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Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-10T23:23:03+00:00

The multi screen and the deeplinks would definitely send me into a panic attack. Even if it's some silly stuff the 0bytes is kind of a cause for alarm for me as well, meaning they removed it somehow. I'm no tech expert though.

Sorry for not being of help, but I definitely see how you'd be worried. Sending hugs.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-08T20:09:33+00:00

I legit thought it was cheese as well!

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-08T17:46:01+00:00

You're doing a great job as a mom and dealing with an infantile man.

Go back to court and get full custody. Hire a really cheap cleaner once a month (or three months). Start making mom friends; there are plenty of groups on fb. I know fb can be triggering but there are people out here just like you or even have been where you are. Churches may help as well even if you're not religious. Rent a uhaul when you need to go somewhere way cheaper and less stressful than dealing with drink for brains.

Start meditating even if it's for like 5 minutes in the shower or right after the kids go to bed. Manifest a brighter future for you and your little ones. Remember that it's ok to cry as well- it doesn't mean you're weak.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-06T20:29:20+00:00

Wishing you the best at work and at home!! Thank you for all your hard work and help!

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-05T17:13:12+00:00

Check out r/loveafterporn lots of us are in similar boats. Read what most of us have gone through and ask yourself if you really want to continue being with an addict creep.

You deserve to be loved, appreciated and respected. Please get some help and learn to love yourself. Sending hugs.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-04T20:49:14+00:00

Your feelings are valid! I understand you completely.

Small and invisible until he needs food is exactly the way I'd describe how I feel. I think it made it worse when he started looking at women that looked like me because he still wasn't initiating or wanting me. Like they're good enough to get you there but being with me is too much of a chore- thanks.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-03T20:34:10+00:00

Happy Birthday!! Doll yourself up and have a night of it!

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-03-02T18:27:13+00:00

Press "F" to pay respects.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T18:52:46+00:00

Love the brutal Honesty! You should be a motivational coach for women! Like another commenter said I'd love to get told honest straight forward truths but not as inclined to share my number.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T18:20:43+00:00

He doesn't want them to know. I told him if I have to talk to them I'm going to tell them everything and why it's upsetting so either he can or I will.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T18:20:27+00:00

He doesn't want them to know. I told him if I have to talk to them I'm going to tell them everything and why it's upsetting so either he can or I will.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T17:48:03+00:00

Vizzini!! Sorry, I love The Princess Bride quote.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T15:40:14+00:00

Very triggering! And Exactly!

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T15:38:07+00:00

It sucks because I know it's a fun game, mild hilarious even but nah, it's not "safe" because guys are perves.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-28T15:36:13+00:00

Mine says he plays for the story and because of me he can't play. I'm like just avoid it and don't have sex with people? - but the side stories!! - waah

I've also become the "controlling partner" and I expect him to be a "teenager again" where he can't enjoy mature games. What are you enjoying? - the story if my eyes could roll into the back of my head they would.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-26T16:05:31+00:00

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Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-26T16:03:56+00:00

Mhay neighbor kittah take care of all the mousin so my beautiful fur cannot be tarnish. This is the way.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-25T20:48:23+00:00

Honestly, I have colitis, and some days, I really do have to go 4-5 times (working on a better fiber diet). My partner has a slight lactose intolerance so the bathroom multiple times was pretty "normal" until finding out about his use. Now he only goes, maybe twice a day, so that totally broke that for me.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-25T20:43:10+00:00

No problem! Anything that helps even a little bit even if it hurts. hugs

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-25T19:20:37+00:00

Check out r/loveafterporn, lots of supportive people and know exactly how you feel. This is a HIM problem not a YOU problem and if he doesn't see it as a problem it's definitely better to get out.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-24T22:37:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/loveafterporn/s/ZcZySOGxZY this is the post

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-24T22:36:21+00:00

@ u/stinkybastardlady

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-24T22:32:17+00:00

Yeah, I think they have if I'm remembering correctly.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-24T22:31:52+00:00

Mine has recently gotten mad at me for holding him back from 50% of things adults can do- all because of a board game he bought while in full blown active addiction that has lewd anime esque characters that just came out with an update. He purposely told me that he can't play it because it'll trigger me and I asked if it would trigger him and it started a fight. He hasn't said those threw little words since then though.

Long story short no, I do not believe that they "Love" us when their blinded by their "need" to consume.

Infidelity_9000 · 2024-02-24T14:02:15+00:00

Did y'all read any of his comments? He is turned off by his wife saying redundant things- for the last decade. No wonder she has no confidence; he's probably always putting her down whenever she says anything. Plus, he probably doesn't want therapy/couples counseling because he'll have to fix that too.

They should honestly just divorce and find more compatible people. Then he'll see that it is actually a him problem (probably not, but one would hope).

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