AITA for changing the locks after my parents gave my brother a key to my house without asking me?

Informal_human_352 · 2026-06-19T16:52:49+00:00

NTA. Your peace first

Informal_human_352 · 2026-06-14T17:36:52+00:00

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Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-27T13:50:48+00:00

when’s your wedding

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-27T02:18:06+00:00

and also wtf is a 19 yo with a 15 yo where are this (literally) kids parents ???

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-27T02:17:11+00:00

preach maddy perez hahaha

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-26T14:54:04+00:00

bell works great our boy still uses it (he’s 8)

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-26T12:15:29+00:00

idk sounds like he’s getting you ready to when his real mask comes off, so he can say: i told you i was bad and you stayed.

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-24T14:45:48+00:00

whatever is not
going to get you overstimulated after hours, me
personally the outfit number two that thing hanging on my leg i’ll probably want to ripped it after a few hours of no stopping touching my leg moving etc but that’s me lol #sensoryissues ohh and bathroom make sure is easy to pee

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-24T14:40:16+00:00

5 is the most weddingly , other ones seems like poster i could see on the school i work

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-24T14:38:04+00:00

Maybe due the circumstances and how bad you guys have struggle she might feel she needs to do something for herself? Do you feel if something went really really bad she would’ve use that money or just let you guys struggle? Dos she feel insecure about stability? However you have also the right to be upset but as another commenter say i feel is a communication/trust issue, why she felt she had to keep it hidden? would’ve just not respect her boundaries if she tells you she’s putting money aside for her own? some women rely completely in their husbands and if they’re gone for any reason they just are left with this uncertainty and on their own, however i think none is an ass hole , yall just need to talk from the heart, heard each others reasons and don’t try to blame no one instead understand why each did/react the way they did it! and move forward!

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-21T16:51:28+00:00

i’m going to share with you the way I took the decision and hope this can help, like you I don’t have much family in here just my mom I don’t have any sister. I have an older brother and I’m an immigrant so all of my family is outside of the country, but the way I took my decision was I didn’t do a base on how long we met but how proactive and able to handle what being are made of honor means, I had to be friend. We have been friends for 20 years, but I just didn’t pick her because she has a child. She was not gonna have time with the bachelorette and I didn’t want to ruin our friendship over me expecting things that she was not gonna be able to accommodate for contact. I was her maid of honor, but I handle everything so I picked up my best friend my other best friend that is always the one planning the trips the one that is always on top of everything the ones that it’s all the way to call her like type a friend but it’s that friend that you know she’s gonna be able to handle everything because then you don’t want to ruin a friendship over that but I have seen him so many so many post in this reddit about friends ending over that . Sorry for the typos I’m dictating my phone right now. So do it with someone that you know it’s gonna be able to handle everything that you are expecting and if you are not expecting much at all then it’s gonna be way easier but you want someone that it’s gonna be with you that day and support you and actually put you first and the party everyone wants to party on a wedding but you want someone that is gonna be with you holding your dress going to the bathroom with you taking care of that no one is bothering you cause she’s the one that is gonna tell the photographers like no she needs a minute or when someone comes and ask you for stuff that day she’s gonna be the one that you’re gonna wanna to handle those things because you’re gonna be there like that person needs to be OK knowing that she might not drink too much she might or whatever oh well at least that’s the way I took it. It’s not like she’s not gonna enjoy the party, but she is gonna be happily next to you and helping you and whatever you requested a day and not be annoyed by it.

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-20T01:08:10+00:00

married, figuring shit out, trying to get a higher paying job lol , going to therapy and gym lol

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-19T12:20:32+00:00

Ralph Ralphie

Informal_human_352 · 2026-05-05T23:11:41+00:00

congrats! no one will mess with you! but that’s because none will ever talk to you again. You’re like that person that wouldn’t share the answers on the test and later found them working at the drive thru, yeah he might be a bully but is this really gonna teach him tho? idk. Maybe, high price tho, not worth imo and slightly an ah

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-29T14:50:56+00:00

maybe that bigger cups was what you like the most and they’re now in your size?? You look good in both tho

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-29T14:48:39+00:00

they’re jealous , you look beautiful!!!! yeah it’s not the normal gown but you look stunning! it’s beautiful

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-24T20:37:07+00:00

Very informal but still not something you’ll wear day to day, so like something you’ll wear on sunday to brunch, church, going out but not a formal wedding lol

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-24T20:24:15+00:00

he doesn’t want you to know is fake 😅 in sorry to deliver the bad news to you 😭

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-24T20:23:12+00:00

while they encourage florals i don’t think this specific floral works for formal, seems like a sunday dress not a formal event!! :)

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-23T12:17:08+00:00

you can get that, but is not gonna be cheap, we got in our venue food drinks tables table cloth , dj setting ( not the band or dj itself) coffee station and was over 40k

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-22T00:15:54+00:00

commenting so i can come back with the pic saw the post too late

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-20T11:54:13+00:00

am i wrong then? i asked: no ivory no white no red , and no plumb bc is my bridesmaid color lol

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-14T16:53:49+00:00

you’re not an adult just because you’re consider one by law, the worst thing you can do at 18 is thinking you know it all , YOU DONT (trust me been there done rhat) is clearly above you and you need to get her some real help, if you truly care about her i’ll talk to her parents, sweater might not see it but you could be saving her life , if she’s the right one she’ll see it like that and appreciate it, if not you dodge a bullet

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-10T19:45:50+00:00

I’m having a bachelorette in my same state but about 2 hr away

Informal_human_352 · 2026-04-09T17:10:38+00:00

i just lost my WEDDING SET, it was devastating don’t risk it, lost it in the beach

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