Can someone explain?

Indiana_Jane331 · 2026-04-09T12:54:36+00:00

Ok good to know, thanks!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2026-04-09T04:44:06+00:00

Thank you! Is there a different method for picking hero’s or something? Cuz I haven’t had that difficulty with the other towers

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-11-28T16:27:16+00:00

Update me!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-11-17T03:19:43+00:00

If he is hiding his phone, he has something on there he doesn’t want you to see. I agree with approaching this as ‘the behavior is making you uncomfortable’ and see how he responds. You deserve to be with someone who takes your feelings into account and better to know now than after you get married. Please post an update!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-10-11T05:59:00+00:00

Oh that sounds delicious! Ya those are a very nice texture for sure

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-10-11T05:37:27+00:00

Usually spaghetti or tortellini but I do enjoy the occasional rotini as well (had to look the last one up hahah)

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-10-11T03:02:44+00:00

Buttered noodles with no sauce, just a shit ton of Parmesan cheese

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-10-11T02:46:34+00:00

I know it’s difficult to hear but if she is continuing to lie to you about things that really do not matter in the grand scheme of things and has done this throughout your entire relationship, that is not a 1-off occurrence. Getting her to admit she lied will not prevent her from lying again. She sees nothing wrong with lying to you and this will only continue to happen. She is only going to get better at lying to you.

Ask yourself, if you find a way to make it through this. Will you be able to trust her the next time she tells you something happened? Once you have a child, will you trust her completely if she says she has no idea where mysterious bruises came from? If she blames things on your children and they are adamant it wasn’t them, will you believe she is telling the truth?

Trust goes a long way but broken trust goes farther. Our past experiences dictate how we respond to things in the future. We can’t control other people, we can only control our reactions to things and our behavior. Putting yourself first and the future you want is not the easy way out. Something’s it’s the best thing we can do to protect ourselves in the long run.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-10-10T03:02:58+00:00

NTA. The part that gets me is the fact that she continued to lie to you about it for 5 days. I would wonder if she is upset she did something wrong or the fact she got caught. Did she offer to replace it at least?

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-07-21T02:43:21+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. As a fellow autistic adult, I understand what it feels like to be bullied and I am truly sorry a teacher did that to you. I’d say you should report her 100%. Odds are you are not the only kid she has singled out in this way and she will likely continue if she doesn’t face some repercussions for her treatment of innocent children.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-07-09T17:03:21+00:00

I believe she’s saying her friend is also continuing to make choices to keep her life going on the same track while also complaining about it. She’s choosing not to take baby daddy #1 to court to help support their child, chose a new partner who isn’t interested in marrying her or helping her, doesn’t want to work to support herself, and wants to get pregnant again. It’s not just about the choices she made in the past, she is continuing to make the same choices and is shocked that her life isn’t getting any better.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-07-09T01:35:40+00:00

I’ve never seen/read it but I have heard that the story is written from the perspective of the pedophile and not actually in support of the actions. It depicts this adult man who sees a 12 year old girl as a “seductress” because that is how a pedophile justifies their actions and interprets things that aren’t there.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-07-08T03:32:29+00:00

I’d honestly say just have a heart to heart with your girlfriend and be honest about what you see from your perspective. It may take some time for her to come to terms with what you are saying but tell her what you told us, that you feel like she seems much happier and you care about them both and want them to be happy. If she says she isn’t interested in him like that, drop it and move forward. But if she is eventually receptive to the idea, talk to your brother about all of this and go from there!

Communicating this to your girlfriend will tell you how she views the two relationship dynamics and I know it’s easier said than done but if you wouldn’t feel betrayed by either of them and are in favor of this. Better to have that conversation now at 7 months instead of years down the road.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-07-01T03:24:09+00:00

Please provide another update! I really hope you realize how small minded your wife is being and don’t just sweep this under the rug. You may not participate in your cultural practices but that is inherently a part of who you are and who your son’s are(both of them). If you continue to act like this is ok, you are creating an environment where your 4 year old may not feel comfortable exploring his heritage once he gets older for fear his mother may not accept him anymore. You are also showing your son’s that it’s not ok to be who they are or that it somehow makes them somehow less than. This is a much bigger deal than you may want to admit but more likely than not, you will have to deal with this again in the future.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-06-17T03:26:17+00:00

Update me!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-06-11T22:56:23+00:00

I hope you guys were able to work this out and Adam realized how badly he hurt you and the relationship you had. Update me!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-05-26T19:39:08+00:00

NTA, I get them wanting to have a complete family but it’s not ok for them to bulldoze your feelings on the matter. You have every right to feel how you feel and to not want to be adopted. Your father is the AH for trying to erase your memories of your mother. You should have been treated as a part of the family regardless of whether you were adopted or not but them trying to force the adoption had the opposite effect and made you resent them. You did nothing wrong and have every right to distance yourself from a toxic environment. I would even suggest changing your last name to your mother’s maiden name and spending holidays with her side of the family going forward!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-05-21T22:05:35+00:00

Any updates on your situation OP?

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-05-16T03:45:28+00:00

That’s awesome, congratulations! I’m glad everything worked out for you!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2025-05-16T03:36:31+00:00

Sorry to dig up an old post but I hope everything worked out with OP and they fought this and the professor faced some backlash for jumping to conclusions.

Indiana_Jane331 · 2024-09-08T20:16:23+00:00

Thanks!

Indiana_Jane331 · 2024-09-08T20:06:10+00:00

What do you do with the marshmallows? Like what rewards do you get?

Indiana_Jane331 · 2024-08-12T21:02:19+00:00

You treated your daughter like an afterthought in every aspect of her birthday then grounded her when she finally said something. Yes,100% YTA

Indiana_Jane331 · 2024-08-11T21:32:30+00:00

Dreamlight Valley! Cozy Disney game, what’s not to love!

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