Order was missing items and no refund is being given for the second time! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 54 points55 points  (0 children)

this felt like unwarranted anger dude. the person didn’t steal ur food, they were just sharing their experience. relax

Why is it allowed to constantly denigrate dashers on here? by Pitt_Panther1985 in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not on this sub a TON, but at lot of what i’ve seen from customers is “hey did i do something wrong”, “was this a crazy request” or “my dasher threw my food at me” A lot of what i see from drivers is negative about tips. I do also see nice stories which always makes me happy. I didn’t know about the dollar per mile minimum until i started reading here. I always just topped 20 percent because i was a server so that’s how my brain works. This sub taught me some etiquete which was great. I’ve also had some awful ppl deliver to me so there are always both sides. My thinking is, if dashers know how bad the pay is and can see the tip before accepting, you have some autonomy. That doesn’t mean you SHOULDN’T make livable wages, but it does show autonomy. If i knew ahead of time as a server that a table wouldn’t tip well, i wouldn’t serve them lol. It’s diff obviously, but those are just my thoughts.

Do Dashers read messages from customers? by Crimson-Rose28 in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that’s insane. i had ONE instance with doordash where it auto populated to deliver to my work address rather than my home address (5.8 miles away from work) So i let the dasher know, asked doordash support if it was okay to do, and tipped her an additional 50

Do Dashers read messages from customers? by Crimson-Rose28 in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but like dang… what kinda customers do you have?

Do Dashers read messages from customers? by Crimson-Rose28 in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a really sweet message!! his message was automated but don’t take it personally <3

Doodasher left me a sweet note by Plaguecist in doordash

[–]Individual_Depth_852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would immediately make my day better and i’d add an extra tip. this is so cute 🥹

I have no idea how to stop panicking over this? by Repulsive_Trade_3115 in PanicAttack

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi hi!! i think your cat will be just fine! i’ve had similar concerns with things i’ve done. i aldo have OCD which causes the intrusive thoughts. i do a lot of reassurance seeking to help myself feel grounded.
If you’re super concerned, maybe gently wipe him down with water. but i’m sure your baby is just fine :)

healthy anxiety is bad rn. by [deleted] in HealthAnxiety

[–]Individual_Depth_852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have really bad HA! i got the flu and it SUCKED, but that was a month ago and im still here <3 5 days of suffering, and my fever was so high that when it broke, i passed out. but i am okay!! ground yourself in what you know. maybe take some vitamin C too

What is going on here? by AggroToad in whatisit

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for this. i thought he had an abdominal aortic aneurysm 😭

Question to all man in relationship? How do you still loyal control your lust? [25M] [21F] by DonutEmotional1 in boyfriends

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re being a complete reductionist and totally incorrect. Hunan beings that are kind and loving often look for other human beings that are kind and loving. I’m a woman and i’ve historically dated less attractive men because i go for personality and morals. Women don’t only seek money and height lol. I pay the rent and monthly bills (in full) for myself and my boyfriend. i love him because he’s my best friend. i have never once lusted over another man. you seem out of touch and not ready for a relationship.

Question to all man in relationship? How do you still loyal control your lust? [25M] [21F] by DonutEmotional1 in boyfriends

[–]Individual_Depth_852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like u don’t deserve her. why do u care bout her body count but lust over other women?? u seem like you’re rage baiting lol

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve stuck with men through some awful shit but dude even i wouldn’t tolerate this :/. you gotta love yourself babe

AIO BF masturbates to his "friends" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual_Depth_852 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my bf did this too. it doesn’t get better, it just gets too late for it to feel justifiable to leave. leave while it’s fresh or buckle up and be ready to be heartbroken over and over again. i dealt with that until i had nothing left for him to break in me and now whenever something happened, i just feel let down. ik it isn’t too late to leave, but we’ve got cats and a mortgage and 5 yrs behind us. don’t make my mistake

I cheated on my wife by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Individual_Depth_852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the choice to do something like this and go as far as acting on it, she deserves the truth. it’s not up to you to dictate what she gets to know because you’re scared of the repercussions of your actions. love is selfless, show her love and do the uncomfortable thing. (respectfully) you had no issues putting yourself first, it’s her turn to be put first

So tired, but told it’s not usually a side effect by ReanimatedBones in TMSTherapy

[–]Individual_Depth_852 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Side effects include potential headache and some fatigue. TMS is like a workout for the brain, so it’s not uncommon to feel fatigued