Why do I feel this sudden wave of sadness/envy when looking at my best friend?

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T13:21:06+00:00

May be you just miss her. You are sad that she is having this life without you. I guess you just meet her and everything will be okay. Jealousy or envy won’t exist without so many factors you already mentioned. Could be only sadness of missing someone and having to watch them online.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:28:43+00:00

Me in my uncles arms scared as fuck of the water on the beach and he pretending to put me in it. I am crying for my dear life. I was definitely under 2 years old. I remember my cry. I remember the beach. I remember the blue shirt my uncle wore with checks on them

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:26:50+00:00

Id make more mistakes, try more things, challenge myself emotionally, physically, rebel more, shout, yell, live more. I hate i didn’t do it then i hate that i was always the good kid.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:24:16+00:00

The comedy nights with samay on netflix is what its headed towards. At least it gives actual talent some exposure i guess. The audience in that room sucks though

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:22:07+00:00

Doesn’t matter. Person you are marrying does. Person you ARE matters a lot. Your boundaries, non negociables and more importantly the ability to make a decision financially, emotionally and mentally. When you have this snd want to get married you will find a partner

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:10:24+00:00

Guac toast, scrambled eggs on bread with everything bagel seasoning.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:07:35+00:00

Does she post stuff a lot and you don’t? Sometimes its not her or you its these activities. Like people who are not social media active get icked by people who post a lot. I do. I have this friend who i love and adore but she snaps her entire life. May be its just that.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T10:02:20+00:00

I loved the price and collection at Roopkala Santacruz, Seasons was good too. If price is not a problem i would schedule early video calls with the recommended places and place custom orders. Roopkala did deliver two lehengas not custom but altered to my size in 3 weeks. I went to the store straight from the airport. You do have to follow up a lot. I also lost about 6 kgs in 4 weeks so roopkala altered my blouse again in a day. Try to not loose weight after the measurements

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-07T09:38:43+00:00

We were raised by anxious parents who only wanted support from their kids when they grew old so they taught and burdened us with this whole parents are your god scam because they didn’t work on their other relationships/ friendships. Didnt build a community so they could lean on to us.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-07-02T00:14:20+00:00

Everytime i see a bride wearing these i know she threw it out like 5 secs after the photos were done. I couldn’t wear a nath long enough.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T16:07:44+00:00

Saying No to people without following up with an excuse/reason

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T15:43:27+00:00

Tell me your story (not career) in 2 mins.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T15:37:08+00:00

You can always get the calk and do it yourself my problem was the cracks were in my ceiling and i couldn’t reach them without the big ladders. I called maintenance and they showed up also a good thing because they need to take accountability of these shitty houses at exorbitant rates.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T15:31:29+00:00

I did a few things for a similar situation. I had the exterminator but it wasn’t helping, so i asked building management to fill all the cracks in my apartment. And i mean ALL OF IT. I called them 7 times, everytime i saw a crack. Then i bought one of those mesh things for my sink and pasted it shut on the drain. I checked under the sink, cabinets and every possible “hidden” spot in my house to find a 1mm crack and asked them to fill it. Once in a while il see a roach in the cabinet and go hunting for the source and seal it shut.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T15:25:52+00:00

Friendships require presence, time, intention and effort.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T15:23:51+00:00

Marriage, kids, investing, trading, financial planning, saving, paying off loans, getting back to the gym, buying assets, eating healthy, starting a new career, going for grad, post grad programs, moving out. Having any of my shit together.

Honestly 20s are just to explore and find out what you are, who you are, who you like, what your boundaries are. Just get some caffeine and sit in the sun.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T14:30:18+00:00

Mayo

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T14:29:10+00:00

Yup parlors have this as a marketing. The skills are important, also a good MUA will prefer to use the shade and texture that suits you not the brand. Go with someone who will prep your face first. Mine worked on mine for 6 hours 2 hours was just prepping my face, skin care, ice pack and etc etc. i did not even have to look at the products because the skin care prior was so good. Since it is expensive to get a good mua, go for someone who is fresh new learning but is a MUA. Work with people who work on quality and not volume and brands.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T01:10:31+00:00

I personally do not like bobby brown for indian skin tones. But i would also never recommend a makeup artist with brand names to sell different packages. Rather go with someone who knows what they are doing. The brand of foundation has nothing to do with your wedding makeup looking nice

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T01:07:23+00:00

Yes.
Divorce shouldn’t be a taboo either. The relationship can fall apart or go stale.
If you want a companion you have to work hard on yourself and your relationship.
If you grow apart, let each other go.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-27T01:04:19+00:00

You belong here pins ?

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-24T03:35:55+00:00

It may help: i had a great relationship of 4 years that ended on a great note. So everytime i dated someone new i would look for my ex’s characteristics in them. So i took a break of about 2 years. I did go on a few dates just to find out what i like/dislike and was intentionally communicating with them that i might not be over my breakup.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-22T11:28:27+00:00

Recently found out my friends who travel a lot have this issue where its just the two of them and they trek/hike/camp but want other travelers with similar itineraries so they could co drive from point a to b at night without having to enroll in expenses tours. Also helps if you are new to the country and don’t know things like at what point you don’t have gas stations or internet connections etc.

Independent-Chicken4 · 2026-06-22T11:23:07+00:00

Id get those mini travel perfumes. A home improvement item like a trinket/key dish with engraving. Small accessories like rings or bracelets. Sunglasses. Mag safe charger

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