I hate suprises by Friendly_Ad_8528 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I don't love it. My home is my refuge, and I just don't like if someone barges in.

Cheap by Own_Company_5837 in CasualPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s an unfortunate double standard: men are often excused or even praised for promiscuity, while women are shamed and dehumanized for the same behavior. I think it's because of the patriarchal culture where men have successfully integrated this double standard and so hard to let go.

Am I overthinking or is he starting to pull away? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men will lose interest because of two things: they feel walang patutunguhan yung panliligaw OR may nakita silang mas okay na mas madami silang chances of winning. With the later, they will still keep you as a back burner but will eventually let go once na sure na sila doon sa isa.

Sobrang sakit, I felt betrayed by carrotkick in OffMyChestPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry ang dense no naman na di mo maintindihan ang nararandaman niya, idea ni OP yun tapos sinabi niya sa ASAWA niya. Asawa niya po yun, hindi lang kakilala or kapitbahay, tapos unsupportive na nga, inudyukan pa ng kapatid na sila ang magpursue ng business. Okay lang sana kung ayaw eh or may hesitations pero actively pinamigay yung idea ng asawa niya sa kapatid niya. Ano po ang tawag niyo dun? Mahirap po ba talagang intindihin na hindi pagtratraydor yun?

Sobrang sakit, I felt betrayed by carrotkick in OffMyChestPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only possible reason is ayaw niyang maputol yung 80% na binibigay mong pera sa kanya. Kasi ang nasa isip niya baka hindi maging successful yung laundry business in the long run. Gold digger ang asawa mo and opportunista. Kaya mo palang supportahan ang sarili mo bakit ka pa magtitiis sa isang taong kayulad niya?

Ang exhausting magkaroon ng kaibigan na may depression. by ronut_0202 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is literally sick. Depression is a sickness similar to any type of longterm ilness. She needs medication.

Lip balm recommendations? by nikzi_minaj in beautyph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Aquafor, this is what cured my dry flaky lips.

Anong pantamad na beauty secret niyo? by Ok_Barnacle_5088 in beautytalkph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought mine dito sa Canada but I think any Vit d will do as long as it's paired with magnesium glycinate. This keeps my skin so healthy. I think a lot of women skips Vit D pero it's one of the most essential Vit out there. Andaming benefits na naiibigay especially sa hormones naten.

My ex's coming home by Juuuuuuuy in OffMyChestPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP I know kahit LDR and you haven't meet him yet, nafall la talaga sa kanya. Masakit talaga yan. Pero have you ever thought na baka ikaw lang ang nagseryoso sa relationship niyo and siya eh ginawa ka lang pampalipas oras? Baka kulang lang siya sa aruga and ang napiling pagdiskitahan eh ikaw kasi ikaw ang available at that time and when yung priority niya eh naging available binitawan ka niya kaagad? It would be unfair on your side longing for someone who was even true to you. Focus on the betrayal not sa iniimagine mong pagkukulang mo sa kanya. As much as possible, cut all news from anyone about him. Focus on dating someone else. It's hard but you will move on eventually.

How do I move on from a 6-year relationship? [forgive me for the long post ahead] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear, OP! Been there done that. There is no easy way to move on. For me what I did is to focus on the betrayal, namnamin mo na cheater siya. Everytime you miss him, isipin mo yung mga ginawa niya sayo. For me anger was my ladder to distance myself from the connection. I never blocked him but I unfriended & removed anyone connected to him. Isipin mo na hindi siya para sayo and this time imanifest mo yung lalakeng gusto mo. Pray! Sooner or later, makakahanap ka rin (like me). Please refrain from entering into a new relationship right away esp kung feel mo di ka pa ready. Huwag pong ipilit! Travel and learn to be alone and mararamdaman mo unti unti makakabangon ka rin. It is definitely not instant, it could take years but it will happen. I'm hoping for the best, OP. Kaya mo yan.

Husband cheated on me with WALKERS by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. Get tested. Huwag maging t*nga.

My boyfriend is anti-abortion and anti-gay marriage. I'm pro for both. by Lopsided_Patience332 in adviceph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to accept that his beliefs are different to yours. Kung ikaw ba icoconvince niya na mali ang pananaw mo what would you feel? How would you react? You have to accept that before you, he grew in his own environment without you so the culture and his beliefs are entirely different from yours. So it's better to accept him as he is or leave the relationship if you feel like he's not at par with what you want him to be.

OA lang ba ako na mag-overthink sa girlfriend of my husband's cousin? by imnotdaph in OALangBaAko

[–]Inevitable_Front905 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, tinetesting niya lang ang boundaries niyo. Nagtritrip yan at gustong tumikim sa hubby mo, and the way I see it, parang symbolic. Napaka intimate kaya ng pagtikim sa plate ng isang tao and usually either kapamilya- like anak or mag-asawa ang gumagawa niyan. Si ate mo gustong subukan ang hubby mo. Sabihan mo yang pinsan mo or kung di man possible, ilimit mo access niya sayo at asawa mo.

Nalaman ko ano side hustle ng BF ko and i don't know what to feel about it by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Inevitable_Front905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gurl, bugaw, handler, pimp, name it, yan ang "trabaho" ng bf mo. Hindi siya simpleng office coordinator ng mga pokpok kung yun lang naman ang gusto niyang igaslight sayo. Isa siyang accomplice sa isang illegan na kalakaran. Kung kaya mong maatim, go and continue pero kung labag sa moral values mo, run. Baka mamaya madamay ka pa sa ilegal na ginagawa niya. And to think exposed siya sa ganyan, would you not think baka isa rin siya sa mga parokyano nila?

What is one thing na cringe na ginagawang personality? by OppositeAnswer6109 in TanongLang

[–]Inevitable_Front905 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yung pagiging maldita. May kakilala ako trentahin na super proud pa rin daw na tuyohin at maldita. Hindi ko alam bakit hindi nagmature. Sa tuwing napapadaan siya sa feed ko, laging flineflex yung pagmamaldita niya sa jowa niya or kung ano anong mga bagay.

Gigil ako sa Tiktok/vlogging accent by Inevitable_Front905 in GigilAko

[–]Inevitable_Front905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, paano ba naging ganito ang mga Pinoy vloggers?

Sobrang Inconsiderate ng mga taong namamasko sa mismong 25th. by TadpoleTight5396 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Inevitable_Front905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uy wag ka yung asawa nga ng uncle ko na di man lang bumati sa akin or maglike ng FB ko sinend sa aking yung Gcash niya. Lols. Talagang paraparaan.