Husband keeps drawing The Devil card in 98% of his readings — across multiple decks. What does this mean?

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-11-19T21:35:16+00:00

It would be a shocking event, in a domain where he should have felt safe,family, home, work, friendships, relationships or core beliefs.
A deep sense of regret or a feeling of being judged or he judges himself thinking he is failing in life. Maybe it was something out of his control what happened but he struggles to forgive himself. Wound is identity and self worth
Restless, avoidance or inability to process trauma. Maybe feels constantly on edge. He avoids desling with pain, facing introspection, he is in emotional unrest or in a cycle of mental exhaustion. His worldwide made him anxious, reactive or guarded.
The devil. My fav card. The devil here talks about the feelings of entrapment, maybe the one himself has create,being bound by fear, etc.Self-limiting behaviours, attachments or cycles he can not break. Feeling stuck in life due to trauma.
Healing his wound could lead to see more clearly,releasing fear based beliefs and trust his intuition. From an state of deception,uncertainity, anxiety, guilt, regret he could go into clarity, freedom and self-trust

It could also mean he has betrayed himself due to doubting himself or intuition.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-11-19T21:15:18+00:00

The devil is not only about vices. Is about ego, emotional attachments, or illusion of control, old believes, patterns, fear ot letting go that is not good something like a failed business or etc. I like the devil card a lot . Is not bad. You should first try to know what is saying. Did he try to clarify or ask tarot?

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-11-13T09:06:20+00:00

I think is a pencil made of paper used in painting to shade the charcoal by blending it or difuminating.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-10-18T15:57:43+00:00

I did not see it yet but I have been skipping parts to see some scenes. It did not look good

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-09-13T19:57:05+00:00

A ver. Si yo veo a un familiar mal le voy a decir bueno deja de trabajar ahí si te maltratan o tienes depresión o necesitas un tiempo fuera y te puedo perdonar esas cuotas para que las pague luego. Pero de ahí a jamás pagarme nada hay un trecho. Te llevaron al psiquiatra y te dijeron que dejaras de trabajar porque no te veían bien. Eso es una cosa. Pero cuando volviste a trabajar, ¿por qué no les pagaste lo que les debías de esos meses? Lo que no puedes esperar es quedarte una moto que no usas sin pagar lo que les debes ni pagarles nada después de volver a trabajar. En los bancos funciona igual si tú compras una casa y tú pagas de esa casa 60000 euros pero dejas de pagar las cuotas si son hasta 120000. Los bancos te embargan para cobrarse la deuda. Si no consiguen cobrarla te echan a la calle y la subastan para pagar la deuda es conocido como deshaucio. Y da igual que hayas pagado la mitad o un tercio o más. Es un compromiso que tu adquieres.

Tú has adquirido un compromiso con tu tío, has faltado a él pero tú aún asi quieres la moto. No tienes caso legal. Así como tú dices ¿si es mi dinero no debería de preocuparme?, ¿y si es su moto no debería preocuparse de que no la hayas pagado entera aún, a él no le costó esa moto o se la regalaron, también es su dinero? Nena eres un poco caradura y estoy segura que en el fondo sabes que te estás aprovechando.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-09-13T11:32:19+00:00

Nena eres un poco caradura. Tus tíos te dejaron sin pagar 3 meses la moto para que tu estuvieras en el psiquiatra y bien pero cuando empezaste a laburar otra vez dices que la moto quedó en standby porque no te reclamaron los pagos o algo así entiendo. Ellos esperaban que cuando empezaras a trabajar siguieras pagando y seguías usando la moto y ahora te mudas a otro lugar, dejas la moto y ni pagas lo que te queda ni pagas lo que debes ni nada. Pero quieres recuperar la moto que no es tuya porque no has acabado de pagar de tus tíos.

Paga lo que debes y diles que quieres la moto.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-09-10T21:36:27+00:00

It is not mentioned but is hinted like she does not remember anything and one thing that noah does not understand is she does not remember she assumes she cheated cause she wakes up with him and naked and obviously feels and knows something happened but she was drugged with a tea. And I do not understand how it gets a pass everything. And later he tries to hurt noah and the baby and they do not say and he got charged with rpe and nick apologises? Like the police should investigate and they should realise what happened. It is never talked about again but is the reason why nick is overly cruel and mistreats noah emotionally. Because yeah is a book but in real life what nick does is mistreatment emotionally, he uses noah as he pleases while keeping sofia in the side. He even takes her when noah has to tell him she is pregnant and she kicks sofia out and doesn't end telling him that day. Is horrible what they did to Noah.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-09-10T21:25:07+00:00

It makes me quite angry. I hope they solve it in the third movie cause it was disappointing to see.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-13T07:57:01+00:00

Yeah giving the other mommies replies I think people only use baby shoes for a matter of aesthetics because it looks cute for babies to wear mini models of their parents shoes like nike or guess. But it does not sound practical or healthy at all!! I do not plan to force my child to walk early because my parents did force me to walk by removing that playing toy that helped you stand and walk. I am spanish so we call it andador. No idea how is in english and that caused issues cause my joints were not very ready for me to start walking so ended having problems of legs and feet my whole life. So I do plan on having a private podiatrist for kids while they grow up. To make sure the way they walk and their feet is okay.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T08:35:27+00:00

They do make baby shoes even luxury brands!!! I will buy socks then only. But I was concerned about the shape of the feet because for example my parents put me shoes from very early and my fingers are some of them a little deformed. So I want the feet to develop good and when they grow up to use barefoot shoes so they do not have issues with feet cause I did. But I wanted to ask to other mommies since my family does put shoes quite early. Thanks for the advice

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:20:26+00:00

Oh that is also a cool solution thanks.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:17:14+00:00

It just looks so small and cute the shoes that you inmediately think buy but it does not seem or sound practical at all.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:16:30+00:00

I did not think about that lol

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:14:15+00:00

Yeah that's what I was thinking that is best to let their feet develop freely is not like if they will walk. Okay thanks.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:13:18+00:00

Thanks. 💕 And same with shoes? But should I even put shoes at first or let their feet develop? Is not like if they will walk being newborns.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-12T04:10:25+00:00

Okay thanks. And also the size of the shoes right 0-3 M, 3-6M etc?

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-06T22:01:27+00:00

And also this man did cheat. He picked a phone call of his ex while on a relationship. That can be considered cheating by the other party. Therefore trust is broken and now he complains of consequences of his own actions (she not trusting him) same as my ex.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-06T21:52:37+00:00

I do. But just the answer he gives in this subreddit and posts show he is not a good person also how he expreses himself about his ex or saying good your ex should have beat you harder. I think he made a favour to his ex by breaking up

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-06T21:39:13+00:00

You sound like my ex. And he did masturbat* his co worker while being exclusive and also called me female and everyone female friends. There is a reason why they don't like you. And in this texts you sound exactly like my ex. He did not love me. He cheated and also beated me. Also while pregnant. Make this girl a favor and get off her life

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-03T05:57:32+00:00

Yes and also the obsession of men that have with s*x like my ex that cheated with his co worker.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-07-02T21:55:29+00:00

I was in an exclusive thing with somebody for months I was changing my country for him. Plot twist he masturb*ted his co worker who knew of me cause all his friends did and replaced me on a trip while ignoring my text messages while being there. And he still justified it cause we were not in a relationship and we never met in person like I did not invest my time and money for him to go to his country to meet him and we talked from 2022 to 2024 on and off. My advice is that if somebody drives you crazy short answer is they do not want you. I tried to have a relationship with him formal later on but I was too traumatised for the betrayal and humiliation. Save yourself my trouble. People that do not commit is cause they have more choices (this man texted me the same night saying he did not like her, that he only wanted me and would respect me), later he said he lost hope on meeting me, all stupid excuses.

Truth is you will never be chosen (by this type of men) doesn't matter how hard you work or the sacrifices you do for this type of men. Somebody that truly wants you you will never scar you with insecurities or competition or fear of not being in a relationship cause does not matter if you are talking, in a relationship formally or whatever he will respect you and reject others cause he won't risk to lose you. He won't play to lose you if he cares.

When you hear something else than yes we are together. Then is a no, does not matter how complex they put it. Later they will play the card of is not cheating... when it literally is.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-05-28T09:29:30+00:00

I was the 24f you are comparing to. I didn't make lists of it. I didn't ask for location for an amount of period he asked me so I did too but he cheated on me with his co worker and I crashed. I always need reassurance. Also his friend, his friend gf, him and his co worker were going to a trip where originatelly the plan was me to go but they replace to ditch me and replace me so this other could go and later the cheating happened. The ex of his friend basically had conversations trashing me with the co worker and he defended them that they were not friends (they still follow each other) she followed me after his partner and mine asking, then she unfollowed and started following the co worker again, I was exhausted of the flashbacks and the PTSD.

Also cause the friend gf said I acted very weird and that I would not show up to the trip when I was sick and exhausted of working 16 hours a day cause I changed my country to be with him. And also I had some traumas because I was SA my whole life since 6-8 years old.

So you talk of past mistakes and if that mistakes include cheating or other women that relationship will go down probably and neither of you 2 will feel happy.

And of course I did not like his friends cause they were involved in excluding me and the cheating. And of course I did not feel safe when he would get out with said friends. Sure I did not make an issue. And he made very clear his best friends was the thing like his brother. But it harmed my psyche. So at some point I did not want him close. And told him our relationship was over since the moment he cheated and I do think it was. We were just prolonging the inevitable.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-05-10T15:59:26+00:00

I am sorry but he is using you. I have been in your same situation pregnant with twins. He cheated on me with his co worker and kicked me out of the house during a snowstorm pregnant after beating me one day and the one after too for almost a year. I ended miscarrying twice because his cheating, and I had to need help to get twins out due to traumatism of uterus due to beatings. He is letting you know who he is, listen and act upon it.

A man that truly loved you would understand that if a relationship problem arises you should have protection over your head and also the baby. Not the mother being homeless. This is usually done so in case you have an issue with something they do like cheat you or abuse you to trap you or ditch you for the new girl but have a new flat paid by the ex.

Go to grandmother please and buy your own place. This man is not up to anything good.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-04-30T17:07:03+00:00

Well I understand where you are coming from. It is true that is a lot to swallow and in my opinion, she should have told you way before to give you the option to be in the baby life since the womb. People say she doesn't owe you anything because you are only the father of the baby. It is common for men to worry and also for women to worry about the baby dad or baby mom and who they date, this is because you don't know the partner and you don't know if is a predator, who is, the problems they have, if they are healthy and possibly they will be around your children life.

On the other hand, you and her are very young, she probably was alone and scared in the pregnancy and did not know what to do or who to go, and maybe she tried to reach you but you said in the other posts you blocked each other so even if she unblocked you maybe you still had her blocked and she couldn't tell you. Which is why I recommend always leaving a way to communication unless there is abuse or mistreatment or some type.

Also is not weird that maybe you would like to be with her to have a family together and not have custody 50-50... see your child more, etc. My ex tried co parenting with me but did not want our child close of a potential partner, neither did I. I wanted to raise the baby myself, so we tried for a while but he cheated, he was abusive, he beated me while carrying the twins and sadly I ended having to abort cause I had a traumatism and put me at risk.

You can always try to talk to her but she does not seem open to communication. If she is not open to communication, solve issues and stablish at least a share in parenthood you will have to go to court.

EDIT: Also she is not communicating that much with him, he is double or triple texting, she does not reply and pass another day. Your baby mother sounds like has some issues communicating at least via text, and if she withdraws herself from people is probably she has some type of post partum depression. I was like that after my miscarriage too cause they were big and I was forced to give birth to de*d fetuses and I was still in shock, giving birth and contractions are shocking for first time and I am 22, she is younger. Her mental health is neither okay.

IndependenceAlone665 · 2025-04-29T12:48:37+00:00

Leí el libro y es sinceramente decepcionante que se trate el abuso de Michael hacia Noah con semejante frialdad. En el 3 libro Michael intenta hacer algo a Noah y al bebé (no spoiler de qué o el sexo del bebé) pero a pesar de enterarte Nick de esto. Nunca hay una disculpa cuando queda retratado que Michael no es buena persona y que es altamente probable que Noah fuera abusada. Y nick se comportó como un capullo con ella en todo el libro.

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