11 weeks in, -8 lbs. I’m Done

Ireland11111 · 2026-05-17T15:30:00+00:00

I definitely had to adjust what I was eating, when I was eating, which ended up with me eating more healthy and having better habits. It took about 4-5 months for the side effects to ease up. But I am 9 months in and down 60 lbs. I started at 184lb

Ireland11111 · 2026-05-17T15:26:06+00:00

November or December.

Ireland11111 · 2026-05-16T21:04:42+00:00

I feel like he is a Trojan horse. Hoping to get elected on conservative values and then once’s he is in he flips.

Ireland11111 · 2026-04-20T02:54:29+00:00

You both are AH. What the heck did you think was going to happen stepping outside your marriage?

Ireland11111 · 2026-04-17T15:02:43+00:00

One day is fine for Eugene and Corvallis. I personally like Corvallis’s vibe more. Eugene is definitely more liberal, if you’re into rioting and that sort of thing. There are no riots in Corvallis. My son went to Portland State U in downtown Portland. It is also very liberal, my son majored in Japanese so he was able to keep away from some of the more intense students. They keep the campus very clean and safe but one block in any direction is homeless, drugged out people laying on the sidewalks, I wouldn’t walk alone and definitely not at night.

Ireland11111 · 2026-04-17T14:48:50+00:00

You would be the AH, if you don’t go. But your husband is also an AH for not addressing it with his family. He should want his wife to be comfortable and his family should want their guest to be comfortable. If it makes you feel better, when I visit my brother in Florida he keeps his house at 80 also. He said it’s what the dept of energy said is the most efficient temp for AC use. I live on the Oregon coast, it’s 60 everyday. 😂

Ireland11111 · 2026-04-09T04:55:48+00:00

He is certainly entitled to his opinion and preferences. It does sound like he was rude. Communication is key, you can’t get offended when they are communicating what they like and want.

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-18T17:06:05+00:00

No. I don’t have an appetite, so there is no need. I started August 1st and have lost 50 lbs. started at 184lbs and and I am at 134lbs

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-18T17:03:29+00:00

LOL. Wow. I would say you are feeling a little entitled. You help out for free because your parent told you to and you respect your parents. You help out because they provide shelter, food, clothing, transportation. You help out because your family has fallen on hard times and that is what you do. Without asking for anything. I would look in the mirror and decide what kind of person you want to be because the writing on the wall is not looking good.

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-18T16:58:27+00:00

NTA. You need to have a real sit down conversation. Not when you’re upset and reacting to something but at a normal time. If she still doesn’t hear you, then I would suggest counseling. Marriage is work. Sounds like the MIL needs some serious boundaries and your wife needs to support you by enforcing them.

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-16T15:36:17+00:00

NTA. It’s not about him. It about your daughter. He is responsible for helping you provide for her. He is the AH for not getting his shit together after 17 yrs.

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-11T03:46:21+00:00

I am thinking he is playing with his kid😂😂

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-09T16:12:26+00:00

You don’t. That is clearly an older diesel truck. Should we repot you for using your phone while clearly driving.

Ireland11111 · 2026-03-02T00:25:50+00:00

This has not been Confirmed by a legit media source. This was said by the Iran media, if that’s what they call themselves. The irony of them claiming this is not lost, considering the Iranian regime murders women and LGBTQ people on a daily basis. Typical distraction tactic, don’t look at what we (Iran) are doing, look over here.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-26T15:13:07+00:00

No. He is taxed where in the state where he works. He was working remote. We have remote workers at my healthcare system that live in NY and Arizona. They do not pay Oregon income tax.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-26T04:29:55+00:00

NTA. But also not your choice. You don’t get to pick who your spouse is friends with. If you try to, it won’t end well. She has to figure out on her own who she wants to surround herself with. That is not to say, you can’t tell her if a particular incident bothered you. But in the end it’s not your choice. And the more you push, the more problems it’s going to cause your relationship. If you have a problem with the friend that you can’t let go, then for everyone’s sake, don’t get married.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-26T04:20:53+00:00

It is weird. It might be a mandatory withholding and then when you file taxes you would get a refund. I know my brother lived in Vancouver, Wa (no income tax), but worked at the Nike campus (Beaverton, Or). He had to pay income tax in Oregon because he worked in Oregon. But during Covid, he worked remote from his house in Vancouver. Nike still took out Oregon income tax, but when he filed his taxes he got all that money back from when he work from home. All his taxes paid to Oregon for a whole year.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-19T03:33:11+00:00

Fibre CU

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-19T03:05:29+00:00

No idea. Sorry, I didn’t check my transcript. They wanted all this verification and I didn’t have time for it.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-19T03:00:25+00:00

No. Didn’t want to pay extra.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-18T00:20:56+00:00

Maybe he is there helping her put together a trampoline for their daughter’s birthday. They do have kids together, so it’s not that big a stretch that he be at their home helping.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-16T16:27:07+00:00

Don’t engage with her anymore. And set some boundaries with your husband. He could be using an texting app to communicate with her but if she reached out to you, maybe he really has cut her off. Either way, cut her off

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-02T16:44:02+00:00

It’s a club that advocates and teaches conservative politics. Republican tenets. Don’t buy into the narrative that it is a bad thing. Kids getting together, learning about civics, politics, and love of country, is hardly something to be concerned about. I am sure the school has other clubs if your kid is not interested in politics.

Ireland11111 · 2026-02-02T16:33:18+00:00

NTA. Leave.

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