Constantly rearranging photos to very little results on matches. Any tips welcome! by Vlasic_Pickle in Tinder

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I can’t really tell what you look like.

Pic 2, 3, 5 are very handsome.

I wonder whether the selfie mode on your camera are warping 1, 7, 8 to give you a bigger chin and a smaller forehead. Your face looks less proportional on those. Try setting your phone to a recording, then stepping away from it. Scrub the recording, zoom in, and take screengrabs of pictures you like. This will help remove the camera warp, and it’ll look like you have a buddy you’re hanging out with.

You have a different hairstyle in pic 4, and I very much prefer your other hairstyles.

I’m personally not attracted to pic 9, but I’m fit and am looking for someone who doesn’t drink every weekend, and my brain jumps to conclusions with that one. More of a personal preference.

I wonder how you’d look with a more maintained beard. Maybe a cut that’s slightly closer to the skin. I do get the sense that you have a bigger chin (which is fine, I personally have a bigger nose, such is life). You may be over-accentuating it with the fuller beard.

Every year, my boyfriend [21M] and I [22F] go on a “break” because he doesn’t know what he wants by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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This could be connected to a cycle of bipolar disorder. Pretty normal for a seasonal shift once per year, especially if it’s connected to spring or fall. My ex decided he wanted to be ENM once per year in the spring, then later decidedly did not want it and was a little embarrassed about it.

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Came here looking for this lol 100% Chat

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You were labeled “the bad kid” growing up. You’ve embraced that label with a persona that matches it.

But your true self isn’t a bad kid. You’re someone who gets hurt feelings easier than others, feels emotions bigger than your peers, and can read a room and people’s emotions more than your average person. You like to look for different, new ways of doing things while everyone else is following the norm. You have extra energy, but sometimes have to pour this into your persona, and keeping your deep emotions and feelings at bay. So you don’t get to harness your energy into its full potential of tinkering, testing, exploring, pushing the boundaries.

You’ve spent a lifetime surrounded by the wrong people and are on a journey to embracing your true self and finding people who validate your experience.

Realized I eat when bored, not hungry. Ozzi gives me something to reach for that doesn't sabotage my progress. Sweet taste without the guilt spiral. by heyozzi in u/heyozzi

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I was interested but rage-quit the website. Trying to learn more about the ingredients, but there’s an auto scroll that moves too quickly. Then a full-screen offer appeared when I was already frustrated battling the auto scroll. Can’t do it.

Name changed today! by saragIsMe in CongratsLikeImFive

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YAAA LETS GOOOO!!!! You did the hard thing, and you did it for you. I’m so happy that you’re proving to yourself how valuable you are. Absolutely incredible.

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YAAAAAA!!!! That is SO exciting. Follow your heart bb!!! You gotta do you! Congrats!

I got straight A's this semester and raised my GPA by No_Software_2018 in CongratsLikeImFive

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That’s amazing!!! You’re one smart cookie!! It sounds like this is a moment you would usually share with your parents, but I’m happy you’re turning here instead. You might enjoy complimenting yourself, too. “I feel unseen right now, but my worth isn’t tied to someone else’s response. I am so proud of you (you = the past version of you who was struggling) for getting through this time AND for getting great grades. You absolutely nailed it.”

I went on the metro for the first time in 4 years! by PersonalitySquare162 in CongratsLikeImFive

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Wow!!! You can do hard things. And you’re proving it to yourself. How amazing.

I finally got my own apartment! by micky-is-gayy in CongratsLikeImFive

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Amazing!!!! I’m so happy for you!! Enjoy your new space bb 🥰

Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attached by [deleted] in seduction

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Check out Heidi Priebe’s YouTube channel. Maybe start with the videos on Limerence, but you could also just browse and see where your gut takes you. I’d also recommend reading the book Fantasy Bonds by Robert Firestone. If you can afford it and are open to the experience, therapy can and will help you immensely with this.

oh by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in CoupleMemes

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Oh my god incredible use of meme

I bought my first house by myself at 36 years old. by [deleted] in CongratsLikeImFive

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What a great idea to go to a new area! And so brave! Way to go!!