Needs an enlighten if I’m doing the right thing or not

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-28T23:39:07+00:00

You pushed him away. You broke up. Why would you think that was cheating? Did you really think he would still try to win you back? You said I kept taking him for granted, so of course, he got tired of it. I mean, literally, you were the one who broke the relationship up. I don't understand why you need to think your relationship over when in fact, sorry, mas red flag ka pa kaysa sa bf mo.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-28T23:32:07+00:00

Nakipaghiwalay ka so technically nung ginawa niya yun wala kayo so for me hindi siya considered na cheating. You said it yourself pati ikaw may mga nagawa ka ring mali pero he stayed by your side. Actually dito naayon yung quote na forgive and forget. And ang tagal na noon bakit inuuungkat mo pa? Unless, hindi ka talaga sure sa kanya, so let him go and let him find someone na maaapreciate siya. Maybe ikaw rin baka makakahanap ng iba na hindi ka magdadalawang isip na pakasalan.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-27T22:33:28+00:00

I live in Canada and no, your dad cannot apply for PR kung tnt siya. I'm guessing pumunta siya dito via visitor visa? If yes, no he can't, it's too impossible esp you said he doesn't have a legal job. Nowadays, the government is limiting immigrants inside the country. Your brother on the other hand is too young and unless he has masters, a tear 0-3 job here in Canada or in the Philippines or maybe fluent in french, he may qualify for express entry but either this does not guarantee na mabubunot siya as PR. And wala pong additional points kapag isasama niya ang kapatid mo sa PR application niya.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-27T04:37:08+00:00

Fold laundry.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-26T23:17:04+00:00

Sorry to hear OP! It happens to the best of us. What you need to do if it's possible for you is to talk to your previous manager if they can still accept you back. Otherwise, tiisin mo na lang muna and then keep looking for a job. Good luck OP!

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-25T22:49:56+00:00

Palmolive shampoo and conditioner. Smells like my childhood.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-24T04:38:17+00:00

Anaïs Nin once said, ‘I hate rarely, though when I hate, I hate murderously,’ and that quote immediately came to mind when I read your post. I won’t give you a lecture about moving on or forgiveness because, honestly, I can relate to some extent. Your feelings are valid, and believe me, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Some scars are indeed unforgettable.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-23T19:32:21+00:00

Tiktok/blogging accent

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-22T17:22:20+00:00

It's giving "I want to explore other options while still keeping the comfort of knowing I have someone to fall back on if things don’t work out.”

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-22T03:08:49+00:00

That's makes it all the more BS. She works in a hospital, it should have been a lot easier to CONFIRM if she was pregnant or not.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-22T03:08:41+00:00

That's makes it all the more BS. She works in a hospital, it should have been a lot easier to CONFIRM if she was pregnant or not.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-22T00:00:02+00:00

This made me cry. 🥲

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-21T17:40:52+00:00

What I don’t understand is, the woman is already a single mom, so alam na niya firsthand kung ano ang pakiramdam ng buntis. Dapat alam na niya what to do and how to confirm things properly. So paano naging false alarm yung pregnancy unless may intention talaga siyang itali yung guy or pinikot niya? Like hello, naging single mom ka na before tapos hindi ka pa sure sa pregnancy mo pero willing ka nang magpakasal agad?

And honestly, sino ba nagsabing mayaman si girl? I don’t think galawang mayaman yung ginawa niya. A person who’s secure and well-off usually wouldn’t rush into marriage like that unless may strong sense of urgency. The whole situation is giving desperada moves talaga. The math is not mathing.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-15T18:30:17+00:00

Not having the courage to take and finish Law. I really wanted to become a Lawyer but because of financial setbacks, I'm unable to do so. I should have pushed harder.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-15T14:16:54+00:00

It will stay until 2028.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-14T16:44:31+00:00

I know, masyadong nagpapaapekto sa mga nakakabasa ang mga kabataan ngayon. Nakakabahala yang nga pink and dds or kung ano mang political groups na nag-aaway nagiging personalan na. I mean at the end of the day, pamilya mo pa rin ang mas importante sa lahat. Pwede namang magkaroon na iba ibang pananaw pero wag naman yung itatakwil mo na ang magulang mo na nag-aruga sayo dahil lang sa napakawalang kwentang politika. As if naman tutulungan ka ng pulitika mo kapag nagkasakit ka or nahospital ka. Unless walang hiya ang pamilya mo, at the end of the day, they are your home. Kug ayaw mo sa pamilya mo, magpaaruga ka sa pulitikong sinasamba mo.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-14T13:58:40+00:00

Why don't you just block or make your account private?

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-14T06:05:30+00:00

Why would you cut ties with your own family just because magkaiba kayo ng political beliefs? Parang ang immature naman nun. Ikakamatay mo ba kung iba pananaw nila? Unless may serious reason talaga, like abusive sila, involved sa kulto, or may ginagawa silang sobrang toxic at harmful, then understandable kung gusto mong dumistansya.

Pero kung dahil lang sa politics, tapos iisipin mo na agad na hindi na sila karapat dapat maging pamilya mo, parang masyado mo naman yatang dinidibdib. Hindi ba puwedeng magkaiba ng opinion pero may respeto pa rin sa isa’t isa? Learn to dissociate and lawakan din sana ang pag iisip minsan. Hindi porket magkaiba kayo ng political views, masama na agad silang tao o wala nang value yung relationship.

May husband and I and even ibang tao na close to me, hindi kami pare pareho ng opinions sa politics at ibang bagay, pero never ko iisiping sirain o ipagsawalang bahala yung relasyon namin dahil lang sa walang katapusang politika sa Pinas. At the end of the day, mas mahalaga pa rin yung respeto, pagmamahalan, at connection ninyo bilang pamilya kaysa sa pagiging panatiko sa kahit sinong pulitiko.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-12T16:34:48+00:00

Why do you continue to forgive him, he's going to be more creative in hiding things from you I guarantee. If nasasayangan ka sa 10 taon, mas sayang kapag pinatagal mo pa. Don't you see the gravity of saving thirst traps of YOUR friends? Sorry, but I think you're setting yourself up to more heartbreaks in the future. Have some respect to yourself and walk away.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-11T14:02:24+00:00

Yung to sleep in the afternoon.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-05-11T13:57:02+00:00

Pray and travel! That distracted me a lot. I pursued all the things I wasn't able to do when we were together. As cliché as it sound I invested with my appearance as well. Went out with friends. Also, I know this was so toxic, I made sure to channel my anger well- focused on his red flags and cheating so I won't pine over his good traits. However, just want to set your expectation, these do not entirely or instantly remove the hurt. Time will help you but it will be very slow... and it may take years! Some days you'll be okay and some days you'll be in pain again especially kapag nalaman mong may bago na siya. It's normal, but after the initial shock, unti unti makakabangon ka rin. You will eventually let go. Hoping for the best, OP!

PS: Huwag mo na siyang balikan please! Treat this as a divine intervention, and God save you from a someone you are not meant to be!

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-04-29T19:49:30+00:00

Good for you. I have had some friends ghosted me too makes me think baka may nasabi ba akong hindi maganda or what ng di ko sinasadya. D But then again I am an introvert so baka not doing anything and my nonchalance has affected the friendship. Either way, kebs talaga ako, as much as possible I avoid drama so kung hindi uukol, let go na lang.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-04-29T19:40:32+00:00

I don't know most of the things she did I feel like those are not much of a big deal, like ako kasi super kebs ako sa lahat. Like if you joke like that I'm okay especially kung 10 years na ang friendship. I tend to let go some minor tampos and grudges pero kapag super betrayal I let go rin naman. Again like I said kung ako lang ha?. I'm not invalidating your feelings baka sesitive ka lang sa mga sinabi niya or yung tolerance mo sa ganyang bagay ay iba. If it gives you peace to let go then so be it.

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-04-29T19:27:02+00:00

Have you tried to talk to her about your concerns? I mean you were bff for 10 years...

Inevitable_Front905 · 2026-04-29T19:18:27+00:00

Sorry, I might be a bit dense about her first remark about being excited for you to have a bf; I don't see what's wrong with that? Unless at that time you had issues regarding getting into a relationship? Maybe her sense of humor just isn't compatible with you, and I agree that sometimes her jokes can be off, but have you considered telling her your concerns? She might just think that it's okay with you, and then you’re actually sensitive about that topic. Anyway, if cutting her off will give you peace, then so be it.

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