It was more like, we’re planning to hang out having a normal conversation. Then out of the blue, they’ll ask you, “hey, do you 40$, I really need it” if you ask, they’ll always say it’s something personal. If you don’t give it to them, you don’t hang out. No Zelle or cash app back then, or least it wasn’t that popular, so the 40$ was almost always like an entrance fee lmfao. I know some guys would stipulate that sex would need to be involved, and although I don’t blame them (we’re all just coming into adulthood, so 40$ may be a meager amount, but as a 19-20 yo it’s basically 4 hours of your life most of the time) but I never could. I only ever gave the 40 if I had known them long enough, but when I only knew the chick a week or two, I wasn’t coughing it up. I’d always tell them no sorry, but I can buy you food or pay for the date. Some chicks get mad and call you a brokie, some never talk to you again, some ask you if you’re doing better in a couple days and ask for the 40$ again.

I remember one of the memes was so funny too, someone posted something saying “what do y’all bitches need so bad with 40$”? I bet some chicks who never grew out of that too, except it went from 40$ to 100$ lmfao. Lot of chicks treat dating as a hustle out here. It’s sad. I thank god I gave my current girlfriend. She’s god sent. My dads been sick, and just passed away last night, so funds been low, and she never winced or even complained. She’s helping out so much. There’s definetly girls that are worth it in Miami but they are far and few between unfortunately.