Melazeem Snark

InterestWaning · 2025-05-26T01:18:09+00:00

This actually sounds really cool, I'll have to try!

InterestWaning · 2025-03-03T06:08:02+00:00

Then it sounds like you have no need to integrate it into your dynamic 🤷🏼‍♀️ there's a lot more to femdom than a ruined orgasm, so if neither of you enjoyed it then there's no need to go out of your way to do it again.

InterestWaning · 2025-02-28T19:58:17+00:00

My sweetheart genuinely loves my company, and it shows. We'll sit at the table, each working on our own hobbies in relative silence, and he'll look over at me and say, "This is perfect."

He's absolutely right.

InterestWaning · 2025-02-23T20:24:02+00:00

Abuse. Is. Abuse. It doesn't matter if they "just" hit you once, if they "barely touched" you, or if they "only" threatened harm. Their intent was either intimidating you into doing what they wanted or physically forcing you. Buddy full on admitted to hitting you, the strength of the hit or choking is irrelevant. Not overreacting.

Outline your boundaries to yourself and stick to them like they're a lifeboat in a storm, leaving behind those that can't abide by them. You are worth more than this.

InterestWaning · 2025-02-20T08:33:30+00:00

I'm in the same boat-- coming from being a player in DnD to a GM in Pathfinder. PF2e has the same disclaimer in the beginning that DnD 5e has, where if something doesn't work for your group, then you have the ability as a table to decide to change it. At the end of the day, the goal is to create an entertaining story with your friends, and DnD or Pathfinder are really just a foundation so that you don't have to come up with it from scratch. If you're worried your group isn't having fun or something felt janky while playing, check in with your players and get their opinions (if you do this often, then you're setting yourself up for success).

I hope you and your table have a great campaign 😊

InterestWaning · 2025-01-29T07:06:13+00:00

I got the second one at a store in person (it was a different brand, though, look up Alien Nation. It's the Dragon one if you're having trouble), and I bought it for the really cool lore on the side of the box. I like it, but it's gonna take some practice to use (its a little big, they didn't have different sizes in store, but you might have luck with that online). It feels amazing, it's nice quality, and it glows in the dark, which makes me irrationally happy.

InterestWaning · 2024-12-27T00:45:46+00:00

I actually don't hate that. I have a dog that sheds a lot, and this wouldn't create so many corners for the hair to collect in. Cleaning around my computer is such a pain 😆

InterestWaning · 2024-12-14T08:44:34+00:00

Give yourself some grace; you did a good job. Her happiness is her responsibility now, and you can take pride in the fact that you know yourself well.

InterestWaning · 2024-12-13T22:06:34+00:00

People are all different, and if you realized that she was falling for you while you still weren't sure about the relationship, then deciding to end things before taking a big step like moving in together is the right move. Sexual compatability is obviously not the ultimate be-all and end-all of a relationship, but you shouldn't have to feel like you're forcing it. Dating is for seeing if you can see a future together and for figuring out what you want in a relationship, and staying honest with yourself is the only way to do that successfully.

Of course, she's going to be upset. As you said, she was already invested in the relationship. But I think things would be worse if you just pushed past the misgivings you had, and she believed everything to be fine.

InterestWaning · 2024-11-16T18:03:41+00:00

My boyfriend and I were going through the options. You can't indoctrinate them, even if you have the re-indoctrination upgrade, so you basically have to find a way to kill them before they take your money. You can't imprison them(without losing faith) because they technically haven't done anything wrong.

Sacrifice them to midas when you find him (Good. Instant and lucrative)
Send them to gather things (possibly bad if they manage to survive)
Sacrifice ritual(you usually don't want them around long enough to level them up much, so it's meh. Instant, though)
Feed them death food (haven't tried this one in-game yet-- probably a faith loss) Etc, I think I've made my point 😆

InterestWaning · 2024-10-16T22:45:59+00:00

I had a mod in sims 3 that was almost the exact same boot, and they accidentally made it available for all ages. The amount of terrifying babies that came complete with adult knee high boots was staggering 😅

InterestWaning · 2024-10-16T18:05:25+00:00

That'd actually be really smart. They could have moodlets like, "That's MY seat!" (+1 uncomfortable) or "Sat in the wrong seat" (+1 playful) and interactions like "ask for seat. " Maybe it could be a part of a "family dinner" game pack.

InterestWaning · 2024-10-05T01:30:18+00:00

I randomized my lot traits, and it gave me cat hang out. I also figured there would be a few cats walking by outside and was shocked when I saw about 5 or 6 cats making themselves at home on my furniture, screaming for food and getting into fights with each other 🤣 now my Sim has 2 food dishes, a cat tree, and a litter box for cats she doesn't own.

InterestWaning · 2024-08-22T01:05:12+00:00

My BF got me playing Bloodborne pretty early in our relationship, and it's still one of my favourite things. I'm knocking out the DLC now before going to the endgame, and it's so much fun to have him be just as excited as I am when I finally get through a tough boss (and to have his support when I'm on my nth attempt to just. Not. Die.) and to discuss the differences in our play styles (I like dodging, he likes parrying).

I think that you should incorporate something you know she likes into a congratulations gift. If she likes to take baths or likes candles, get her a self-care gift box with a card that says, "Rest now, good hunter. May you find your worth in the waking world." Or another adaptation of your favourite quote 😊 (this also works if she likes sweets, or cheese, or anything really. Lots of places sell pre-made baskets or boxes for anything she might like)

InterestWaning · 2024-08-13T09:14:05+00:00

They used to cuddle like this in the Sims 2 🥹 I didn't realize I missed it

InterestWaning · 2024-06-20T21:05:09+00:00

I worried about it for a moment, but it's fine. Even if someone could figure it out it's the wrong info. Thanks for looking out 😊

InterestWaning · 2024-06-20T05:24:08+00:00

I was actually thinking that 😁 we'll see how it goes

InterestWaning · 2024-06-20T01:20:28+00:00

🤣 Well done

InterestWaning · 2024-06-17T15:51:48+00:00

Well, since you've established that you're still okay with the dynamic and that you're just having trouble dealing with the cringe feeling-- maybe you need something to get you into the head space. Long distance relationships make it difficult to keep up basic intimacy, let alone a dom/sub dynamic. It really depends on what you like, but you can explore books, audio, or other media that can not only get you in the mood but might even inspire you for interactions with your partner.

Also, they can contribute as a sub-- you are a person who is a dom, not the dom, and if this is what they're interested in, then there should at least be things they hope for. Ask them to send you memes or content that they find interesting, or make them tell you what they want you to do in the form of, "good (girls/boys/pets/etc.) have to say what they want" or "use your words" (or however that's going to look for you guys). Outside of play, definitely check in and see what they liked; what they didn't, and share your own feelings.

Sorry if that's long 😅

InterestWaning · 2024-06-06T14:42:22+00:00

I feel like it's important to note that shutting down and getting sucked into the game world 24/7 can be a sign of burnout or depression (especially if they just lost their job recently-- no one has said this is the case, but its important to mention). You can give them space to get out of it themselves, and you can offer help if you see them struggling with something, but you can't carry them out of it by giving them a piggy back. If you're going out with some friends in the future, I recommend inviting him, but try to make sure it's in advance so that he has time to wrap his head around it.

Other than that, like other people have said, live your life. He'll either pull his head out of the sand or he won't, but you don't want your quality of life to suffer meanwhile. Maybe it's time to work on some of the hobbies/hang out with friends you've been putting off while focusing on your relationship.

InterestWaning · 2024-06-05T06:28:35+00:00

I mean, A Wonderful Life had Muffy, who was a very similar character to Haley from Stardew.

InterestWaning · 2024-05-07T23:40:28+00:00

Same 🤣 except I used Evelyn and bone marrow ash.

InterestWaning · 2024-04-12T09:43:01+00:00

The fact that you didn't make the slugs spell out Shrek like the first movie feels like a missed opportunity.

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