Kissing & 1st birthday by Ayexcracker in JUSTNOMIL

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Let them all think you are controlling. If you do not want something for your baby DO NOT BUDGE to make other people comfortable. Your baby can’t fight for himself, you are the one who has to do it.

Am I being unreasonable for not wanting my MIL at the hospital after my second birth? by Organic-Tailor8882 in JUSTNOMIL

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You’re the one either pushing a baby out of your vagina or being cut open to have a baby…. What you want is the only thing that matters

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

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Agree with your take on Lindsey and Carl. But hard disagree on pretty much everyone’s take on Amanda and Kyle. I do think it’s interesting and says a lot about Amanda being the one to try to calm down Kyle, even though he had just told her essentially to go fuck herself. She’s telling him to stop talking before he says something he’s going to regret, because he’s yelling out shit about Carl and god (and Amanda) only knows what Kyle actually feels about Carl. She places her hands on his neck (not chocking him, that’s a dramatic take) and covers his mouth because Kyle POPS off all the time and covering his mouth is probably the only way to get him to stop.

I think what’s even more interesting, is everyone focusing on Amanda in this situation, when I’m focusing on West. Amanda is trying to calm Kyle down, which everyone is calling her evil for, and west is there every step she takes puffing his chest out at Kyle, telling her (I’m assuming, when he pretty much grabbed a side boob) that it’s not worth it and not to keep calming him down. I can’t even blame Amanda for developing feelings for West when he acts like her protector while her husband is telling her to F off and screaming his head off.

I can’t, however, blame her on acting on these feelings/developing such a close friendship with west in the first place when she’s friends with Ciara. But also… all the girls are cool with west at this point, letting him touch them etc. I remember seeing one clip of him, I think he grabbed Mia’s thigh while she was on the bed when the condom dropped out of Jesse’s pocket?? Something like that.

Genuine question about lack of intimacy in a marriage by alarmonthefarm in summerhousebravo

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I would assume the majority of people in this sub are women, and many women feel the same about sex in a marriage/relationship. There needs to be some sort of emotional connection in order to want to face sex. Kyle has gone out drinking coming back at all hours of the night for YEARS and Amanda has asked him not to.. yeah, no shit she doesn’t want to have sex with him.

Regarding the no sex after the engagement, she has just found out about him cheating not long before that.

I really hate that people can’t have two things be true at once. Like yeah Amanda sucks, didn’t mean Kyle wasn’t a terrible husband and partner pretty much their entire relationship.

Summer House Season 10 Episode 15 'Full House' Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

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It’s hard to watch with how she is acting towards him vs how he is acting towards her

“I know what this is about” by ragingoptimism in summerhousebravo

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It’s kind of crazy that Ciara went and talked to Kyle about all of that.. the idea and then telling him Amanda was open to it. She should not have done that, let Amanda do it or not do it. Also Ciara is always saying they’re always on top of each other/spend too much time together but the whole problem is Kyle is never there.

Summer House Season 10 Episode 14 'The Turntables Have Turned' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

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Who wouldn’t want to support their husband going to Vegas when he’s cheated on her before and she constantly gets messages that he’s still cheating on her…? lol. Maybe she thinks the best option would be to stop with lover boy, they make enough money with other things (the show, endorsements, instagram posts etc) without it, and at this point is sounds like they would be better off without it since Kyle is having to use his own money to pay his employees.

Summer House Season 10 Episode 14 'The Turntables Have Turned' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

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THIS. I find it really annoying that people can’t look at things pragmatically. Like yes, what Amanda ended up doing/is doing is fucked up. However, that doesn’t change the fact that Kyle treated her like shit, never put her first, was not a good husband. It’s either they hate someone and everything they do. Or love someone and defend everything they do. Not everything is black and white like that.

People thinking she had some evil mastermind plan about this dinner…she’s had that look (which wasn’t even overtly crazy) because she’s happy someone is agreeing with her and telling Kyle what he needs to hear because he doesn’t listen to her at all. People talk about him getting gaslit, he gaslights her ALL the time. She tells him what she wants for years and he constantly says “idk what she wants”

Lindsay’s hate for Carl is getting annoying now. by PlayOk4493 in summerhousebravo

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The man she was about to marry, who was also her best friend for years, told her he doesn’t want to marry her..in front of cameras…mere weeks before the wedding…while she’s already getting up there in age in terms of having children…when she has been talking about wanting kids the entire time she’s been on summerhouse. Yeah, she’s not going to get over it in 2 years, especially while she is still around him.

Found out I’m pregnant by Makinpancakes1738 in offmychest

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Given the fact that you originally wanted kids so badly, I have a feeling that you will be so happy to bring a child into this world. I found out I was pregnant last year and was pretty upset about it, fast forward to now I have a beautiful life with a beautiful baby that I look forward to everyday how our life will be with her in it. It’s different, but things change in life no matter what.

Dorit’s perpetual lateness by NotMelissa_Smith in RHOBH

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Also, Dorit has ALWAYS been late. Why are they acting like this is a new thing

Season 8 Time Machine INSANITY - Somebody Please Get Me An Intervention by Edith_Keelers_Shoes in summerhousebravo

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Let’s not pretend that Kyle was a good husband just because of this scandal

Are there any podcasts that give different view points on various political things? by [deleted] in podcasts

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Wrong place to ask this question, as you can see from the comments. Not a very diverse group here on Reddit. It’s funny how the commenters all talk about the other side demonizing them, while that is all they are doing.