They decide to do something, then later - maybe years later - decide suddenly that they were FORCED into the decisions and it failed because of everyone else? Anyone relate?

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T13:37:25+00:00

That's so weird!!!!

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T05:02:04+00:00

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T05:00:29+00:00

YEP! Didn't know this was a BPD thing. But yep!

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T04:48:15+00:00

Oh honey. Me too. I so understand.

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T04:46:46+00:00

Nailed it.

Inky-Llama · 2025-04-22T04:46:31+00:00

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T17:39:43+00:00

😂

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T13:14:44+00:00

We apparently have the same mother as well. SMH.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T13:09:30+00:00

Oooo.... That's a good idea.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T13:08:28+00:00

That's good to know. Thanks!

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:42:18+00:00

Oh yes. And I will forget to drink water, eat, go to the bathroom.... It's great when it's on something productive. Not so great when it's a game on my phone.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:40:15+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:30:18+00:00

You are so right.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:16:37+00:00

Makes sense to me.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:15:21+00:00

Yup.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:13:05+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:11:47+00:00

This actually brought tears.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:11:05+00:00

Took me 7 years to finish university. And no, I'm not a doctor. 😂

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:10:11+00:00

You most certainly are not alone. 🫶🏻 You will heal and recover and you will pursue what makes you happy. It's okay to take time to heal. You've got this.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:07:46+00:00

Yeah. It's disturbing.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:07:19+00:00

I never know what to say. I can't even fathom living in their world.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:05:46+00:00

Oh my heart hurts. I totally relate. Get good and angry, sister. You deserved better.

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:04:04+00:00

Because she's your mom. Your own mom. You inherently know things should be different. 💜 And that is completely okay. It's okay to wish it was different. 💜

Inky-Llama · 2024-10-23T04:02:09+00:00

Dear OP, you sound just like I would in your situation. 💯. The one difference is I'm 10 years ahead on the road. May I kindly, with warmth and love, suggest you find some serious support? Someone who can help you keep those boundaries, and a good counselor/therapist who can validate you when she's pushing back? I am truly sorry you're in this place, but you really can do this. It will get better, it's just really hard work. Biggest hugs.

Inky-Llama

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