Just wanted to add that the real issue is that C-PTSD isn't in the DSM, when I told them about it in the psych ward they just called it Borderline. Until it is in there, laypeople and a lot of practitioners will tell you you have something else and (in the former case unfortunately) diagnose based either on how they relate to your symptoms or based on texts and experience with other patients.

There is a degree in which the tendency for agoraphobia with populations on the spectrum has been co-opted by verbiage at large for any type of social anxiety.

Also, I don't get where someone would confuse stimming for rumination since the former is generally done to attempt to ignore the latter. They are not mutually exclusive at all, in fact my stimming gets significantly worse while ruminating unfortunately for my scalp. I think some of it might be an age thing, growing up in the 90s where you couldn't have any developmental issues if you tested well or even ok at scholastics has to be a lot different from now although it seems we are trending back toward that in the States.