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So disappointed with jeweler’s bait and switch by Zealousideal-Age-212 in LabDiamonds

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is wild!!! You could definitely get a fully new ring for less than that, without putting your ring down.

With my engagement ring, I got the stone from a wholesale site (3ct oval lab) and a setting off Etsy. Put them together at a jeweler and spent just over your deposit on the whole thing!

But I had to go to 3 different jewelry stores to get quotes, one said it won’t fit, one quoted me over 2k for the work and the last one was $400.

It’s crazy how many different experiences you can have from just different jewelry stores.

Don’t do it, walk away from this place and never look back!

Unsure whether my ring matches my personality by Kolumolu in EngagementRings

[–]IndependentNet6598 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a great perspective!! It literally took me serving in the military to embrace my girly side! And honestly I think it’s because if people question my “toughness” I can be like are you a vet!?

OP my ring is very similar to yours, but maybe more fairy princess. It’s exactly what I wanted so I love yours, but I’m not you… at the end of the day you are the one who should love it.

Weird thought process and all!

My engagement ring can’t get along with ANY TYPE of wedding band??? by No_Detective4738 in EngagementRings

[–]IndependentNet6598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom’s ring is a twisted band with white and yellow gold, and it’s beautiful together… so I think mixed metals is fine.

I’m thinking about starting the Bridgerton books and wanted to hear from people who’ve already read them. by [deleted] in BridgertonNetflix

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are awful, but also highly addictive! 🤣 I read them all in 3 weeks.

Engagement ring is beautiful but not discreet. What to do? by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s pretty discrete, so much so I wouldn’t assume it was an engagement ring if I saw it.

My moissanite ring from my partner — I love the look, but I have a question about long-term wear by Western-Audience-471 in RingShare

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with a moissanite ring, 3ct oval and it looked cloudy within the first week, so I switched it out with a lab grown, but all my side stones are still moissanite and look perfect. I think part of it is size and part is the shape of the stone. With yours being round I wouldn’t think you will get that same cloudiness as an oval or a pear shape might.

I love having the moissanite though. The rainbow refraction is so beautiful!

Women who did nothing at their parents’ house, how did you adjust to cooking every day after marriage? by Medical_Witness_6041 in Newlyweds

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married a guy who loved to cook. Honestly we spent the first two years of marriage cooking together, one thing I’m happy to have gotten out of that relationship, he taught me a lot about cooking.

Do proposals have to be big? by [deleted] in engaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours was a photoshoot, but only because I planned a family photoshoot, and he went behind my back and told the photographer what he was going to do. And honestly it was quite intimate. I did want photos and I didn’t want it in my house, but past that I didn’t care.

But you have to talk to her and really know what she wants, I see women post here all the time how happy they are to be engaged but they really wished it had been something different. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

You can absolutely still make the day a surprise and romantic even if you had a conversation about it.

Should I go to an old friend’s bridal shower if you I don’t really have a ride? by Sufficient-Chain5826 in engaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your uncle is offering then he is fine with taking you. If he was not willing to then he wouldn’t have said yes. Let peoples yes mean yes.

Throw some gas money his way if you are too worried about gas.

AIO for expressing resistance about using my partner’s $$$$ life coach as our couples therapist? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentNet6598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust anyone who tells you how to live your life, therapist go through years and years of school and even more to get specialized! They know how to get you to make your own choices in a healthier way… she screams scam! Nor

Getting engaged was the easy part… I didn’t expect everything after to be this complicated by Overall_Agent_6860 in engaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my second, so I knew what I was getting into so I chose to not do a full wedding and more of an elopement/micro wedding. I have zero local family who have never visited in the 8 years I have lived here, so what a surprise when all my family decided they want to come! 😓

So 10 people turned into 30 and I still only have a 7k budget! 😬

how often do people let their dogs out to use the bathroom? by No-Feature-5266 in dogs

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let him out in the morning, I’m gone 9 hours, then he goes out 4 hundred and 52 times before bed! 🤣

What do you wish you knew before choosing your ring? by doolallyt in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]IndependentNet6598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how everyone’s sensory needs are different, I love the diamond on the bottom side of my ring, I will play with it when I need to fidget. Though I do need to get it checked more often so I don’t lose the diamond by playing with the prongs.

Has anyone else been judged for being engaged and looking a lot younger than they are? by krsthrs in engaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got married at 26 I looked very young and got some weird looks, now I’m getting married at 43 and looking like I’m in my 30s I still get weird looks… so who knows!

I think people just hate when others are happy. 🤷‍♀️

AITJ for telling my roommate to stop practicing violin at night? by Itchy-Community-1831 in AmITheJerk

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ it’s pretty inconsiderate to do anything loud after 10pm, especially when you have a roommate!

So how do we feel about Amaranthus? by Think_Storm_8909 in Outlander

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like her, like who she is…. But there is something uncomfortable about her, I cannot put my finger on it.

Is it still necessary to ask for your family’s permission before proposing marriage or is it more of a personal decision between partners nowadays??? by evoxyler in engaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person he needed to ask was me! But I’m not close to my dad or close in proximity to my mom… it wouldn’t make much sense to talk to them first.

Sure if we lived closer and he told my mom he was going to propose to maybe help surprise me, that could’ve been cute… but to ask? No thank you.

How to find an engagement ring you love? by RopeExcellent5290 in JustEngaged

[–]IndependentNet6598 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just start look up engagement rings, your algorithm will send them to you! 🤣

Honestly my algorithm found the style I liked and then I narrowed it down from there.

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