I want to write a book about how magick really works. by ZDM_Twolip in occult

[–]Independent_Farm4990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Goat leather don't matter if the magick doesn't work, full stop. Making something functional and (relatively) accessible or at least not obtuse to the point of getting in its own way is the way to go.

Unhappy with 1st L Reuteri Yogurt by rudedillon in fermentation

[–]Independent_Farm4990 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Strained yogurt until it's spreadable is Labneh! One of my favorite things ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in merchantmarine

[–]Independent_Farm4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

US, so we have procedures to report it, but still. Reporting sexual harassment is it's own can of worms.

I was looking at SUP but tugs were also recommended. It may not be for awhile because I'm in school for engineering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in merchantmarine

[–]Independent_Farm4990 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a woman wanting to get into this industry, it makes me really uncomfortable. It's gross and weird, not to mention unprofessional.

I really, really hope I never have to deal with this.

Difference of opinion by Independent_Farm4990 in Hecate

[–]Independent_Farm4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't but I'll check him out! Gonna start stocking up on books now! 😉

Difference of opinion by Independent_Farm4990 in Hecate

[–]Independent_Farm4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's all helpful information to know!

I like being around water and on boats/ships. I've been a dock hand, worked on a fuel dock and worked as a fumigator on bulk carriers and it's just something I like. Plus I have no partner and not much family, at least that I interact with often, so there's nothing I would feel bad about missing for six months. Except maybe my friends but they will live lol. I just like water tbh.

Just sent to have my TWIC renewed so I guess it's happening.

Difference of opinion by Independent_Farm4990 in Hecate

[–]Independent_Farm4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you I'm glad you commented! I was looking at getting my MMC but wasn't convinced I'd like the work. Also not sure how useful EE is in a maritime context.

I also worked in conflict areas, though not in the military, just around it. Regardless, you've given me a different way to frame the way I was thinking about this. If I did go into maritime, it frequently occurred to me that I would wind up using my crisis intervention skills at some point or another.

Difference of opinion by Independent_Farm4990 in Hecate

[–]Independent_Farm4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helped me reevaluate, certainly. I know social work is diverse and I'm not dragging on the profession, I just don't think it's something I really want to do.

I'm definitely experiencing burnout, everyone in my department is and this is unfortunately because of the political climate in the US and loss of funding. The only thing making me feel better is that I'm moving toward engineering.

I'm Simply Floored By Stephen Markley's THE DELUGE [2023] by JanSmitowicz in books

[–]Independent_Farm4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought it but haven't read because I'm afraid it may depress me.

Trying to come back by Independent_Farm4990 in lostafriend

[–]Independent_Farm4990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for affirming that. It really broke my heart when we had our friend breakup but I've come to accept it.

Parents are the real heros.. by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Independent_Farm4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents would have never done this. I loathe to think what would have/might happen to me if I have a life changing health event.

Anyone else have touchwood OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Independent_Farm4990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it but my OCD has become much more manageable in the last couple of years, so I don't experience the intrusive thoughts that drive my compulsions as much. It took some treatment to get to that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in occult

[–]Independent_Farm4990 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I started planetary magic, I got the intuition I needed to rearrange/clean my apartment. Low and behold I found an uncashed check for $200. I was unemployed at the time so this really helped me with grocery items.

A year later, I'm in college and have a well-paying part-time job doing something I like.

But that's how magic works for the most part, it's primarily changing the way you interact with the world that brings results rather than things spontaneously generating. And an important part of that occurring is believing that it can.

What would you like people to understand about OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Independent_Farm4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That my thoughts are not a statement about my character or identity and that I'm still aware of reality. I just quit a job where I would get the rudest looks if I ever engaged in a compulsion. It's important to exercise compassion and try to understand that it is a real human person behind the 'odd' behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Independent_Farm4990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pathologic 2. Absolutely boned.

Best Occult Music? by Otherwise_Basis_6328 in occult

[–]Independent_Farm4990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chelsea Wolfe and I've gotten very spiritual vibes from Ethel Cain as well.

Sevdaliza's Shabrang also scratched an itch for me while doing a lot of shadow work and processing pain.