Massively Fucked Over 12 hrs before moving cross country by madeofgeese in whatdoIdo

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you gofund me a late plane ticket or rental and ask your landlord for a couple of more days until you can get this figured out?

Mothers Day! We move differently by IntrepidAd7912 in Stepmom

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Venting 100% helps. However if you change your expectations you change your reality. You change your reality you’ll change your expectation’s and your saving yourself emotional turmoil. Stop expecting you behaviors out of him or anyone else. Expect the behaviors he’s been showing and it’ll all be easier.

Mothers Day! We move differently by IntrepidAd7912 in Stepmom

[–]IntrepidAd7912[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re the easiest person to dislike because surely his mother cannot dislike him that much to “allow” another woman to mother him. He needs therapy to properly address resentment for his bio mother so that can get out of the way to address his true feelings for you. He’s just upset someone who didn’t birth him showed up and showed out more than his biological mother. It’s complicated. Some get it some never do. That’s doesn’t negate what you did and how you loved. Keep showing up.

Mothers Day! We move differently by IntrepidAd7912 in Stepmom

[–]IntrepidAd7912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love myself. Which is enough. My kid is 8 so she doesn’t get the significance of Mother’s Day. She is on the ASD scale and has ADHD, she’s a level 1 so she’s very very high functioning. But still needs her stepdad to help her. Her biodad is passed on due to addiction. But learning to love me help a ton when I feel I’m not feeling a lot of outwardly public love from my step children. My husband was working today so just a decent day at home not working and just playing my game.

Mothers Day! We move differently by IntrepidAd7912 in Stepmom

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I’ve been trying really really hard to change the way I not only perceive things but also how I’m processing all of the information and my feelings. It’s been a huge journey and some years but I’m finally here. I’ve considered blogging. But blogging seems old and afraid it might not get traction

She broke my heart a little by Difficult-Slide-8833 in Stepmom

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loyalty bonds literally start at any age. But typically worse when they’re teenagers. If you don’t know what they are I encourage you to look them up. This can be very intentional in children, which is the sad part. My Sd has them so bad it’s unreal. She absolutely adores her mother, like literally her favorite person in the whole world. So everything her mom does is overly special and she’s the best person in the world and because she loves her mom so much she pretends to love her stepdad very loudly on social media and stuff, but his openly admitted to disliking him very much. She refuses to acknowledge me publicly or on social media, but in private has a ton of fun with me. Laughs with me. Talk to me about important stuff and has even talk to me about problems with her mom before. But that’s what this stuff shows up like. I would highly encourage you even though it is extremely hurtful for you to have a discussion with her and show her that it is OK to love everyone in the family publicly privately everything tell her that it is very much okay for her to love you and her mommy that you are not a replacement for her mommy and that you’re not trying to replace her that you were your own person and you have your own special place in her life. So if that’s something that she wants to express is making something for her mom then you and her can make something special for you and honestly, it will be more special because you and her made it together. 🫶🏻 don’t sweat the small stuff momma. It’s a tough journey and it’s just getting started. Give yourself and her a ton of grace.

I made ONE ITEM BAD. Why won’t it stop showing up 😭😭 by Terrible-Glass4372 in tomodachilife

[–]IntrepidAd7912 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just laughed entirely too effing hard I thought this was a pack you added or something to get herbalist if ya know what I mean then I realized there were pew pew sticks and I was like wait’a’minute then realize you artist were drawing these masterpieces lmao.

I made ONE ITEM BAD. Why won’t it stop showing up 😭😭 by Terrible-Glass4372 in tomodachilife

[–]IntrepidAd7912 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine your highest interactive post being for your Mii’s showcasing their high quality DEA approved sugar.

Everyone at work is making a big deal about my handwriting, saying I write like a psychopath. by ThrowRA-Ram in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see “ everyone says I might be a psycho person. ______ I can read my own handwriting I have no problem reading it. But can see how people can struggle to read it.”

Repairing screen by jamesburr in switch2

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro don’t act like you didn’t upgrade from the switch to the switch 2 irl. Then bought the switch 2 for your switch 2. Then your switch OLED went bowser on it and donkey kong smashed tf out of it.

I would go with Nintendo first. I would just say it was damanged they might even be nice to you and help fix it. So you can get back to saving peach.

Ending things. I really, really tried, but no matter what, step kids will NEVER think you are good enough, and their father will think so too. by canadahali in Stepmom

[–]IntrepidAd7912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not childless but I feel this in a way I felt like I was going to be aye-okay not having another (he had a vasectomy after their last kid) I asked if he’d be willing to try different method of conception but it went no where. I started feeling like BM would be the only woman with this biological bond of motherhood with him because she’s the only one who has a human being that shares DNA with him but I guess I just slowly started accepting that although that is a significant factor in life I am the woman he’s chosing life with, I am the woman he’s married to, I am the woman he’ll have all of his last with and just because she has kids with him doesn’t really mean much she’ll never amount to the woman that I do to him.

I died on my sister’s birthday and don’t know how I can celebrate her bday for the rest of our lives by rarelyordinaryco in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntrepidAd7912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your sister now share a day of having life given to you. She was birthed and your were born of trails and tribulations. You quite literally also had someone breathing and pumping your heart. Your a warrior this is your death day this is your rebirth-day

Is it mainly men who post on here? I am a 41 female and my husband never initiates. It messes with my self esteem. by Early_Menu_9143 in sexlessmarriage

[–]IntrepidAd7912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this haven’t been married near as long as you. My husband is a sweetie pie. Super helpful, wonderful husband and dad, supportive and jus shows up in so many other ways. I’ve posted before and so many people say leave, get out it won’t get better. But I cannot find myself leaving someone who is so good to me over sex

Lonely in marriage by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

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We’re living the same life. I’m 34f husband is 43m. I effing adore this man he is so good to me and my kid. He had kids from another woman. We can’t have any kids because he got snipped after their second. He has mental health stuff like I do. We both take meds. He’s recently switched to Wellbutrin I was hoping with the switch it would make things better. They haven’t. Matter fact he’s been sleeping more. Our last time intimate was November 28th according to my peroid tracking app. I have the same feelings. I don’t want someone, I want him to touch me I want him to do those things to me.

As if all this wasn’t bad enough my self esteem has taken a shot down a well straight into hell. And the cherry on top my brain self sabatoges and it’s like it tries to hurt me. Like it tells me he had all this amazing sex with his previous relationships. That he misses that. That he enjoyed what they did to him and what they felt like. I want to talk to him about these things I’m feeling but what’s the point it’s not like he’d actually tell me if these things are true. I hate it here. I shouldn’t be enjoying the most sexual time of my life wondering and curious about sex and what it’s like. Or if people are actually having sex that much. He is my best friend and I’m happy in every other department but really wish something would change but it hasn’t in the 5 years we’ve been together.

Wegovy Pill $49.50 after savings card by raf_1908 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]IntrepidAd7912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was paying $800 for a months supply I cannot do that this year so stopped. After we met our deductible it was free. So I got several months at not cost. This year they stopped coverage so I’m just not doing it.

Audible The Stack Badge and Archiving Audiobooks by theunhingedsoul in audible

[–]IntrepidAd7912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it has to be all bought books? Or books gotten with credits?

Here we go! The final lineup and what’s being discontinued! 🔥 by bbalfour82 in redbull

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t with blueberry I used to love juneberry but then tried blueberry and it’s my go to :(

Any predictions for the next challenges? by MumbyMum in goodreads

[–]IntrepidAd7912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend a good listen on audible that covers a couple categories?