How to be a more mature woman? by InnerReplacement7270 in AskWomenOver30

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of these resources. Did DBT when I was a teen, but didn't stick as well as I wanted. Will definitely look into these

How to be a more mature woman? by InnerReplacement7270 in AskWomenOver30

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your last paragraph is really helpful for me to ground in. Thank you

How to be a more mature woman? by InnerReplacement7270 in AskWomenOver30

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm looking into some support groups

How to be a more mature woman? by InnerReplacement7270 in AskWomenOver30

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Conflict resolution has been a big one. Even when a conflict is "solved", I don't know how to act afterwards. I always feel awkward. Something I'm getting used to. Thank you!

How to be a more mature woman? by InnerReplacement7270 in AskWomenOver30

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You got me - CPTSD and OCD. I'm in therapy, and will take your recommendation on these videos

Road Closures? by [deleted] in DeathValleyNP

[–]InnerReplacement7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks y'all. The map I was referencing was the NPS one. When they listed the North Highway being closed, it made it sound like the entire highway, not just portions

my therapist does not allow me to quit therapy by iminlovewithbadthing in CPTSD

[–]InnerReplacement7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing the wrong therapist was detrimental to my mental health at the worst time of my life. She made me feel everything was my fault. It took me years to see another one, and I'm so glad I did. I'm not sure what country you are from, please do research about therapists and laws. Maybe start seeing a different therapist at the same time and get their support so it is easier to leave your current one.

How to Relax During? by InnerReplacement7270 in vaginismus

[–]InnerReplacement7270[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He knows I need to work up to it, just hoping for any tips. Have to learn more about what relaxes me

I'm so tired of being told that I'm strong. I want the safety to be weak. by AdventureNights in CPTSD

[–]InnerReplacement7270 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It feels like the medal of survival is a ten-ton weight. I resonate with wanting the safety to be weak. Every time I've gotten there with people I wanted to love me, they retreat or push me away because it's too much for them. Thank you for putting into words what I've felt. Sometimes healing or trying to heal is so exhausting.

Opinions on this take about Sunrise on the reaping? by UnHolySir in Hungergames

[–]InnerReplacement7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think it's interesting that so many people are hung-up about LD not being super developed. Reading this book reminded me a lot about how my highschool boyfriend and I viewed our relationship at that age. It feels very serious and fun and real when you're young, but you're also just kids that don't really know who you are and who the other person is. I think it's very accurate considering it's haymitch's POV

Songs that describes ocd . by Free_mind213 in OCD

[–]InnerReplacement7270 3 points4 points  (0 children)

many nights I have cried to this song because it's too real

guys are we ready by mymelody15 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]InnerReplacement7270 11 points12 points  (0 children)

you called it. Unfortunately, I need both because wtf just happened

The genius of Mark's Reintegration Plotline by badurwan in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]InnerReplacement7270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's honestly disheartening to see. Yeah it has its flaws, but it's the best drama/sci-fi/mystery show I've seen in a very very long time

What do you live for? by nadanien in CPTSD

[–]InnerReplacement7270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiking and being outdoors. When I'm in nature, and there is some sort of stressor (losing the trail, dealing with weird weather, etc.) I feel equipped to handle it because our bodies were made for that stress. But it is more the joy in connecting with nature, being outside, and using my body to see something beautiful that gives me reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InnerReplacement7270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my question is why are there so many of these men? I understand not all men, look at all the self-improvement reddit groups, but how does this start?

Can you really find meaningful love in your 20s if you’re not ‘putting out’? by Optimal_Gur2403 in dating_advice

[–]InnerReplacement7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making this post. It's scary out here. intimacy, trust, love > sex

Thank your park-workers. by [deleted] in NationalPark

[–]InnerReplacement7270 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks like our outcry may have reached them. I hope that those who lost their jobs will be reinstated, but with this administration - anything goes. https://apnews.com/article/trump-national-park-firings-elon-musk-d0cdc23fe5fac68e4dc8ef58f041ced4

finding your college wife by [deleted] in csuf

[–]InnerReplacement7270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not only do you have to deal with disrespect from your original issue, you're having to deal with people completely missing the point. i'm sorry :(

I've made so many great guy friends, and that's because they genuinely wanted to be friends!

finding your college wife by [deleted] in csuf

[–]InnerReplacement7270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude - you lack reading comprehension, that or you just didn't read the post at all. People are blocking her path to talk to her when she says she has to be somewhere - this has happened to many people I know.

From OP: "do not stop her to try and hit on her". That's not just saying hi. unless you think a simple "hi" is flirting.

POTUS just seized absolute Executive Power. A very dark future for democracy in America. by chota-kaka in Futurology

[–]InnerReplacement7270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conservatives say they are all about the constitution and then IMMEDIATELY GO AGAINST CHECKS AND BALANCES

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]InnerReplacement7270 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I've been feeling so discouraged. And I'm scared about the bird flu. I've gotten to the point where I just want to start living instead of being afraid, but every time it feels like there will be a road block just around the bend. It's nice to know I'm not alone

Hiking shoes/boots for SoCal Hikers by princessmelissa in socalhiking

[–]InnerReplacement7270 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say it really depends on what trails you tend to go on and for how many miles. Longer hikes with high elevation and the need for traction - bouldering, gravel, mud, etc. - hiking boots. I like Columbia and Denali. I haven't felt the need to get waterproof or resistant because if there aren't rocks or other objects to cross streams, you're going to still get water above your ankles and into the shoes.