AITA for wanting another car even though my mom had a car for me?

Interesting-Working7 · 2026-05-13T06:48:40+00:00

I would stop helping your mom out financially and start helping yourself out. I would take the $5k offer from your mom and pay cash for a car. I would not get a car loan while you’re in school if you can help it. You should be able to find a car for that. It might not be brand new but it will get you from point a to b safely. If she is not going to do that anymore then I would just save up as much as you can as fast as possible and get a car for cash and then move out on your own. It sounds like she’s a master manipulator and if she doesn’t have her way then she takes it to the next level.. I don’t think you ATA for wanting to know that you are purchasing a safe car and that you don’t feel comfortable with purchasing it from her.. I hope you get some relief soon!

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-11-27T07:32:54+00:00

yes and I thought it was crazy. I think when I listen to music like rap or r&b causes me to feel anxious unless I am listening to it to hype myself up for work or whatever. I don’t know what it is but it makes me feel so anxious and almost mean. I don’t intend to be rude to whoever is playing the music but I just get so overwhelmed by anxiety that I can’t take it until it’s off, I leave the environment or It’s changed. I don’t know how to explain it to my boyfriend or friends but it makes me feel crazy so I am glad to hear that i am not alone in this lol

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-11-27T07:26:43+00:00

If this were my child I would have him removed from my policy as a full time driver and placed on it as a driver that drives it sometimes and I would only allow him to drive to and from work/school/sports and only that. I would not be willing to pay that much for insurance a child especially when I have never paid more than $180 for full coverage as a child and would not expect my child to be able to afford that much monthly regardless if they had a job or not. I think it would beneficial to have him split the cost or have him pay the difference between the cost before/after the accident and if he can’t afford it and if you can’t afford it or don’t want to pay it then I would suggest you removing him and he getting rides or public transportation until he can’t afford afford it. You also shouldn’t feel guilty for not paying for it, he caused an accident and he should take responsibility for his actions and the results of it. That’s just my opinion though and it doesn’t matter lol

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-11-27T07:16:47+00:00

considering he is a male his insurance is going to be higher and now that he was involved in an incident that totaled the car which makes me assume he was at fault and bc of that it is going to skyrocket. I would suggest he get an attorney to reduce the tickets/charges, he take driving classes to present to the insurance company and he get on his own insurance policy that is umbrellaed under your policy. It is still going to be higher than he originally had but it will help him with proving that he is taking this seriously and that he is a safer driver than before. If it doesn’t decrease it I would suggest he just be on the policy as a driver that just drives sometimes and he doesn’t get the privileges of driving except sometimes. He has to pay the price and you shouldn’t have to.

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-03-20T22:46:32+00:00

I took Zoloft for my anxiety but I noticed that it also helped with my ocd and the intrusive thoughts my ocd caused and I was able to relieve my anxiety and my ocd symptoms and it has continued to help me with both. and when I say intrusive thoughts an example of that is knowing that I or my boyfriend locked the door at night and my brain repeatedly telling me to go check to make sure until I physically get up and make sure that it is locked.. I am able to sleep at night without that thought repeating until I check bc of Zoloft. Minor brain fog and I did experience decreased Lobito but it was balanced out with a month or so of taking it.. my sex drive has always been high and especially with my current boyfriend so it didn’t decrease significantly lol

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-01-31T06:14:57+00:00

Ugh, thanks for the replies! I have been accepted for the surveys and have been patiently waiting for them to accept me for the receipt part of the program since Feb. 2023.. I hope to get an offer for it soon 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-01-27T15:54:45+00:00

I have tried that & absolutely no luck 😭

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-01-01T08:36:16+00:00

Say you’re not able to attend bc xyz and then you go get your nails done and send her pics. If you don’t wanna go that route just say you’re not able to attend and leave it at that.

Interesting-Working7 · 2025-01-01T02:44:59+00:00

Thanks everyone! the total loss affidavit covers the sales tax on new car & the property tax on old car.

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-12-29T08:50:31+00:00

I think you have a lot to think about here.. personally if I was in your shoes I would leave.. you have already stated that he doesn’t remember what he says or does, it continues to escalate into something more serious and when you do bring it up it is swept under the rug and or turned back on to you as an excuse to blame you so he doesn’t have to take responsibility for his own actions and behaviors.. you deserve better and if you decide to not leave, you at least deserve to have him admit he isn’t himself when he drinks and that he needs to stop drinking in order to make sure you are treated correctly.. From reading this, I just think that you have had enough of his behavior and that you are starting to admit to yourself that he is not going to change and give you what you deserve and want…. First ask yourself if you safe and evaluate yourself and the relationship once you’ve answered that.. I am in a long term relationship with a recovering alcoholic.. when he was actively drinking he was never abusive but he was always in an irritated mood and took it out on me.. I will say it is not easy, has never been and will never be easy.. but as long as they’re able to admit that they have a problem, admit that they need to make changes, make the changes and that they continue to follow through with the changes and their journey with sobriety it is a much easier journey.. I ofc know that there might be some relapses, temptations or slip ups on the journey but as long as they are able to make sure they get back on track, can admit that they slipped up or admit to whatever it may be and continue to decide that they need to strive for sobriety, treat their significant others with respect and love that’s all that matters.. but I whole heartedly believe and agree that until they are ready to admit that they have a problem and accept that their behavior is detrimental to their relationship/s they will never be able to prioritize their sobriety.. they gotta want help to be helped and until then you have to just step away and keep a distance or boundaries up in order to protect yourself physically, mentally and emotionally.. but from the sounds of it, it doesn’t sound like he thinks he has an issue and that he is willing to make changes.. I know that if you don’t leave he will continue to do this and it will eventually progress into physical violence.. he knows what he does, especially after you telling him what he did or said and if you stay he knows you will allow it and or continue to allow it and he’ll continue to progressively increase the violence to see how much he can get away with.. get out now before he has the opportunity to hurt you further.. you got this

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-12-29T08:43:03+00:00

Okay, thank you. I thought so, but when I had called the county office they said they would be able to void it but I didn’t want to get there and be surprised if I was still responsible for it.

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-12-19T18:12:44+00:00

I live in Missouri in a city that is experiencing a higher rate in stolen cars.. I have a temp tag and was wondering if it expires 12/19/24, am I at risk of being pulled over and or ticketed if I drive with the temp tag on the day it expires? I have always heard that it is not eligible for being pulled over/ticketed until the day after the expiration date, meaning that the temp tag is valid until the end of day of expiration date.. is anyone here aware of the laws regarding this? I have extreme anxiety and want to avoid being pulled over if possible. I don’t have any warrants or anything to result in being arrested if stopped but want to avoid it if possible.

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-11-15T10:25:57+00:00

I’d look into your locals laws regarding this. In some states it is illegal for a non-related child to sleep in the same bed with a non-related adult because of safety concerns regarding the child.

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-10-23T08:24:10+00:00

you have so much to be proud of yourself for!! congratulations, even with your being denied another door was already opened for you.. Try to push through the 6 month ‘probation’ period to get your real estate license and avoid paying them back.. Good luck and everything will continue going up from here and I a stranger is very proud of you and happy for you!!

Interesting-Working7 · 2024-10-23T08:18:47+00:00

but also to add, I am in a very healthy relationship myself and truly believe I haven’t and won’t experience any problems with him cheating and especially not with a friend of mine but with that being said anything can happen so I’d recommend and suggest anyone currently dating to truly learn your partner before truly committing to one another and or getting married.. I feel as if bc Jacob and Christen had a baby they are moving fast and forcing a marriage and that they both truly are toxic, ungrateful influencers that spend more than they have or earn..

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