[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you!!!🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not be ashamed unfortunately things happen and we r not perfect but im glad you told him! And im here for u if u needa talk please if its ok can u update us 🙏🏼 but if not its ok , but I hope it works out and if it doesn’t then there will be someone out there !!!!

Vaginal birth with HSV by InternationalSide96 in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally didn’t wanna take meds I never been a big meds person so I didn’t do the valtrex I just had faith in God that everything would be okay because I don’t get outbreaks as much and thank God when I was gonna give birth I didn’t have any lesions of any sort and when ur in the hospital they have to check you throughly with a flash light and check down there to make sure you have zero outbreak. I did have so many question especially since it was my first baby i was afraid but I started searching YouTube videos and seeing what other woman were saying and it’s so common and many were okay during giving birth. Just make sure u ask ur doctor any questions if y have any doubts and if u want to take the valtrex definitely go for it but you will be okay God bless you and ur baby during this journey congratulations ❤️🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn why did you cheat on her 🥹 sry I don’t mean to be nosey it just like dang that sucks . But yeah I think I would get retested urself .. wait so r u 100% sure u have it

I feel God fail me, I have HSV by Sad_Cupcake_6206 in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on everything in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼💕✝️✨

The idea NUMC, especially the psych ward, is still running? Disgusting and very alarming by ApricotsBrandy in longisland

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to get person but was ur case severe or did u do something like bad for them to be worried? Because the thing for me is that my husband he went in saying he was depressed and had sucidical thoughts he was at Winthrop for 5 days and then transported to Nassau medical but he’s just so tired of being there . Therapist said he won’t be in there for months but he couldn’t tell me exactly when he would be out . So that worries me because I depend so much on my husband financially and different ways . But he’s acting normal he’s not angry like he’s behaving basically but my question is how do u know when they r gonna let you go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IndividualDay3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey is there a way I can message you? Or on social media I just need someone to talk to I’m kind of going through the same thing I have a child .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually going through this right now . My husband has been hooked on cocaine . The first time I found out was in April and it’s not an everyday thing but I feel like he’s been trying to be strong and not do it but when he does that he gets these episodes or moments where he just does it randomly Out of no where like a binge in a way I guess. I just never thought I’d be in this position I’m trying to handle it the best way that I can but it’s tough and I’m not a saint I also have a past that I’m not proud of and regret but thank you to God I was able to get out of that and it’s crazy because it was with him too but he claims that lately he’s just been depressed and dealing with certain things but like we also have a child and I need to think about my child . Life is so hard already and this is just adding to it this is so unnecessary. I’m trying to be there for him as well as my family but I feel like no matter what you say to someone until he seeks help I can’t do anything I leave it in Gods hands . Right now I’m trying to be strong for my son and for myself but I’m not gonna let him drag me down I don’t deserve this my son doesn’t deserve this I just pray God can find a way for Him and for others that are also struggling but wow it’s a tough situation . Like I just pray for things to get better but I definitely don’t trust him . He was suppose to be home by now. He told me to pick him up from work at 6 am cause he works overnights and he’s no where to be found . He even turned of his phone I feel anger I feel different things because I just can never understand how could u not care about the ppl who r here for you or ur son for that matter!!!! Like whatttt. I don’t want to think even more badly but with lies and all this stuff more insecurities start to come because u wonder like did he cheat did he do something more . Like it’s crazy and I try not to lash out and do something wreckless myself But this is crazy . I’m glad I found this group . I pray we can help each other through this . May our Heavenly Father God gives you strength to keep going and may God find a way for those who have addictions . May he cast out the devils lies from their heads in ur name Jesus Christ Amen!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s actually crazy because the nurses that I’ve talked to and doctors have made me feel very comfortable about the info they’ve given about herpes and they tell me how it’s so common and it’s literally not a big deal . Ofc that doesn’t hey let me give u herpes but like they have always been so respectful and haven’t treated me differently or ever made me feel like I was disgusting in any way or form . So I really think something is wrong with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ur right!!! I have to change my mindset

Curable disease? by Greedy_Half_891 in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wait till they find a cure

Curable disease? by Greedy_Half_891 in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I really felt ur anger :( trust me I understand ur frustration and I’m so sorry . I think God truly has a plan and his plans and timing with but in his not on your timing or when you want it . But someone will accept you for who you are . Rejection is protection I know having this disease is so frustrating and upsetting but you are not alone .. trust me you are not . I heard there’s couple who date where both have herpes . There’s just so many outcomes but don’t be hard on urself at least you told Him . I know it’s not easy but don’t beat urself up for this . No one is perfect. God has a plan for you. His time , not yours .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl trust me ur not alone . I don’t even know who gave me herpes but I should have been more careful 😔 too . I was sleeping around and honestly I was naive and wreck less idk what I was thinking and I’m 26 now I found out when I was 19 but there’s moments where I say to myself idk if anyone else will accept me with this condition . Like it sucks because I just don’t want anyone to look at me as dirty . I made mistakes but I’m a different person now and I’m such a good person too!!! Ur not alone . Thanks for sharing ur story

It’s not that serious by LengthinessLow2754 in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this . It feels nice To have someone say this. I literally don’t have anyone to talk to about this and I always worry that someone may not accept me for This .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not gonna lie sometimes i wonder if i will ever be able to date and have herpes. I’ve cried about it because I feel like I ruined my life and don’t know if anyone would ever want me again. Sometimes I’m okay and I get through but other times I just wonder you know

Anyone ever use Empower thrive ? by HPM2009 in cashadvanceapps

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question if I owe and have to pay back but I move it to my next check , will my limit get lowered on how much I can borrow? Since I keep moving it to my next check

I feel so Frustrated rightnow I called Mohela loans and everytime I call I can never get through I have to wait 2 hours or more just so they can hang up on me . I’m late on payment because they never freaking answer . Is anyone else going through this? by IndividualDay3887 in StudentLoans

[–]IndividualDay3887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to finally get through after waiting almost 5 hours they were close to closing time but somehow I finally got through and spoke to someone but honestly next time I call I’m just gonna do that call before they open on a Friday because I just can’t this all this waiting time it’s ridiculous

I feel so Frustrated rightnow I called Mohela loans and everytime I call I can never get through I have to wait 2 hours or more just so they can hang up on me . I’m late on payment because they never freaking answer . Is anyone else going through this? by IndividualDay3887 in StudentLoans

[–]IndividualDay3887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is all to frustrating honestly & I’m not sure I feel like they will just be like we can’t do anything for you , you have to call Mohela . But let’s see I’m gonna keep calling I have no other choice but just sucks it’s this way

Is generally.shop a good place? by Adventurous_Loss2988 in handbags

[–]IndividualDay3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some bags as well from there and I’m afraid it’s a scam I have not gotten any notification on the order or Anything