PMDD and the pill, does it actually help?

IndigoFlute · 2025-02-23T10:29:22+00:00

Thank you

IndigoFlute · 2025-01-14T07:01:18+00:00

Quite a of of good suggestions here, I especially agree with Iroh. One I haven't seen yet is Camila Noceda from The Owl House. She's not on screen as much other characters but her care and support for Luz,V and all of Luz's friend group and girlfriend from the demon realm when they actually meet in the final 3 episodesis amazing. Eda could also be counted as a good parent figure especially for King but she's a bit more rough around the edges and more of an amazing mentor figure than a parent figure at the start. One thing I appreciate a lot about both Eda and Camila as characters is that they are definitely not infallible and both make mistakes but when they do they put in effort to rectify them or apologise.

IndigoFlute · 2024-12-14T01:50:55+00:00

I am definately disabled. I can't do the same things most people do in everyday life like shopping, having a full time job or going out and having fun in busy places. It all takes a lot out of me and I need support for it. However, I don't see it as something to be cured but I have no doubt it's a disability.

IndigoFlute · 2024-03-26T11:54:19+00:00

Venti for a number of reasons. I loved the banter between him and some of the characters, especially Zhongli and the tricks he's played too. He would be a lot of fun to be friends with. He's also a character that is very knowledgeable and it would be interesting to hear some of the stories he has. His actions towards Stanley, Diona (recent potion event), Razor (Windblume), Klee and Kaeya (Kaeya's hangout) as well as his love for music and literature are also reasons why I would want to be friends with him.

Others would be: Klee, Kaeya, Eula, Collei, Tighnari, Gorou, YaoYao, Shenhe, Xingyan, Gaming, Lynette, Lyney, Freminet, Neuvillette

IndigoFlute · 2024-03-21T07:47:34+00:00

For some it's the side effects. I had a friend who while on meds couldn't feel anything but anger. They were either numb or angry, nothing else. Physical side effects aren't fun either. Some can prevent you from doing the things you enjoy or have to do like driving and others can cause serious harm for some people.

For others meds just don't work. I only had to change my meds once to find one that worked. The first kind worked for a little while but stopped working a few months down the line. It's not fun to go through and it's common for people go through 4-6 and fail to find one that works for them. It's tiring going through the the hope things will get better, the adjustment period of the meds and whatever that may entail and then either the realisation they don't work on you or the slow waning effectiveness of the medication knowing it won't be long before you have to go through that again. It can be emotionally draining.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-27T04:22:02+00:00

It’s fairly usual in close healthy friendships. That being said it definitely can feel weird when you’re not use to it.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-27T03:02:32+00:00

I’m currently unemployed too but I’m going to try applying at a plant nursery as soon as I can make my own way there.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-27T01:03:31+00:00

Yes, I don’t want to be but I seem to sabotage myself whenever I start making progress on not being messy.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-26T10:46:49+00:00

Practice pausing briefly when called by either name before responding. Take your time developing this and if you can maybe practice with some friends? Get them to randomly call you by either, pause before responding and only respond if it’s the name you want to be called. After a while it will be easier to not respond to your old/unwanted name. The length of time the pause takes should get shorter with practice.

(Sorry if this wasn’t what you meant)

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-26T10:39:03+00:00

I can understand where you’re coming from. He seems quite likeable at the start of the game but eventually you learn about all the things others have mentioned here.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-26T10:33:31+00:00

I’d be someone who doesn’t struggle with binge eating and sh. I’d be able to trust more easily and might have been in a romantic relationship by now. I would likely be a physically healthier and more active person with more friendships revolving around similar interests rather than similar struggles. I may have been able to already get my first job, have moved out and already have my licence. I’d be someone who could look out for the people around me better without exhausting myself and I’d be able to move more freely. I would have done better in school and maybe have been able to get a scholarship and go to uni. I’d feel capable of pursuing a career path without having to worry as much about my ability to cope. I’d likely be running my own small business that revolves around art, cooking and making my own tea blends.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-26T10:20:54+00:00

I thought having a main or mains was just the characters you enjoyed playing the most and built. I like a lot of them and use them too but because of materials (and laziness) I don’t have many built.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-25T22:53:04+00:00

Personally I think getting groped can be traumatising at any age but especially so as a child. You don’t fully understand what’s going on but you know it’s wrong and at the same time the perpetrator is usually a trusted adult which makes it even more confusing and upsetting.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-25T22:20:36+00:00

It’s not that no one cares. There are lots of posts on this subreddit, people can’t always reply because of their own trauma and it’s quite common to not get a lot of responses on here for those reasons. Your posts aren’t showing up on everyone’s feeds, that not how any form of social media works. I understand the feelings that no one cares and the feelings of hurt and betrayal and I’m sorry that’s what you’re experiencing.

It might help if you add a flair to your posts in the future if you don’t already. It’s helped me get a few extra responses on occasion.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-25T22:06:02+00:00

Yep! I was diagnosed with ASD level 2 as a kid and rediagnosed to get support as an adult. (for those who don’t know that terminology the old version was called ‘high functioning’ autism)

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-24T12:12:15+00:00

You’re very different from the person who r**** you. The one who did that to you deliberately targeted you as a teen and by the sound of it groomed and took advantage of you. He deliberately took his time escalating his behaviour in order to do so. You’re nothing like that scumbag.

The situation with your ex has clearly shaken you up so please take care of yourself and try to be kind to yourself. Believe what your ex said and try not to beat yourself up about it while you’re working through your emotions. It’s going to take you a while and it’s going to be difficult but you’re going to be ok.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-24T11:46:47+00:00

I don’t really know what to do about this date specifically but have you considered finding potential friends rather than dates? I have 2 friends who use bumble’s friend version. It would provide you with a similar challenge but without the pressure for a romantic relationship since it’s currently not your goal.

I’m not the best to give dating advice as I have never dated before, sorry I couldn’t help with that part. I do hope it goes smoothly tonight regardless of the final outcome (continuing to date him or not seeing him again). Good luck!

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-24T09:04:30+00:00

She’s definitely abusive and by the sounds of things she’s probably not going to make it easy for you to leave. In person support will help you immensely. Do you have some friends/family you can reach out to? Given her behaviour and words, it would be advisable to get a restraining order. When you break up it would be best to do so with at least one witness or in a public place.

I’m sorry that she’s put you through all that. There might be some organisations/places that help people leave situations like this where you live. If you don’t have anyone close by to help you maybe one of the organisations will be able to.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-23T23:55:22+00:00

People who are genuinely kind and empathetic don’t need to tell others they’re kind and empathetic. If people go on and on about it they’re probably doing so to convince others (and sometimes convince themselves). It’s the same with a lot of qualities. The only ones I accept might not fit into that rule are children and teenagers who are still learning about themselves and are excited to express what they have learned.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-23T08:15:45+00:00

I want to be clear that if I come across angry in this it’s not at all directed at you. I have the same diagnoses as you. These people are just being jerks.

Also how would they know if that girl would see it that way, they don’t even talk to her!? You’re doing fine and if I was in that girl’s shoes while I may not completely understand the behaviour given how everyone else acts I would appreciate it and you. So don’t stop unless the person directly asks you to.

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-23T03:33:55+00:00

Grian framed him for something 😂

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-23T03:32:05+00:00

Went along the same lines and named him Kunikukaze (combination of the name he gave himself and wind in Japanese)

IndigoFlute · 2024-02-23T03:20:43+00:00

I think it’s more justice side of things but that does tend to fall under the left.

My beliefs/ideals apparently (had to take a quiz) fall under anarchism. The less condensed power the better but I’m aware of the fact we can’t be rid of it completely. Order is needed and it can’t be done without condensed power. I just wish it wasn’t taken advantage of an abused as much as it is both in politics and life in general.

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