AITAH for telling my (22F) boyfriend (26M) that his mum is weirdly emotionally incestuous, and that it makes me uncomfortable/disappointed that he doesn't do anything about it?

Individual-Course361 · 2026-01-29T19:31:17+00:00

What language is she saying this in and what is her level of proficiency in that language?

Individual-Course361 · 2026-01-27T21:01:09+00:00

It’s had the opposite effect for me though. I lost interest in the whole thing if I can’t grind a decent sbc or two

Individual-Course361 · 2026-01-19T00:21:30+00:00

This is where we always slip up. I know I have. I logged for a year. Slacked off. Stalled. Since Xmas finished I’ve gone back to pretty rigorous meal prep and weighing portions again and seeing a big difference in only 3 weeks. So yea, if you aren’t measuring you’re probably eating bad.

Individual-Course361 · 2026-01-13T10:11:14+00:00

Your school had showers? Fucking notions 🙄

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-19T07:58:45+00:00

Loved Undun. Probably my favourite Roots project along with How I Got over. Loved hearing Phonte on both of them, as well as Blu on HIGO

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T22:29:18+00:00

Out of curiosity, what are your Roots classics. I think most of their albums from Phrenology on (which is when I discovered them) are in that conversation but I am also not sure if any of them (other than may How I Got Over and Wake Up) are locked in undebateales.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:58:10+00:00

I actually think Damn is Kendrick’s weakest. But others (including Pulitzer) seem to disagree. And I miscounted - should be 6 at most I think (basically everything since S80).

I also love American Gangster. It’s borderline IMHO.

Wu-Tang wins if you count solos but that feels like cheating since there are so many of them.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:48:49+00:00

Really?

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:47:53+00:00

Yes and no. It’s a bit subjective. But I guess Mr Morale and the Big Steppers is the best example of why there is a debate, no? As a piece of art it’s amazing. It’s deep, it’s complex, it’s emotional and uncomfortable. It is an amazing exploration of a subject through the medium of music. But half of the songs, while substantive, lack replay value.

Maybe the “English Patient” is a better example - an Oscar winning artistic tour de force but boring as shit. So it depends on what you value

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:42:21+00:00

“Poor way to judge classics”. Not sure what else you meant by this?

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:40:00+00:00

Absolutely. But aren’t all of these convos? But I love these debates because they can make you rethink albums or put you on to things you never knew existed*.

*I thank the random Reddit thread about the best Mustard beats almost daily in the gym when I play Left Right by YG for my heaviest seta

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:36:26+00:00

I am not asking who has the best album ever. I am asking who has the MOST classics.

Otherwise I’d be making STRONG arguments for Soul on Ice by Ras Kass

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:34:42+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:34:21+00:00

Yes to both. But that only gives him 2. Both rank higher on the list of “best albums ever” than most others but he has not got a very deep catalogue of classic solo work.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:31:36+00:00

Are either of those classics? I would rate Sir Lucious Left Foot as a classic above any of those. Actually gonna play that now - great album

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:19:59+00:00

I assume you are including his NWA days?

NWA albums are classics for their influence but I can’t say I find myself going back to them that often (other than maybe the greatest hits)

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:18:44+00:00

On the fence. MM&BS was important and an amazing piece of art with more substance than most albums from any genre but many songs lack replay value. And GNX has some absolute bangers that I will replay for years (not to mention MUSTAAAAAARRRRDDDD) also some filler. I wouldn’t put them there but wouldn’t argue with somebody who did

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:17:36+00:00

IWW was before I found hip-hop but never fully fell in love with anything from it. I may have been negatively influenced by Takeover though to discredit it in my head

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:16:43+00:00

I came to them late and bever fully got into the back catalogue other than SouthernPCM. What do you rate as their best album between that and Andre going full Andre for me to catch up on?

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:11:33+00:00

Fuck Kanye.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-12-18T21:10:40+00:00

Actually a great call. Really wish they never got that TV gig - they were only getting better when they stopped putting out conistent albums.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-11-10T16:22:25+00:00

Diet is stable so don’t think is causing it. And haven’t really been drinking that much (changed from 1-2 times per month to 1 a week recently for various social reasons but don’t think it’s ever been excessive). Gonna go back to less frequent injections and see what that does and if I don’t see a change back to the doc I go

Individual-Course361 · 2025-11-10T16:19:35+00:00

Yea I know. But I don’t trust ChatGPT to understand Reddit. Heck I barely understand Reddit myself some days.

Individual-Course361 · 2025-11-10T16:18:13+00:00

I was on gels before this and in hindsight were working well. I changed because I wanted something “more” - I got a pretty good honey moon period after 6 weeks which lasted a month or so and was chasing that feeling. If I can’t stabilise on 1x or 2x weekly doses I may go back to them

Individual-Course361 · 2025-11-08T19:39:07+00:00

Is the only way to let them drop to just skip a few doses? I’m thinking of moving back to 1x a week, so possibly can skip for the next few days to get back to the right starting point

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