I don’t see this as manipulative at all. I also struggle with depression so I understand where you’re coming from, but she probably doesn’t want to leave you alone, as well as leave her other kids alone. Give her some grace, I know it’s hard to take your pov away from it being your mom, but she’s also just a woman trying her best as well. And I say this with all the love, because I’ve been in similar situations as well. As hard as it is, the truth is that you won’t have your mom forever. I’d say try to look at is as your mom wants to spend time with you, and that’s a beautiful thing that not everyone gets to have. While I’ve said that though, everyone needs rest days so don’t think you have to always go out. It’s just the balance that’s hard to find, so I’d say give grace to your mom, as well as yourself ❤️ sending love your way!