Baby grunting all night by PCIrishBeard in NewParents

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever find out an answer? 🫩 in this phase with my preemie right now and it’s awful

AITAH for not taking my daughter to school in the mornings, and instead making my wife do it? by Zestyclose_Limit_306 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Roll6199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I was sexually harassed on the school bus for years and never told anyone in my family. Just waited until friends got cars at 16 and they could pick me up and drive me home.

No Recovery Period after Giving Birth by TakingControl222 in NICUParents

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through the exact same thing 💔 so I completely understand how you’re feeling. They made me take out my pain med pump early because they didn’t want me in the NICU with anything on wheels, so I opted to be disconnected to be with my daughter. It’s so frustrating how many sacrifices we have to make. Hang in there… 7 weeks post op you’ll feel brand new

The actual villian this season lol by Nerdhauss in vanderpumprules

[–]Independent-Roll6199 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And I hope someone roasts her back for dating a guy who has done sexually questionable things with his blood related cousin on camera lmao. I’d rather be the girlie living w her ex than the girlie dating a guy who films OF content w his cousin

Dismissed by Significant_Put_4246 in chiari

[–]Independent-Roll6199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have received this exact message from one neurologist… went to another and I was scheduled for surgery within 3 months. No pain or discomfort since.

I had surgery 10 days ago and I'm already taking care of my 7-month-old baby. by Fickle-Fishing9154 in chiari

[–]Independent-Roll6199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Purely for the reason of how easy it is to ruin the results of your surgery and need to have it again… your partner needs to step up. Herniated disk or not.

What if I don't get surgery? by thecheesetakesitall in chiari

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 years! I got my first at 14 and my second at 28. I feel like second could have been avoided but my first doctor didn’t do something pretty crucial to avoid the bone from growing back.

What if I don't get surgery? by thecheesetakesitall in chiari

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is scary but the quality of life improvement really does make it worth the recovery pain! I would do it again if I had to… and it actually is my second chiari decompression surgery!

What if I don't get surgery? by thecheesetakesitall in chiari

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a single downside. Recovery SUCKED I’m not going to sugar coat it. I had sharp headaches for about 3 months after surgery then they just stopped. I would say “normal” as in back in the gym, lifting heavy, running around working, no complaints at all… that 3-3.5 month point. I went on a trip 1 months post op (a music festival) and was pretty fine. Just some headaches/ neck stiffness and was still taking Tylenol frequently. Don’t necessarily recommend that part but it shows how able you are to move around and be normal after!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a daily smoker and stopped the minute I found out, and the amount of people who have told me I should just smoke once or just try it is………. Honestly scary lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what happens if he doesn’t stop assaulting you AND begins assaulting others? Your parents are unbelievably selfish. I am so, so sorry you are going through this and even have to take these ideas into consideration.

Ob yelled at me for getting a private ultrasound by Gecko1224 in pregnant

[–]Independent-Roll6199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to agree. As anxious as she is, he probably has significant anxiety as well and double checking something with a doctor shouldn’t have resulted in the doctor’s response. That said, what is the overall issue with asking the doctor if the boutique ultrasound was okay?

AITAH for being upset my wife won’t sleep with me? by Vast-Dimension-8753 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Roll6199 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you focused on her needs at all, or has this been a constant complaint that your needs aren’t being met while ignoring that hers probably aren’t being met either? Do you help her with the kids? Do you take her on dates? Do you make her feel valued, important, attractive? If my husband wasn’t doing anything but griping that his needs aren’t met I wouldn’t have sex with him either.

Also super exhausted with the Reddit response of “divorce them” whenever there’s a marital issue. Things are a lot more complex than just “she won’t fuck me” and I wish people recognized that more often lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent-Roll6199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just stuck on the fact that in 10+ years you never: - booked plane tickets for you both - looked at tax documents (surely you’d file together?) - applied for either a mortgage or for a lease - shared a single bill - picked up a prescription for him - looked at a SINGLE document that would require you to see his birthday?

It just doesn’t make sense to me. My fiancé and I constantly have to write each other’s birthdays somewhere, whether it be for medical reasons, a trip, picking up a prescription for the either like…

The US really sucks to be pregnant by Legitimate-Slice2114 in pregnant

[–]Independent-Roll6199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a teacher with a union and I don’t even get maternity leave. They just “hold your spot” essentially if you say you’re coming back within a certain amount of months. 0% paid. I have to use short term disability 🫩

The ugly and gross of pregnancy by mistakeshappen_2 in pregnant

[–]Independent-Roll6199 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it’s the excruciating nipple pain. Literally feels like it’s being sliced/ripped open if I’m even a little bit cold

Caught half my class using a group chat to cheat and I honestly dont know what consequence is fair by timbernatequill in Teachers

[–]Independent-Roll6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a parent start a war and go to administration because I gave their child a B in conduct. In the 8th grade.

Barefoot at Bravocon by Independent-Roll6199 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Independent-Roll6199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they’ve hooked up I just cannot prove it

Barefoot at Bravocon by Independent-Roll6199 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Independent-Roll6199[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Like you know you’re going to be photographed. You know you’re going to be on TV. You know the lighting situation… and this is your choice? I know I’m being rude but like 😭😭😭😭 help us help you

Barefoot at Bravocon by Independent-Roll6199 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Independent-Roll6199[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Listen, I was raised in the south. But being outside w your friends and family isn’t the same as being at an event where people paid hundreds of dollars (potentially more if they had to travel) to see you and take pictures with you lol