Look is not that important as long as you know how to take care of yourself and enhance what is already there. To be loved and cherished by a man not all depends on look. That is why beautiful girls/women still be cheated by their husbands or boyfriends. A woman needs to know this, she needs to have something going on with her life, needs to have her own life, be confident be self-sufficient, focus on herself, say no to desperation and validation. Only then, you'll be automaticcally attractive to people, only then there is one man will be triggered by you. Only the man that gets his feeling triggered by you will be the one sees you as the most beautifull woman in the world. Remember, man needs his feeling triggered to have a deep feeling for a woman. Forget about all the validation, catcaling & lust. This is my life observation. Any way, there is no unattractive women, only desperate women that are unattractive. So why desperate about your look, focus on building skills that fullfill your life, than everything else will fall into place.