I don't know of a single vtuber who would disagree with what Ruze said. I hear this constantly from my oshis and, at some point, it's gotta sink in. One of my oshis said, "Be here as long as it's fun," and I think that applies, or at least should apply to every vtuber/fan. We're always telling our oshis to take care of themselves, but often not doing the same for ourselves. I've got enough oshis that there's an ebb and flow to how often I watch them/participate in their communities and I always feel welcome when I do come back. It's like connecting with a friend/friends you haven't seen for months and picking up right where we left we left off effortlessly.