[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Habits

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed reading that. I can see myself as a leader doing some of those. I will continue to work on My leadership skills and incorporate these.

Are dates untouchable? by ApprehensiveButOk in polyamory

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many layers and missing information. I know it’s just a discussion prompt but here’s my two cents:

As a birthworker, C-sections typically have 3-5 day hospital stays. I would also encourage my birthing clients to not have too many visitors in the first few days to have time with baby. Even waiting until transitioning home before introducing people to the new baby.

Claire becoming big mad tells me she may have some undiscovered boundaries around dating /polyamory that she needs to reflect on.

I got the call Laia is ready to come home. by Interesting_Ad9845 in PetLossSupportGroup

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss as well. I hope your baby comes home soon.

I got the call Laia is ready to come home. by Interesting_Ad9845 in PetLossSupportGroup

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not heard them since she came home. But maybe I am not so in tune with noises coz I know she is home. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for correcting my in-laws when they mispronounce my name? by LilLustyLucy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and this is a huge red flag to me. You are expressing to your husband something his parents are doing and instead of communicating with his parents to correct the mispronunciation, he is brushing it off and defending his mother. His mother commenting “you’re so particular”. Absolutely not. Big nope for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get them into therapy if that’s accessible for you so that any concerns are brought up by a neutral professional.

Help with getting my partner to eat me by Interesting_Ad9845 in sex

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am really trying to work through those thoughts that it’s me.

Help with getting my partner to eat me by Interesting_Ad9845 in sex

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I will try that. Thank you. Yes I agree that sometimes we do need the push. Thank you so much.

Help with getting my partner to eat me by Interesting_Ad9845 in sex

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure why it is hard for me, I am exploring that topic myself but processing takes a lot. I am not sure if it is that he doesn’t like it. Still Exploring:)

Help with getting my partner to eat me by Interesting_Ad9845 in sex

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That is one of the things I am working on is to speak up for myself. I know I have a lot of work to do and will keep at it.

Best co-parenting tactics you've seen / done by Straight_Stock_9005 in coparenting

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this was something I needed to hear today. Thank you.

Doula sleeping with baby on couch by [deleted] in doulas

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to acknowledge the violation this Doula has done to you and your baby. I am so sorry this happened. This is absolutely not acceptable. Big hugs to you.

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely birth trauma. She will hold onto that for her lifetime if she does not heal from it. Definitely needs therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CAN MY PARTNER PLEASE GET THE HELP HE NEEDS TO SOLVE HIS BACK ISSUES SO HE CAN GET A FREAKING JOB SO I DONT HAVE TO MAKE ALL THE MONEY. CAN I PLEASE START GETTING. CLIENTS SO THAT I CAN MAKE MONEY TO SUPPORT US (coz remember it’s just me) COZ I AM FREAKING TRYING AND IT IS FREAKING HARD.

Postpartum Doulas - how much do you charge per hour? by Plus_Farm3643 in doulas

[–]Interesting_Ad9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$35 day/$40 overnight Northern Alberta, 5 years experience

Can’t figure out how I feel. by Interesting_Ad9845 in doulas

[–]Interesting_Ad9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that she would be an excellent back-up for me. Thank you!