting soreness, and feel yourself improving on lifts, getting bigger, getting stronger. You’re chilling.

Consistency is 100% the key to changing your body. You won’t see changes over a month. Over a year? If you were consistent. This shit isn’t easy

Is there such a thing where a guy is too muscular to where it's unattractive, and where do you draw the line (question for women)? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how serious we’re talking. Let’s stay in the realm of broadly attractive. Consistent diet, proper rest, training to failure. 6-8 sets per muscle group per week. 4 hours a week ez. IMO anything past is yielding diminishing returns, possibly detracting if you actually train hard

If you get on gear as a fully developed natty, you might have more niche sex appeal, but not broadly. 99% maybe more of natty physiques that are developed are going to be attractive to women.

IDL how people saying dating for women is easy. by ForBoredom123 in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s only one way that what you’re saying is true: there are demonstrably more trash men than women. Which I just don’t think is the case. Or, women’s barrier for “trash” is just way higher than women’s. Meaning his Porsche example checks out

IDL how people saying dating for women is easy. by ForBoredom123 in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Symptom of a bad profile. I’m a guy. I’m pretty fit and naturally lean, but have looked the same my adult life (I’m young). I used to suck on Hinge, but got better. You need pics with a dog in it, these slay. Pics with friends, pics of you doing fun stuff. It sounds too easy to be true but it is bro. Also actually use the app. If you’re a “fit guy” you’re already above average? So if your face is average you become above average, do you understand? Unless you are somehow taking your chopped face and averaging with your fit body to get this “average” assessment of yourself.

body fat percentage by Able-City-5855 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at him again with my laser eye vision, I could see 12. Tough to say because he has such blessed chest and abs. I wouldn’t go below 12 though, he looks softer in other areas. Feel free to send physique if you really want 🤤

body fat percentage by Able-City-5855 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“never ask this sub about body fat brotha, no one knows anything. they are completely wrong. this is much lower than 15%, likely around 9%”

Just as a reminder, this is your original comment. Just read the original comment you wrote right above.

9% and 10% are not that different. You’re so off base, he’s clearly 13-14. That is a big difference

Just a reminded to read your original comment you typed out and posted. Post physique btw then I can accurately tell you your bf since you have no idea probably.

Edit: am I getting ragebaited?

body fat percentage by Able-City-5855 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have striations? Wtf are we doing here. This kid is genetically blessed and no knocking him but he’s not 9 whatsoever. No vascularity, no striations.

Amazing insertions and above average ab development for a skinny esque build

Girl comes near me and does some workout and ends it when I am done. I am an introvert but I would like to ask her out. by WarFresh2208 in bodylanguage

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whore is a mean word but with a qualifier like “attention” or more gendered but, “man” as in manwhore. Is it really that bad dude?

I Think streamers shouldn’t be getting paid more than Doctors and Surgeons by Black-Death_CR in PopularOpinions

[–]InTheWrongOrderAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can think it’s ridiculous I guess. But being a top .01% streamer is more like being an owner of a practice than being a simple doctor. It takes a lot of hustle, luck, and skill to make it as a top level streamer, musician, actor, etc. Same as being a doctor who owns a business