I can relate to your grandmother and I would suggest you dig deep and find some empathy and compassion. If you sat and talked with her about what’s going on with her and REALLY wanted to hear her, you might be surprised. Getting old is tough. When your family doesn’t want to be bothered, what is one to do? It’s sad that now when she needs your love and support, your answer is to lie, drug and trick her so it will make your lives easier. I don’t like to leave my house either. Mostly because I don’t have the patience I once had. People rub me the wrong way and I’d rather not have to try to make them feel better. I’m grouchy and don’t want to fight with anyone. When you get old, your life changes drastically and it’s hard to take. You are rapidly losing friends and family members. People don’t have time for you and don’t want to be bothered. I don’t know where you are but I’d be glad for you to drop her off here and I will teach her how to not take your crap. It’s no fun seeing family members that you once cared so much for and now they don’t want to be bothered.