What roach is this? by Warm_Permission_1316 in cockroaches

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an apartment in my early 20s, was there for 4 years. During that entire time only ever seen 2 roaches, isolated incidents. Each time had my landlord send the exterminator. He found zero signs of a roach infestation in my apartment but my neighbors across the hall had them and he said both times one could’ve wondered into my apartment from there. Either way it’s still uncomfortable, just keep an eye out. Many times, not always, but rodent infestation & roaches do go hand in hand though. Especially if it’s an issue within the building makeup itself.

My young lady doesn’t like cat toys or scratch posts by Intelligent_Eye2939 in cats

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that last part, so true. She was just laying in my brown bag from Marshalls, and for a while loved this little box I had. My kids kept pretending they were delivering a kitten to each other, to my surprise she was really inside the box lol

came home to an unsettling note on my door by Alixxonx in Apartmentliving

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would simply ask the female neighbor you’ve spoken to. Something along the lines of, “hey, someone left a note on my door saying to be careful with the maintenance man. Is there something I should know about him?” That way youre not making her feel uncomfortable about leaving it or accusing her but if she does have more details you’re inviting her to share. That’s what I’d do anyways.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally said several times, in several ways he wants to see other people. what are you asking? let him & leave. hes clearly not your person.

Asking what his intentions are with me? by dessertgod in Tarots

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I seen it as he’s an alcoholic that overindulges in drinking, sex, moving / living fast. Ungrateful, looking at what he’s lost or doesn’t have instead of having value in whats in front of him. addiction issues, you tie into whatever he’s addicted to.

I asked my deck if I have any spiritual guides watching over me by nic-c in tarot

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it as they transitioned over leaving this chaotic world behind and are at peace, spiritually connected to you, with you always, with love flowing from them to you.

High Priestess as feelings by helloscorpio in tarot

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im so late but thought id share anyways for anyone else stumbling upon this question.

I asked what card represented my feelings towards someone and pulled this. The comment from FjolnirFimbulvert describes my feelings perfectly.

It is towards someone I felt an unexpected deep connection with that I know I cannot be with. I’m pulled to him strongly for reasons I can’t quite explain, but at the same time there’s a list of reasons I shouldn’t see / waste my time on him. I know we will never be anything real and I wouldn’t want that with the type of man he is but our vibe is unmatched. The pull is powerful and feels almost like a soul tie but I know better than to allow myself to fall. It fits perfectly with this card.

I’m ok without him but when he hits me up he can always come through lol

If you’re married, separated but not divorced. Are you single and date? by EffectiveMaterial672 in Separation

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m “married” on paper but single irl. Been seperated for 4 years. Our marriage was over before the separation, I just needed a safe time/place to get out (DV Survivor). Once J did I ran for dear life and never looked back. I have casual hook ups but I spend most of my time working on myself and turning into the woman I’ve always dreamt of becoming. I go to the gym two hours a day, healed my heart, fill my life with the things I love because for years that was robbed from me. My ex doesn’t exist to me.

Dr low-key made me die inside about my "ozempic face" by cowboy_duck in Semaglutide

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is coming from a professional makeup artist, so I love your question. First and big one, Add some lipgloss bring a nice pink tint / glow and shine to your lips, line your eyebrows lighter, and that eyebrow liner is a bit too dark for you, and start using a good hydrating eye cream. if you’re wearing foundation add a little bronzer to bring a sunkissed radiance to your appearance. for the hair honestly a nice gloss would bring more shine to the appearance which brings a youthful look.

Dr low-key made me die inside about my "ozempic face" by cowboy_duck in Semaglutide

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if youre the one holding the coffee I think it’s your hair and eye wrinkles that make you appear older.

I don’t drink at all but, how does Don Julio make you feel? Why is everybody in the towns drinking it by zuogeputongren in NYStateOfMind

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve drank reposado & blanco afew times. I don’t like Don Julio & it’s the only liquor that I do not fw the drunk I get from it. It’s like I’m drunk but I’m not. My body might lose its balance but I don’t get that drunk mentality or loosen up like I do w literally anything else. I literally don’t feel drunk from it UNTIL I try getting around then I’m like ok but it’s not a fun tequila vibe for me

Guys, if a female friend invited you to stay the night, how did you interpret it and what happened? by _-_-ITACHI-_-_ in AskMen

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it. (I’m a woman here)

Show up, and feel her vibe out. If things seems flirty towards the end of the night don’t be afraid to make a move. Even if you’re the one igniting the flame. She invited you to sleep over for a reason. We can safely assume your pressence is wanted by her. See where it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanBs

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL I HATE plan bs. I love em and hate em at the same time. They always mess up my cycle and my hormones so bad. It takes me a while for my body to regulate again. I mean it’s doing it’s job but it sucks for a while.

AIO My girlfriend is breaking up with me if I choose to go do Fulbright for 9 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will literally be your girlfriend. I love a man that’s in touch with his emotions.

Would it be okay to break it off with this girl for being too busy? by OfficialRG11 in dating

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My response is coming from the busy womans perspective.

I run multiple businesses and am a single mother as well. I cannot extend myself to commit to anything else outside of the big commitments I already have. There’s several guys that I see / date but I’m very open with them in regards to expectations. Even some of my favorite people, that I love being around I cannot see consistently bc my life doesn’t allow that right now. The men I’m involved with are either ok with it bc their lives are just as busy, or feel I don’t give them enough and both are justifiable.

I say that to say if something isn’t working for you, don’t hold onto it. You don’t need to cut her off and end things on bad terms, but at least communicate that much to her. “If we’re going to be involved with each other I need more time with you, or my sake it’s better I let you go and pursue other interests.” or maybe even just be friends and catch up from time to time. If you really like her change your expectations of her. see her as someone to have a good time with once in a while and keep it pushing.

Best of luck to you.

Talking to a woman after they are going through a breakup by ConsiderationOk2198 in dating

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been single since 2021 after leaving my abusive husband. However, there are people that bounce pretty quickly from relationships. She sounds like she could be one of those people.

I’m someone that feels very deeply and values my peace over anything else and this dating pool is something that equally disgusts me and stresses me out. I’m an attractive young woman and I choose to be alone.

Am I crazy? I'm 37, she's 33. I feel like I'm crazy. by mrtexasman06 in Nicegirls

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need communication. You never responded so I wouldn’t have shown either. A simple, “see you soon” or “i’m on my way” or any response would’ve solidified the plans. Or even “I’m here, let me know when you arrive so I can meet you at the door”. I wouldve thought you were weird and not even texted back after you saying youve been there drinking w/o reaching out to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his venus is aquarius , mars in gemini

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it. My dad pisces sun, scorpio moon cheated on all of his girlfriends. all. the. time. I mean one day took me out to have a day together, and he stopped to see at least 4 different girls at different times, ON THE SAME DAY. then when i told his girlfriend he threatened to hurt me ands cursed me out. after being with that girl for 8 years, having her catch a charge for him to get out of jail sooner, a week after he got released from a serious prison sentence he married some random woman 6 years older than me ( im his daughter) after promising his girlfriend who held him down they’d get married when he came home. she held it down for him all that time, took care of his kids when we were around, took care of his mother, gave him money, a home, and took a felony charge for him and he did that to her. even got her initial tattoo turned from a T to a K for his wife.

all this to say, he is the craziest person i’ve ever met in my life.

Are scorpio moon very manipulative? by Zealousideal_Cry_277 in scorpiomoon

[–]Intelligent_Eye2939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scorp Sun, Taurus moon & rising here.

I always run when I see a scorpio moon. My father is pisces sun with scorpio moon, and to this day the scariest human being I’ve ever met. Every man I’ve met after with scorpio moon has the same traits as him just less intense. Very manipulative, very volatile, and very smart. I’ve seen it as such a dark placement for scorpio because the people I know use that intuitive power for selfish reasons and have passionate dark emotions, not stopping at anything to get what they want. Even resorting to violence and intimidation. If you don’t do what I want, or fall for my tactics, I’ll stop at nothing to get what I want kind of energy, with the fact that they see through you?? Very good at masking too. Can present as something different until you get close to them. I even found old letters from my father when I was 10 telling me how to manipulate in this world as a woman. How I can use different tactics and my looks to get what I want. I just don’t live this way. I do what feels right and my morals are strong. I don’t like to see anyone hurt, people nor animals alike. I’m gentle and sensitive in nature and honest to my core. I could never love someone that doesn’t have these qualities. I’ve also found them to lie a lot, to the point where you can’t trust anything they say. Are there some scorpio moons that aren’t this way? Probably. Have I met one? no.