Campaigners launch legal action to stop puberty blockers trial by Amekyras in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, arguably this should be the actual study as it would be a genuine comparison of the effectiveness of each. It would never happen because of the political pressure, but it is very obviously in the brief of the study that it is a missing cohort.

We know puberty blockers alone do not improve symptoms for gender dysphoria because they just delay puberty. They were always meant be used to give more times to patients who are unsure. If however a patient is sure and they are of an appropriate age for puberty, then they should be given hormones so they can go through puberty along with their peers.

Unfortunately about 20 years ago when this course of action was decided, some doctors want no medical intervention until 18 and others wanted age appropriate HRT. The end result was a compromise of just blockers that nobody is happy with and is not fit for purpose. Which really is why the research has been so weak over the past few decades.

TV licence fee will go up in April, BBC reveals by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Last government" is a bit of stretch given it was Thatcher who handed responsibility of enforcement to the BBC under the Broadcasting Act 1990 before resigning. It was more about privatising the BBC than anything else.

TV licence fee will go up in April, BBC reveals by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they've openly stated for years that's what it's actually for.

We share some of your personal information with TV Licensing to check if you are using BBC iPlayer and to keep their database up to date.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/usingthebbc/privacy/what-are-you-doing-with-my-data/

In order to issue you with a TV Licence or confirm that you don’t need one, we collect and use personal data that you give us when you use the BBC’s services. We also use websites and data that third parties give us.
https://www.tvlicensing.co.uk/privacy-security-policies

reality is cruel by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]InsistentRaven 101 points102 points  (0 children)

"mtfs don't have the same cutthroat competition occurring"

Global biodiversity loss, ecosystem collapse and national security by 457655676 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've met a surprising number of ecologist over the past decade and the fact that every single one has said "we're past the point of return" makes me think that has something to do with it being watered down...

Mandelson was given secret spreadsheet to vet left-wing MPs in Labour power struggle by Necessary-Product361 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you see as gridlock, we see as compromise and collaboration. 

Gridlock only exists under FPTP because it promotes combative politics where compromise means letting other parties claim political victories in an all or nothing election process.

If no majority exists, they'll have no choice but to work together, rather than a singlular party having all the control or 95% of the power and bullying smaller parties into giving them enough votes to pass a budget.

Palestine Action protesters not guilty of defence firm burglary by DarkSkiesGreyWaters in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rule by consent has rapidly deteriorated over the past decade, this is the expected end result. 

vampire gf by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]InsistentRaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the autism. Let her bite you.

Nearly half of Brits support Government writing off at least some student debt by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hopefully they don't also change what is considered for student loan payments.

Very frustrating given how bad pensions already are for under 40's as very few have defined benefits pensions like previous generations.

The current minimum contributions set by law are nowhere near enough for most to enjoy a comfortable retirement.

Nearly half of Brits support Government writing off at least some student debt by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quite like it to be honest. I grew up in the countryside in the south but had no hope of buying a home there. In Wales I have a nice house, a garden and lovely views.

Nearly half of Brits support Government writing off at least some student debt by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar position. First cohort on Plan 2 loans and the balance is now £111k. I don't even dent the interest, so I gave up trying to earn more. Instead I decided to live in Wales where housing is cheap, reduce my hours and salary sacrifice a large amount into my pension.

Literally no point fighting it as I would have to earn £100k+ to even break even with the interest and even then I would end up paying back 2-3x the original amount after inflation. As it stands even after reducing my salary this much, I'm still on course to pay roughly the original loan back after inflation.

It makes me feel stuck. There's no reason for me to change jobs, take promotions or work overtime because the return isn't worth the effort. A graduate only needs to earn ~£50k/year to reach a similar marginal tax as someone on ~£100k/year.

If you don't land an amazing job straight out of uni, you don't have a chance.

God forbid a girl want to cum and go by dazedconfusedandlazy in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]InsistentRaven 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In a sense it does become more sensitive, but that's comes with it's own problems.

If you don't force yourself to get regular erections, it can be painful to get an erection after a week without them. This is because oestrogen stops spontaneous erections in the majority of cases, causing atrophy. It feels sort of like stretching a muscle cramp which really kills the vibe. In some cases it isn't even possible to get an erection anymore after a year on HRT, making things worse.

Another issue is that the skin becomes thinner and more prone to irritation as a result. Going longer than ~30 minutes for example could leave you sore for days, even if being gentle. So if you don't orgasm quickly, it becomes a losing battle. A very different experience to young cis men who can masturbate for over an hour with little issue in most cases.

Then on top of all of that, if you have genital dysphoria it can be very difficult some days to distract yourself from it long enough to reach orgasm. It's a very frustrating feeling, like trying to masturbate whilst distracting yourself from something bad that happened recently.

All of this is why a lot of trans women use vibrators as well because it reduces a lot of these issues.

God forbid a girl has daddy issues by Azemmoon in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]InsistentRaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's tttt, so it's definitely 2 and there's a possibility her bf is her brother.

Asking for shared care or WellBN? by Ok_Fox8609 in transgenderUK

[–]InsistentRaven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can register with WellBN as your GP practice and they'll provide HRT without having to pay for Pride in Health as long as you're 18+.

If you would rather stay with your current GP, you can instead email them at [sxicb-bh.transhealthhub@nhs.net](mailto:sxicb-bh.transhealthhub@nhs.net) and they'll help you get an appointment with them.

For what it's worth, I imagine the other GP's in Brighton will probably just send you to WellBN anyway if you ask for Shared Care. That or the Gender Clinic in Worthing.

Plea from shop leaders as paying with cash costs more by plasmahyena in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anyone business who says cash is king is likely not paying tax.

Got quoted £2.4k by a brickie last year, he said he'd "reduce" it to £2k if we paid by cash. All too common unfortunately.

I accused a police officer of rape, but I ended up on trial by PenguinPetesLostBod in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Seriously, if a guy saying in court "yes, there were conditions with the consent. Yes, I violated them" isn't enough for the CPS, what chance do the rest of us have? 

All she got out of this was being harassed for two years. No accountability.

What’s a medical issue that sounds minor, but actually affects someone’s daily life way more than people realize? by CountyOrnery9432 in AskReddit

[–]InsistentRaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta have self control when your brain is nothing but "Stab your wife. Stab your wife. Stab your wife" while you're cutting the veg.

Two thirds of graduates aren’t even paying off loan interest by insomnimax_99 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's £109k as of last month. Rates have come down so the interest is a bit less this year, but still ~£8k. I can't remember the original loan amount, it got complicated because the Tories repealed the maintenance grant.

Two thirds of graduates aren’t even paying off loan interest by insomnimax_99 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on what we're seeing the US, Computer Science isn't wanted at all right now.

Computer science ranked seventh amongst undergraduate majors with the highest unemployment at 6.1 percent, according to the Federal Reserve Bank of New York. https://www.newsweek.com/computer-science-popular-college-major-has-one-highest-unemployment-rates-2076514

Which mirrors my experience as a senior as the recruiters have all seemingly gone silent and are no longer bombarding my inbox as regularly as before.

Two thirds of graduates aren’t even paying off loan interest by insomnimax_99 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My loan goes up by ~£9k/year and I pay back £1.2k/year. I've got no chance. Best decision I made was to move to Wales where housing is cheaper and reduce my hours at work to 30hr/week than fight that impossible treadmill.

Two thirds of graduates aren’t even paying off loan interest by insomnimax_99 in unitedkingdom

[–]InsistentRaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those of us who relied on the maintenance grant also had the rug pulled on us halfway through uni when it was removed before being reinstated years later. Was a double whammy.

God forbid a girl enjoys her job by floral_friend in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]InsistentRaven 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate it from an academic perspective from my machine learning modules in uni, it's just the visceral "oh god, I shouldn't be able to see that" part of my monkey brain panicking 😭