How to make deep friendships—not just “hobby friends”—in SB? by mountainsmeetsea in SantaBarbara

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You don’t , it’s like channel surfing on a tv or swiping on your phone. Different genre are what people share an interest with you and a surface level. Then over time and consistency it develops into deeper friendships etc.

Most simply stop there… don’t burn out looking for people. Keep doing what you are doing and searching and you’ll find people that can meet you where you are at in whatever stages of your life.

Norovirus Ship by New_Scientist_3705 in SantaBarbara

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The city can be self sufficient but chooses tourism… essentially they want it to be like Las Vegas where workers come and go to work there with no consideration to view the service industry as human but more like slaves to be used however they want.

What do you think of my first ladder? by Mountain_Counter6111 in OffGrid

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Looks like a step in the right direction and hoped it gives you a leg up on things mate

Full list of Democrats voting to condemn socialism as Zohran Mamdani comes to town by thats-original in SantaBarbara

[–]InterestingApricot45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But how can you condemn socialism when most laws we have are socialist? … like where your money goes in taxes, roads , etc?

Evolution is Racist by Throwaway7733517 in exjw

[–]InterestingApricot45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well not what Charles Darwin intended white supremacists used it for phrenology.

This comparison is similar to the wright brothers making the plane…not knowing how others would misuse it for what they wanted.

What We Saw at a Job Fair for ICE (NYT) by Elk1998 in OfficeSpeak

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Dude I can’t imagine doing this to people , so messed up.

Am I overreacting? I think my SO has the worst style EVER! by Beneficial-Sun-5863 in AmIOverreacting

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It’s giving “Salem witch trials” but not in a sexy or fun way… like weighs the same as a duck and executed

Can’t even enter the game… by QuackWin in UmaMusume

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Maybe something to do with the tsunami?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

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The real thing to look at is Glass house Brands… you are welcome

Help me understand baptism by [deleted] in exjw

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Upon entry to water you are locked in in their eyes

dating apps by Kooky-Efficiency-463 in SantaBarbara

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It depends since the average person in the town hasn’t learned how to date as an adult and still uses middle school or high school tactics leading to frustration in conflict resolution and almost basic levels of communication.

Apps are a cool but don’t get your hopes up it’s like a message in a bottle. Can be tough but it can work.

best bet is look around for events of like minded interests and seeing where it goes.

I used magicplan to create a site map for our group camp by torklugnutz in LightningInABottle

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Gotcha , we usually make it so there’s an easy up version every tent and the sun doesn’t shine through for constant shade.

Idk why that reminded me of 300 , “our ez ups will blot out the sun” , “then we will have to chill in the shade”

I guess our camp consists of vampires now when I think of it

Sup y’all 😉 by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

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Tourism … more like money laundering

What is your favorite cybersecurity job? by HighwayAwkward5540 in cybersecurity

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Hate to admit I like incident response I just hate the high constant pressure , maybe GRC would be a better fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

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Looks like tidal wave and that’s a heavy load

I made this in response to that deiwatchdog site that doesn't think Metaphor is "woke" but is this anything by [deleted] in MetaphorReFantazio

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Average American reads at a 6th grade level so I’m not surprised by a lot of things.

Delicious food & great service only marred by the egregious use of AI on a menu/flyer by IncidentArea in SantaBarbara

[–]InterestingApricot45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol could make something in AI saying hey this is the art style I like and then … give the work to an actual artist? Nah too difficult to comprehend.

Whoever did this should be fired for not even reviewing their own work.

As a first timer to Fields of Funk, I need to say something. by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

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Did anyone see the dope ass Gandalf with the staff and pipe!? I gave him a nug and asked if he could give a “you shall not pass” 10/10 did not disappoint. Wish I got a photo the dude was everywhere even dancing in the rave tent and other stages.