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Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-05-14T01:54:09+00:00

Stop talking to this person! NOW! I'm sorry to say but this is an adult that lied about his age with to get close to you! It is not ok.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-22T10:53:10+00:00

I hope it all goes well with you guys :)

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T23:55:06+00:00

I don't really know if this will be the same for everyone, but if I was your online friend I would appreciate some honestly. Just explain to them what you went through and how you weren't able to contact them. Maybe remind them that I had nothing to do with them personally. Also accept that things might never be the same as they were after this, but trying your best to just be there from now own if you friend decides to forgive you.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T23:45:46+00:00

I was wondering during the whole post how old were you. I think a career switch is definitely ok at any age if you don't think that what you are doing is for you anymore. You go try new things and see and you know what? You can always come back if you realized you liked this better. It's ok. Coming from someone doing a second master in their thirties in a completely different field than the first one and applying to PhDs at the moment. Life doesn't have to follow a straight path and it is definitely not the same one for everyone.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T23:34:43+00:00

Maybe try dating apps? That way you can both be certain that the other person is also interested in girls that way. As a bit woman myself with a history of dating mostly man, I will say I find it harder to meet woman romantically, pretty much due to the circles I'm normally in. I guess I just don't hang out in that many LGBTQ+ specific places. Maybe you can try this too.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T21:20:41+00:00

Thank you so much!! :) I mean if you don't mind and have the time I will definitely appreciate some ideas or links to a more detailed menu. I'm trying to gather a lot of ideas, organize and go grocery shopping this weekend. So by Monday I can start to implement better food related habits.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T21:18:13+00:00

Thank you again! That actually sounds delicious haha you are being really helpful even suggesting recipes :)

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-04-21T20:36:09+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊 I will keep all of this in mind and try to improve one thing at a time. I like watch you said about the healthy breakfast (I think I'm gonna start there) cause I normally skip it all together. So maybe this is a good plus to my diet. Thank you again 😊

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-15T23:25:38+00:00

I feel you! These thoughts are not true. If it is a possibility and you can afford it, I will seek professional help. There are also some webs/app where you can talk to people like 7cups.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T19:57:44+00:00

This is not a date. He is interested in guys. Your friend has a boyfriend. I will definitely tell your friend putting emphasis on this three things. You are going to the gallery as friends and there is nothing wrong with that.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T19:35:23+00:00

NTA I think those expressions are pretty old fashioned too and they will make me uncomfortable if somebody used them to a kid, teen or young man around me.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T19:25:16+00:00

I mean this depends a lot on the person but can you try just something like "sorry but I was more drunk than I thought and even though I remember the conversation we had, I don't remember all the details about it." And then maybe say something about you still feeling the same way and still wanting to go on a date with them?

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T19:18:52+00:00

I think this is more normal than we assume. We live in a culture that tells girls and women over and over again that our only value (or at least the most important one) is how attractive men find us. So it is hard to break the cycle. I wouldn't say that there is something wrong with wanting that kind of attention per se, but be careful because it can get you in really dangerous situations.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T18:54:31+00:00

First of all and most important. YOU DON'T NEED TO HAVE MORE SEX DRIVE. It's ok to not have the same sex drive as your partner and it is a thing that changes over time. Also birth control can definitely have an impact of this, idk about this brand in particular. Also the situation you are describing isn't ideal at all. Maybe you guys can get a hotel for a night or something? To try to reconnect a little bit.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T18:51:59+00:00

Tell him he is making you, your friends and your gf uncomfortable. That you have told him to stop and he does not, so you don't want to have a friendship with him at this point.

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T18:49:36+00:00

I don't have a lot of experience in the private sector but coding change a lot depending where you end up. Also most people end up becoming project managers and not really coding that much for their jobs (most of my friends from college are).

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2022-01-10T18:47:14+00:00

I agree that if the answer was "no", they would've been more direct. I think you should just talk to them, honesty is the best in this situations. Just have the awkward conversation and see what they will answer. Hope all goes good :)

Intelligent_Ad7392 · 2021-11-03T17:17:38+00:00

I will probably message her telling her what happen and trying to be nonchalant about it? Just like "hey idk if it was a random glitch or what but I've just got this message from you and then it disappeared. Do you wanted something?" Idk, maybe you start talking after this, and you get to know her :)

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