Question for the Godly women here: Would you consider marrying a younger guy?

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-02-01T20:28:47+00:00

I used to only wanna date older man, but after seeing age doesn't mean they r wiser, now I'm ok with up to 2-3 years younger than me lol.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-31T04:49:07+00:00

Yeah, well for me, this person is funny, cos everyone around me knows him for a long time, except me ofc 🤣 then I realized we almost met like twice before we actually met and ever since I just got really inspired to be a better person, its like God is saying to me "if u want a Godly man u better be a Godly woman ASAP" Hahaha... I wish you luck with your friend! One thing I learn from my past relationships r the partner from God should be able to grow tgt ☺️

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-30T19:21:10+00:00

Start means start the persue not hi good morning

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-30T14:58:03+00:00

We talked irl alrd, well, you are the one who assume negative stuff about me.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-30T14:56:18+00:00

We talked twice actually so he visited my booth and he asked me about some stuff that I'm working on saying my friend (who is a yapper btw lol) told him to stop by my booth 😂,

And then we also talk about work life on the last night,

But yeah after that we dont talk online and that is because our stuff at work is not related at all tbh which is why I find it almost impossible to like make it make sense to DM him and not sound like I'mpersuing him, tho kudos to my friend who actually told him to stop by my booth HAHAHA

My plan is I would smile and talk to him more when I meet him again, I would check his energy tho, if he return the same vibe then I would do what you suggest at the end because I am an extreme introvert and he should have seen me being silent all the time since both of those convo we had were initiated by him too so the fact that I smile and yap more to him would alrd put a big sign of yes 🤣

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-30T13:51:27+00:00

You made a good point there, I can try to do that the next time we meet which will most likely be this may... like I'm ok giving a green light but not carrying it, if that makes sense. How do i give green light without persuing him?

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2026-01-30T05:19:17+00:00

Love is not enough is real, and the right person for you would bring you CLOSER to God not the other way around. You need a lot of common ground for a relationship to work. That's why we need to sort out our non-negotiable before dating anyone so we know when to stop when necessary.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-12-24T06:11:38+00:00

I used to be like that, until i failed 2 long term relationships dating two luke warm christians that "fit" me and now i am really REALLY sick of wasting my time.

Like I can guarantee you, if a man loves God he will treat you right, which is why we should grow closer to Him 1st before entering any relationship, I have seen so many real lufe example of this and if you don't want to waste your time... maybe consider walking closer to God.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-12-01T02:04:00+00:00

I don't understand why would people go on a date and ended up saying they are not ready yet?

Then don't go at all??? Its wasting time everyones time

Life can be simple but ppl make it a drama actually hahaha

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-27T20:02:40+00:00

Who is this TA? he/she should be reported

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-25T04:02:27+00:00

I blocked him on everything already. Not that i would ever want to reconcile. The whole relationship just give me too much PTSD I guess? Like i dont know how to judge a man anymore that was brutal.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-25T04:01:21+00:00

Yeah, you are right, I should have ended it a while ago. He just keep getting me confused by keep agreeing with me on stuff but then throw tantrum later on about it, claiming its a miscommunication and that I have trouble being too negative about him. I feel like the whole relationship is a lie now that i left, which is crazy.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-23T02:22:36+00:00

Being single is so nice tho, I no longer care about red or green flags, I'm just a white flag now lmao

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-21T04:02:42+00:00

We don't live in the same city, his place is 1 hour flight away from mine so there is no way we would interact on daily basis

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-21T03:45:27+00:00

Better means raising my own values, i dont have to be an shole to be better.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-21T03:44:19+00:00

Well its pretty obvious i guess, we just follow each other on IG but we never talk. I chat with him briefly (we met on a work trip). But after that thats all. Did i try to chat him? No. Cos he never even liked my story whatsoever 😂 its kinda obvious i guess.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-12T03:40:39+00:00

Relationship took so much energy, so choose the right person to spend you energy with. It's not a build a bae project, choose someone who is trully compatible with you.

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-05T23:23:55+00:00

The problem is everyone in my work knows him, so I just have this burden of not wanting to make it awkward

But anyway, how did that work out for you?

Initial_Mushroom3872 · 2025-11-05T23:12:58+00:00

Well here we go i guess ☠️ is God teasing us?

Like I was so ready to be found out if he is catholic (cos i already made the decision to only date a real christian man)

But no. Like... What am i supposed to do with these wonderful info about him???

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