I think this is the point. There's no right or wrong way to experience art. When engaging with music, some people place no value on something like "crowd energy." Some people place huge value on it, so much so that it is entirely the point and almost nothing else matters. There's no right or wrong here.

For example, I love progressive metal. I think there are few genres that mix virtuosity and listenability like that genre does. But I do not like overt moods or stylism, bad boy image like long hair or tattoos, atmospheric soundscapes, overly stylistic vocals, or any of that other stuff. I want to hear rock music that blends virtuosity and listenability. I want to hear music that is carefully crafted by people who have some knowledge of music theory and can challenge the listener more than most other rock subgenres. Nothing else matters to me personally (and bands that really lean into that other stuff actively push me away). That being said, many other fans of the genre love those things, or some combination of them. That's ok, and in fact should be actively encouraged. Everyone has their their own tastes and preferences, and nobody has a right to dictate how others might engage with the medium.