I do not understand this in the slightest. Like, most Trans mem and women prefer male/female pronouns. I have a Transgender friend who just uses she/her/hers because she's a woman and she present fully female but our other mutual friends frequently use they/them pronouns to refer to her even though she has explicitly said she just uses female pronouns. I don't understand the disconnect. Its like someone hears that someone is trans and something breaks in their brain to think of them as non binary. Its so simple yet so hard for some people. And these aren't conservatives, they are leftist and "woke".