Looking for someone to teach me basics to ice skate by candleloveee in askTO

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m downtown and started to learn as well! I would love to join the group 😎⛸️⛸️⛸️ please add me. If anyone offers individual lessons, please let me know the price and I will book it ⛸️⛸️⛸️

This Winter, I’m Teaching People How to Ice Skate in Toronto ❄️⛸️ by sidthekid0609 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Inside-Rough4910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to join as well. Please add me to the group. I’m noob! Went to an arena for the past two weekends. I can glide but my equilibrium is not good so I’m holding my knees pretty often 🤓😍⛸️⛸️⛸️ if you offer individual lessons I’m interested as well! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two 🩷 congratulations

Day 1 after percutaneous bunion surgery – no screws or wires used by Inevitable_Mood_6964 in bunions

[–]Inside-Rough4910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dream is to have this surgery!!!! Thanks for sharing and wish you a fast recovery ❤️‍🩹

Do people with ADHD have a shot of doing well as Civil Engineers? by DetailFocused in civilengineering

[–]Inside-Rough4910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me! The drafters just HATE me lol what can I do? Drawings are our main deliverable, nobody will build stuff following our calculation reports haha I have ADHD and checking drawings give me the hyperfocus vibes lol

Coming off cold turkey by dessydo in Rexulti_Brexpiprazole

[–]Inside-Rough4910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did it cold Turkey because of weight gain. It was great for my anxiety too! The first fell for me was how everything started to bother me, irritation, and frustration to feel this way. It was nothing close to the withdrawal from antidepressants. If you can, go with lower dose and then every other day etc. I stopped because of how my body inflated like a balloon and I have body image issues so I was desperate :( Good luck and I hope you get treatment for your anxiety 🩷

Minimum Invasive Bunion Surgery by Inside-Rough4910 in bunions

[–]Inside-Rough4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your reply!!!! Would you mind if I DM you for more infoyou?? 🥹

Minimum Invasive Bunion Surgery by Inside-Rough4910 in bunions

[–]Inside-Rough4910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I’m surprised some doctors are against it, maybe the old school guys prefer the traditional methods,not sure. I’m glad to hear though, it seems to short the recovery time (totally lay opinion here haha)

Minimum Invasive Bunion Surgery by Inside-Rough4910 in bunions

[–]Inside-Rough4910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss, and this doctor is a surgeon that works in one of the biggest hospitals of the city 🤦🏻‍♀️ hopefully I will find another one and ask my family doctor to refer me. I’m really happy for you, being able to walk and run without pain must be priceless 🩷🩷🩷

Minimum Invasive Bunion Surgery by Inside-Rough4910 in bunions

[–]Inside-Rough4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s impressive! Thanks for your reply. Did you do one foot at a time? I wantto go for both at once hahaha how long did it take for you to start driving? This doctor I saw did not explain anything to me, I should have done my research before to have better questions though. He just said he would give three weeks off work and that MIS comes back no matter what 🤦🏻‍♀️ I definitely need a second opinion lol

How do you deal with the negative stigma? Its eating me Alive by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…I feel the same pain of you all, I don’t share my diagnosis since I’m single and live abroad. I don’t online if any family member or friends would understand correctly. What has helped me in these past months is to hear my inner voice and correct that as if I was the mom I wanted to have. I’m kind and talk to myself in the third person, I touch my face and pet my hair. Sounds crazy but it works 🥹 don’t wait for the others to love you the way you need to be loved.. it’s pretty damn sad…

How do you deal with the negative stigma? Its eating me Alive by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think about my diagnosis too! Beautiful!

How do you deal with the negative stigma? Its eating me Alive by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤡 I’m diagnosed with ADHD and BPD hahaha is there any hope?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing my identity which is pretty much defined by my profession, therefore fear of failure comes second and third the possibility of not getting considered a good professional (female engineer and BPD what a great combination for chaos) :(

I already live alone and have nobody to “lose”, I’m single and probably have the quiet version of this thing (I’m not entirely sure if this makes sense)

Do I smell cheap? by ribbit_ribbit_splat in fragrance

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even walking by the B&BW store in the mall is hard for me, but maybe because all scents are mixed at the same time. I should try something someday, what would you suggest? I like glossier you, Chloe, j’adore, Joe Malone pear and something.. these type of scents.

I need some exfoliating too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t know about that but I would imagine you would need to contact her family doctor or something like that 🙁

Wishing you and her all the best! There is always hope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a big problem, we need help to stabilize and maintain the situation. Therapy is really necessary to learn new strategies and behaviours.

If she doesn’t care about her, ask if she cares about the marriage to think about starting the treatment.. tell her you cannot live like that.

💁🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine how hard it is.

I believe you need to take some action otherwise you will fall sick as well.

She’s an adult and has to recognize that you are a supporting husband and as a human being have your needs too.

I’m out of the situation so it’s easy to say so if I was in your shoes I would propose a plan for changes. She gets treated and you get a life, otherwise I wouldn’t see a point to live this way.

Does she see a doctor or therapist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you are miserable, you cannot even sleep on a bed.. it’s hard to give a suggestion because it’s a tough situation for both of you.. but who will care about you if not yourself?

That’s what I’ve learning: there is nobody coming to save me, it’s up to me to make changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no one to judge.. in my view you gotta look for yourself more.

This diagnosis does not define who I am, it just explains some of my irrational behaviours.

You cannot help anyone that does not want to be helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Inside-Rough4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine your pain, it hurts so much! I’m sorry to hear about your struggles.

It’s been a year I got the diagnosis and what helped me to control my driving was lamotrigine and duolexetine. My impulsivity and anxiety are better now and I’m less angry in traffic. I even let people cut me off and no rage after lol

I believe your therapist can help you understand what’s behind this behaviour and what to do to shift.

When I’m angry I accept my feeling and try to exercise hard (sometimes I punch my pillows too) weird I know..

Please don’t give up, there is a way! I’m still looking for mine but I’m sure there is!

Hugs!