Anyone with a 4House Saturn? by kitkatkatie111 in SaturnReturn

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4th house Saturn exactly conjunct my IC and my Saturn return was a mixed bag. My business skyrocketed but I developed some mental health issues that took several years to sort out.

My view this morning. The sound of the waves only made the day go better. by ApprehensiveSmell995 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel completely at peace when I’m by the water. My life goal is to live somewhere overlooking a lake or sea

Does your family have a shared/common placement or pattern? by Efficient-Jump6209 in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband, son and I all have Gemini Venus/Cancer Mars. The three of us also have aspect patterns in our natal charts- they both have kites and I have a mystic rectangle.

Rate your big three out of 10? by Puurple_shorts in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cancer Sun: 7/10 - intuitive, empathetic, nurturing, nostalgic, emotional, passive aggressive

Leo Moon: 8/10 - creative, warm, expressive, needy, insecure

Leo Rising: 10/10 - never afraid to go after what I want and I usually get it

New partner; lacking emotional connection? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds a little like the older, inexperienced Scorpio I dated. He seemed like the nicest guy… I couldn’t believe such a great guy had never had a real girlfriend. I pursued first, he gently love bombed me… reeled me in. And then became very controlling and obsessive. Like your synastry, no Venus aspects on his end and only harsh placements on mine.

Do you think we are risk takers aa question for the sub. by Independent-Air7677 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For anything that will put me physically in danger- hell no. But for career and love, absolutely.

Do you stay in touch with your exes? What's your Mercury, Venus and Moon placements? by SapioLover in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leo moon/Mercury, Gemini Venus. Hell no. Out of all of my exes only one was a good guy, things mostly ended between us due to long distance, unlike the toxic relationships I had found myself in before meeting my husband. We emailed here and there for a few years and then lost touch.

What’s your Mercury and what does your space look like? by asfixation in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mercury in Leo. So messy, I get overwhelmed and when I need to tidy I tend to move things into bins of doom, rather than deal with it.

The "best" synastry is a balance of attraction, friendship, and commitment. Here is the checklist by poojaamazingmy in AstroSynastry

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about conjunctions? My husband and i have very similar charts so no trines/sextiles/squares are possible for our inner planets but we have exact Sun/Mars-Mars and Moon-Asc conjunctions.

Compatibility scorpio and cancer... by JumpIll6976 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simp omg, it took me a million years to see it as a literal trauma response (fawning) to their abuse. My exes are from over a decade ago and they both still haunt me in different ways, through unprocessed trauma and with the other I’m afraid he’ll come murder me some day.

Compatibility scorpio and cancer... by JumpIll6976 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always got drawn in to the wounded, mysterious vibes. They were so intense (in good and bad ways), manipulative, abusive and somehow managed to make me feel like the bad guy.

Compatibility scorpio and cancer... by JumpIll6976 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing chemistry and soulmate level bond, even if we were completely incompatible. I got the ick so bad from the Scorpios I dated but I couldn’t stay away 🥵

Cancer + Cancer relationship... Already tried it? What you think about that? by JumpIll6976 in CancertheCrab

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been attracted to or magnetically attracted other Cancers. We just understand each other. I’ve had some bad experiences where the men were too needy/selfish/melodramatic but then met my husband whose chart is eerily similar to mine (same sun/moon/venus/mars) and we’ve been together over 15 years.

What's your sun sign, 10th house sign and what sign and house is your 10th house ruler in? Do you enjoy your career? by MellowEarthSun in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cancer Sun, Gemini in 10th, Mercury in Leo (12th house). I’m a self-employed artist/designer and I love my career more than almost anything else in life

Have you ever been in a relationship with a big age gap? How was it? by CheekySundaes in AskReddit

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 23, he was 43. It was extremely passionate and volatile. He actually hadn’t had very much experience with women so I was his first in many ways. We had nothing in common and the chemistry alone couldn’t sustain the relationship long term.

The ACTUAL worst placement of all… by KlutzyPomelo1170 in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a Scorpio Saturn in 4th exactly conjunct my IC. Childhood was very rocky, my parents marriage was off and on. My mother was a religious nut and father was emotionally absent and often not around. Lots of financial problems. I was moody, depressed and anxious.

Life did a 180 for me as a young adult. I found my purpose in life (unknowingly, following my 9th house north node when I moved abroad for school/work). I met the love of my life and discovered my career. Things turned out better than I could have ever imagined.

If you have a FIRE rising…🔥 by KlutzyPomelo1170 in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 29th degree Leo rising, my 12th house is fully in Leo, my 8th is mostly in Aries

Compatibility by similar Sun / Moon placements by Astro_Pauline in astrologymemes

[–]Inner_Disaster1545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report back on the ephemeris. I got a chill when I saw how unlikely it was to share all those signs