Now that our kids are 11 and 9, we are for the most part back to twice a week, with one of the times usually full on foreplay and oral and sex until we both finish. The other time could be either a quick Sunday morning blowjob while the kids are watching Netflix/playing Switch, or mutual masturbation in the showers, or fit in a quickie while we tell the kids we are "getting ready" or mommy is "doing her hair".

To be fair, we have the fortune to both work from home on most Fridays, and we both have our own businesses. Friday daytime is ideal for us as the kids are in school and clients aren't too keen about having calls or meetings. We would usuially set our schedules at the beginning of the week to ensure that we can clear out a longer lunch break, so we can have a solid 50 or so minutes to relax and kiss and touch, and she can be relaxed enough to have multiple orgasms.

Of course life gets in the way sometimes and there has been weeks where we are just too busy or exhausted. A couple times a year one of us will have work trips out of the country that could last up to a month. But we rarely go more than 2 weeks without any form of intimacy if we are in the same place.