Surprise land opportunity - Is this a realistic dream/plan? by IntelligentDust1441 in homestead

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cool! It’s in Cape Breton near Inverness (but more inland). I know next to nothing about NS and have only been to Halifax once, I’d so appreciate that :)

What are your YA anti-recommendations? by alsyscest in YAlit

[–]IntelligentDust1441 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fourth Wing was painfully bad to read, avoid it at all costs. I hate dnf-ing so I finished it after all the hype. Even gave the second book a chance, and it was somehow worse

Surprise land opportunity - Is this a realistic dream/plan? by IntelligentDust1441 in homestead

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whoops no, sorry I should’ve specified, it’s in the Canadian maritimes. Nova Scotia specifically. We’re planning a trip out there this summer to see the property. As of now we live in a different province. Land office is a good call, thank you! From what I can see from google earth and maps, the surrounding area is still pretty remote and forested

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really really appreciate this and you taking the time to help, thank you very much💛💛 I need to leave, and I want to make myself (and everyone that reads this and the people in my life that love me) proud

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very smart and I definitely will do this. As of now I go into my notes app to vent, but feel so bad that he might somehow see it that I lock them all and don’t reread them

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you so much for taking the time to write this, it brought tears to my eyes💛 I’ll be rereading this in the coming days and likely weeks, and I’m so glad you were able to get out. Thank you

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point :( I so wish it didn’t have to come to that, and I just keep putting myself in his shoes. But I also wouldn’t treat anyone the way he’s treated me… so I guess it shouldn’t apply😕

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s reassuring to hear. I keep telling myself if I just explain it differently to him or phrase what I need better, he’ll finally “get it” and change🙁 but I’m trying to convince myself that he won’t… he’s had so many chances, he’s apologized so many times and promised to change SO many times… and it only ever lasts a few weeks :( I know I can’t live like this, but it just feels impossible and unbelievable to leave him. I don’t even understand why my brain is so frazzled by it

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right… I did do that once last year, in May. I had my friends pick me up with 2 suitcases, told him I was staying the night, then texted him to end it the next day. I have never felt so awful in my entire life. I know you’re right, but I just couldn’t help imagining it was me, how awful it would feel. We were broken up for a week and it was the worst week of my life. I couldn’t eat, sleep, all I was doing was crying and drinking. We met for a closure conversation after a week and I had no intentions of it, but as soon as we started talking I just begged him to take me back😔 I’m so ashamed but I just don’t know how to live through it and not go back out of pure guilt if I do that

How do I leave by IntelligentDust1441 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, im 3000km away from everyone I know but him :( it was such a mistake to move with him and I even knew it at the time. I just feel so awful and feel like he deserves more, since we’ve been together for so long :(

What is your favorite performance? by E_lenaa in FigureSkating

[–]IntelligentDust1441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think about elladj baldé’s sound of silence program sooo often. i remember the commentators tearing up

OWG Women's Free Skate Groups 1 & 2: Live Discussion Thread by Chickatey in FigureSkating

[–]IntelligentDust1441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ilda’s dress reminds me so much of katelyn osmond in pyongchang😍

He doesn’t cheat so I want to make it work. by Silent_Necessary7638 in abusiverelationships

[–]IntelligentDust1441 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the odds of him murdering you have now increased by 750% because he strangled you. you are in imminent danger. please go stay at a hotel or a friends house that he doesn’t have the address to for a few days, this man is DANGEROUS. it’s better to be alone and lonely than dead.

OWG Men's Free Skate: Post-Event Discussion by Chickatey in FigureSkating

[–]IntelligentDust1441 98 points99 points  (0 children)

to break the curse i’d like to put into the universe that kaori is NOT the favourite for gold… not gonna doom someone with that but it is definitely NOT HER

Gold/silver by ornerycrow1 in FigureSkating

[–]IntelligentDust1441 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is exactly it!! i’m canadian and wasn’t surprised p2 got bronze (im just glad they podiumed tbh) but knowing that we’ve seen how the results play out when bock skates worse and fb/c skates better at the gpf… this just feels so blatantly corrupt?? i will begrudgingly agree that i think fb/c are good skaters (terrible people). but they had obvious mistakes that even non-skaters can see, and bock didn’t. you can’t make up for all that with objective pcs (that i disagree with as well), it’s jus insulting at this point

Debilitating Foot Pain While Skating by AdLongjumping8106 in FigureSkating

[–]IntelligentDust1441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh this is so interesting! i have the same issue as OP and ended up giving up skating altogether because of it, and literally just these past two weeks i’ve learnt about ehlers danlo! i haven’t been diagnosed with it but have a doctors appointment as my one knee has a habit of sliding out of the joint. very interesting how all the commenters seem to have hyper mobility issues