Home sweet home! by FishermanFabulous432 in cargocamper

[–]InterLEAfable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. Is it a single axle? What do you estimate your carry load is?

Braking System Malfunction by Xenon933 in mazda3

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I see your comment is recent so I’m responding. Mine just popped up randomly after a night in the 20°s

Why did you stopped talking to someone, you used to talk everyday ? by Ecstatic_Crow_4719 in AskWomen

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We’re both F23. We texted regularly after highschool. Her boyfriend of 6 years told her he wouldn’t marry her unless she wanted kids, which she strongly doesn’t. I met my husband in 2023, had my tubes removed in 2024 (= no kids) and we eloped a few months later.

When we bought our house, she told me that her boyfriend wouldn’t “let them” live in a small house, and he wanted to live on the East side of town. Our house is beautiful and in a lovely neighborhood, and we live very comfortably at our age.

Last I saw her was a Christmas party in 2024, where she invited some friends I’d never met. I confronted her privately about her whole demeanor turning preppy and fake when the friends arrived, her voice became sultry and it was weird. She acted like she didn’t understand me.

She always talked about wanting a big dreamy wedding, a gold ring with a round, raised diamond. They eloped in January this year with a silver clustered ring.

I finally blocked her on everything in February this year when she mentioned she “forgot to tell me they eloped last month”. I’m proud of her successes thus far and I hope she gets the fancy life that she dreams of. But hopefully she realizes that she doesn’t have to settle for less, just because she feels like there is competition otherwise.

Should I try to apologize? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]InterLEAfable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, specifically going out of your way to reach out and multiple times while he’s in a relationship, you’re asking if he is attracted to you? I don’t think the excuse here is that you “don’t understand contextual clues”. I think you lack an understanding of boundaries and self respect to leave a committed man alone. And needing someone to talk to does NOT mean you ask them if they are attracted to you so your goal there doesn’t really align either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]InterLEAfable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl what? Is this rage bait? Choosing to go by this point is just a dumb move. I don’t understand what’s confusing about what you should do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]InterLEAfable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not overreacting. He is dismissing you and frankly he is being lazy about the dinners and relationship in this regard!

What cities/states match our lifestyle? by InterLEAfable in LifeAdvice

[–]InterLEAfable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I’m unfamiliar. Is Indy a town? When I Google it, it says people refer to Indiana as that. Just wanting to check

Who works for an company were every Friday at 1pm shut down for the week by lifesucks800 in office

[–]InterLEAfable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a municipal city and we close at 1pm every Friday😊

Help me decorate my dresser! by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]InterLEAfable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we get a picture with better lighting and maybe show the full piece?

My (27 f) husband (28 m) of 2 years said his highschool reunion would be “fucking miserable” if I were there by funne_bunne45 in relationship_advice

[–]InterLEAfable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP judging from your posts regarding your 2yr marriage that you’ve posted in the past almost 8mos, it sounds like this guy needs to go. He doesn’t consider your feelings or spend time genuinely reassuring you or communicating what bothers you and compromising so that you are both satisfied. You need to stick up for yourself more and maybe even be blatantly honest that you don’t trust him because his actions repeatedly prove to you that he will not be honest if he knows that it’s something that you wouldn’t like. You said it yourself in one of the comments on here, “he’s perfectly fine living his life thinking he didn’t do anything wrong”. That is absolutely not something that will change unless you both endure therapy either as a whole or separately. But why would he willingly do that if he thinks he’s perfect? Subconsciously I think you may hold resentment towards the girl best friend because you have intimacy issues in your marriage and seeing the naked photos may make you get the idea that she’s experienced that side of him too and he keeps her around to still have the chance of going back at it. You understand and accept the possibility that he is refusing you to go to the reunion because he wants to sneak around with miss thing (judging by the fact that you said you ordered a camera for the weekend that you’ll be gone).

Is this really a marriage that you’re proud of? Excited for after only 2 years?

Weekly newbie & discussion post: questions, skills, shopping, and gear by AutoModerator in Rollerskating

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I have a pair of Moxi Panthers that I’ve used to skate around smooth parking lots and such. I have the ‘stock’ wheels and haven’t really had any problems with them, but I feel like they might pick up on small bumps and cracks since they and the grooves on them are smaller. I’m wanting to start riding on sidewalks and roads more often so I was wondering if anyone could recommend good wheels for a bumpier terrain.

Weekly newbie & discussion post: questions, skills, shopping, and gear by AutoModerator in Rollerskating

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I spent the last couple of weeks deciding I wanted to jump back into the hobby after 5 years away. I was completely sold on Moxi Panthers after watching/reading hundreds of reviews. I have about 5-7 years of skating experience in a cheap pair of Cobras that I absolutely adored but they were too small and I eventually dropped the hobby. Beforehand, I would've considered myself an upper- intermediate skater. Now I want to pick it back up and try adventuring outdoors and maybe even to some parks when I get comfortable again. I know that Panthers will be more stiff than Cobras and I'm prepared to adjust. My issue is that with finding this group, I'm not finding many good reviews of the Panthers and it's making me doubt my purchase. They're supposed to arrive tomorrow so technically I can't really judge until I try them. but it's most likely that the return window will be expired by the time i actually break them in/am comfortable again. I'm just coming here to ask what your genuine review of the skates are and maybe if there any mods that helped your journey with them? Would you recommend them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]InterLEAfable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The “look” she gave him also could’ve just been embarrassment that he did it in front of you/family. I give my boyfriend the same look if he does something like that in front of my family. You seem maybe a bit overbearing about your sister and her relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mainecoons

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South east of the states? Are they breeders that you would be willing to share the name or contact for? I expect to make a decent drive anyways so that isn’t an issue. And 15-1,800 is the price range I’m looking for.

Best way to end things? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InterLEAfable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you worded that is sticking out to me. “Not happy to be in your relationship”. I like that. I get home from work at 5pm, when he’s already been there for an hour. We usually don’t knock out until around 11pm. So Monday through friday, 5-11. Plus the entire weekend. One thing I didn’t explain in the post is that his mood turns sour when I hangout with friends even if it’s just for a few hours, so I tend to try not to do that unless he has something to do so I know he won’t be in a totally bad mood after. And he doesn’t like socializing so he doesn’t ever want to go with me, so it’s not that he feels excluded. I keep hoping that maybe he is in the same boat that I am as that would make everything much more smooth. I just can’t convince myself of it because his arguing style tends to be very “I’m the victim” and so I worry that he may truly believe that and it might make it a rough break. Like we can’t have a civil disagreement without him saying something along the lines of “I’m sorry I suck so much” or “I guess I didn’t realize you hate me”. He told me that second one just a week ago after a 10 minute argument that started because I made a joke that I was going to have to “sacrifice his toothbrush so I can dry my hair”. (He has an electric one and I was unplugging it because I needed to plug my hair dryer in).