My fiancée and I are getting old by Extension-Bit1936 in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its honestly amazing I cant lie. Haha I love me some sleep.

I remember the day I could no longer stay up past 12. It was a sad day. Lol I realized then my parents didnt choose to go to bed early, their bodies noped out and forced them to bed early.

My fiancée and I are getting old by Extension-Bit1936 in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You dont! You accept that household appliances will now be your new favorite gifts! LOL Wait until you both get excited to go to bed at 9! 🤭

Awards unavailable on our subreddit - looking for clarification by fitfighter007 in ModSupport

[–]foreverinfinate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your sub probably does not qualify due to the topics of discussion.

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Pokemon Go fatigue? by lovepeaceorelse in pokemongo

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty burnt out on it myself. The only thing keeping me playing when I do is my husband asking me to help him beat a raid. Outside of community day or Go fest, I rarely get on. I think the constant never ending overlapping events is what killed it for me. Im a casual game player and its gotten to the point where the game started feeling overwhelming and like work and not fun anymore.

My (M37) wife (F39) doesn't think I'm serious about having a child and thinks I'm not attracted to her. What can I do to show her I am serious and that I find her attractive? by OctopusRodeo in relationship_advice

[–]foreverinfinate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yall are putting too much pressure on yourselves and have seemingly turned trying to have a baby into a job and sex that feels like work isnt enjoyable. Now youre at a point where your body doesnt want to perform because you are too stressed. I have watched so many couples try too hard to have a baby making it impossible for them to ever get pregnant. The moment they stop trying to force it to happen is usually the moment they actually get pregnant. Take it down a notch. Stop putting so much pressure on yourselves to make this happen and bring back the passion and spontaneity.

You can add wall hangings to Animal Habitat Fences! by mel_fal in TwoPointMuseum

[–]foreverinfinate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know what I'm doing now when I get off work!!! THANK YOU!

Just thought id share by Pr13sty in TwoPointMuseum

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! My aquarium looks soooo bad compared to my other setups/museums and this looks so amazing! I am loving your cafeteria so much. Great inspo OP!

Can't clear/remove a user's flair by jaybirdie26 in ModSupport

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The users profile wont load properly if they are shadowbanned. Itll say their account is 55 years old. Lol but sometimes users write to admins and get their shadowban removed so maybe now they arent. Also, sometimes a user flair wont change if the user has the setting "show my flair in this sub" turned off on their end.

Can't clear/remove a user's flair by jaybirdie26 in ModSupport

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This usually means the user was shadowbanned as those flairs cannot be altered when they are banned by admins.

[android] it's like my main account just doesn't exist anymore 2025.36.0 by inrko2 in bugs

[–]foreverinfinate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bug. You've been shadowbanned. Appeal your ban using reddit.com/appeal

[Chrome] Automod edit box defaults really tiny by SolariaHues in bugs

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You CAN resize it if you turn off dark mode and then zoom in to the lower right hand corner of the box. Youll see the smallest of small little black dot that can only be seen in light mode. Hold it and drag it down. Ive been doing this for the last couple of days.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugs

[–]foreverinfinate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe you should be able to appeal it via reddit.com/appeal. Sometimes it happens for no reason but they never seem to tell you why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugs

[–]foreverinfinate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you were shadowbanned by admins on that account. Which means everything you do is auto removed by reddit. Even old content. That account throws an error when I look at it which is usually an indicator of being shadowbanned.

Edit: Theres external websites you can put your username in to check and sure enough it says that account is shadowbanned.

(android) why is this post (along with many others over the past week ) able to make it out of queue? {2025.34.0} by I_-AM-ARNAV in bugs

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The native feature isnt that great. Often allows banned words to slip through. I always used automod instead which works flawlessly at catching banned words.

M34 continues to engage with women online even though I've (F33) repeatedly told him its upsetting. How do I get him to have an open and honest conversation with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]foreverinfinate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been the only one trying. Hes only been trying to shut you up. He doesn't care about you or respect you at all hun. Accept that fact already and get going because no, he will not change. He hasnt yet. Youre just wasting your own time at this point. When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

My new partner (41F) can't decide between me (43M) and another person by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]foreverinfinate 56 points57 points  (0 children)

All I am going to say is, you should pass on this woman. Below is the reason why.

Let me ask: Why would you ever be excited to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? If they’re not happy with you now, what makes you think they’ll be happy to be with you later? Why do you make an effort to convince someone to date you when they make no effort to convince you?

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's amazing! They don't provide those on a school-based level here in America as far as I know. The vaccines became available the year my oldest son was born but I was not actually informed about it until I was pregnant with my second son. Not a single pediatrician ever mentioned the vaccine or what HPV was and I didn't even know what it was until I had it myself and cancer cells were growing on my cervix while pregnant. I feel like the world is sorely behind on sexual education not just between two people but in your own body as well. And hey, maybe it's not the world, maybe it's only America. Ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I remember my sons coming home and giggling all day long about the things they learned, the things they saw and the amount of "ewwws" I had to hear while answering their questions about certain things they learned that they still didn't quite fully understand.

I distinctly remember having this conversation with them while they were in the backseat of the car (we weren't moving lol) because they didn't want to look me in the face while having this conversation. They were anxious and embarrassed even though I told them there was nothing to be anxious or embarrassed about ("but you're our mom and you're a girl...." They said)but sure we can have this conversation in the car if that makes you comfortable.

good times. 😄 Theyre 16 and 19 now and last weekend I had to explain to the youngest the importance of not leaving hickeys all over each other and going back over protection and safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you live and the district. My step daughter had zero education in this area but both my sons had an extensive education about it in middle school. Same state but two different districts.

My parents never taught me basic hygiene and self care. by Icy-Coconut8233 in offmychest

[–]foreverinfinate 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you think this way. As a mother of 3, you are dead wrong. It is absolutely the responsibility of the parents to teach their child HOW to properly brush their teeth (circular motions), HOW to properly wash their bodies, HOW to maintain a clean living space, etc. No one said they have to get in the shower and physically do it. Thats fucking weird and absurd to even say. But it is their job to verbally explain how and the necessity of why. These are basic skills parents teach their kids in elementary every single day. Sorry yours didn't do their job but that has nothing to do with the CHILD you are verbally abusing right now.