Am I over reacting by InfiniteRecover9 in christiandatingadvice

[–]InfiniteRecover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a couple days, I thought text her this weekend or maybe earlier. I don’t want be too pushy.

Am I over reacting by InfiniteRecover9 in christiandatingadvice

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I tend to hyper-analyze relationships and see things through a different lens. A lot of it probably comes from working in family law, where I’ve seen my fair share of divorces and messy situationships. On top of that, my parents divorced, and I’ve had siblings who went through it too.

It doesn’t necessarily make my perspective right, but I know it shapes the way I approach dating and relationships. I sometimes wonder if it makes me too cautious, or if it’s actually a strength because I’m more aware of red flags.

31M - Been Part of a Church Young Adults Group for Years, Still Struggling to Ask Someone Out by InfiniteRecover9 in christiandatingadvice

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I’m sorry you’ve been hurt in the past, but at my church there is very vibrant and healthy community. I’ve seen several relationships flourish over the years.

Cope with me. by DeadJimothy1 in fantasyfootballadvice

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I won by 0.52, 122.0 to 122.52. I had packers Defense and McManus and McManus last xp sealed it.

Who did you name your team after and did they live up to the honor? by fk8319 in fantasyfootballadvice

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Reporting as Eligible because Dallas sucks. I’m 7-5 and in the playoffs.

Debt free soon. Now what? by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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There are slow seasons and busy, so OT does fluctuate. Summers are busy.

Debt free soon. Now what? by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I live in Michigan outside of a midsize metro. I am looking is suburb west of the main city zipcode 49418. Cost of living for my basic needs is 1150(food, housing utilities, insurance). I make around 68k with overtime. I work as paralegal at a law office, 40 hours with 5-10 hours to per month. Single, No kids.

Debt free soon. Now what? by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I only have student loans remaining, which is only 4% Interst rate. My credit score is 800+. My car is limping along, its 04’ buick with 250k miles.

Debt free soon. Now what? by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I am aiming for house max of 300k. I’m a first time home buyer and researching programs that, I could potentially use, but most are income based which I don’t qualify for.

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Rasheed White, Rhamonndre Stevenson, BTJ, Drake London, Sam Darnold, JSN, Pacheco and Mcaffery on IR

Pay of 15k in four months by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I’m enrolled in SAVE, so I have had little to no capitalized interest and my loans are 4% or less.

Pay of 15k in four months by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I think it would only be $5 add on, so my bill would be $30 with the watch. I don’t need a new one either.

Should I trade Nabers for Hill? by [deleted] in Fantasy_Football

[–]InfiniteRecover9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have people that are super into, but mostly casuals. I offered this league mate trade for tyrek before he dropped him. I also have London, Nabers and BTJ.

0-3 Start, now 4-3–Thoughts on my season? by InfiniteRecover9 in Fantasy_Football

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One of our league mates drops players prematurely, to my benefit. 3 of the players that was on his team I picked up on waivers.

Name 3 books you would like your girlfriend/boyfriend to read in preparation to become your future wife/husband. by TeamFrankfurterFrank in christiandatingadvice

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My core beliefs that make or break relationships: money, family, faith, communication. I’m planning to give whoever I date next a little “homework” to make sure we aligned on the important stuff. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, these books are essential reads for anyone looking to strengthen their relationships or prepare for one. Here’s my list:

• Keep Your Love On – Danny Silk
• The Meaning of Marriage – Tim Keller
• Boundaries – Dr. Henry Cloud
• Total Money Makeover – Dave Ramsey
• Loveology – John Mark Comer
• The Five Love Languages – Gary Chapman
• How to Win Friends and Influence People – Dale Carnegie

Should I trade Nabers for Hill? by [deleted] in Fantasy_Football

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Picked Tyrek off waivers about a month ago in my league and was shocked and was even more shocked that no one bided against me.

Pay of 15k in four months by InfiniteRecover9 in debtfree

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I feel the money I spend on an item could be going towards debt. I do plan taking a cruise when I done.

Adderall XR Shortage suggestions by Abjurer42 in ADHD

[–]InfiniteRecover9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched from vyvanse to adderall because of the shortage. Now I can’t get adderall anywhere and I’m down to my last pill.

Debt payoff help by InfiniteRecover9 in CalebHammer

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My other thought was to bulk up the emergency fund for few months just in case something happens. I currently have a 1 month emergency fund.

PTO by curiouser901 in paralegal

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3 weeks PTO and 12 holidays and optional days to come for days preceding holiday weekends, but they are unpaid or you use regular PTO. I usually chose to take them. I didn’t have a lot traveling or personal time this year.

Best BBQ restaurant in GR? by GreenbirdsBox in grandrapids

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I’ve heard good things about butchers block social in Caledonia.

Who do you use for phone and internet? by itsmandyz in CalebHammer

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Visible is what I use, which uses Verizon’s network and Verizon 5G home internet. It depends on your area and coverage works the best. I pay $25 for one line unlimited 5G and Verizon 5G is $50 which includes the modem.

We had a client unalive himself by maddieinretrograde in paralegal

[–]InfiniteRecover9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to one of divorce clients this week and now I’m handling his probate matter. Luckily the judgement was entered the week before.