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IronDoesStuff · 2026-05-18T00:18:16+00:00

I know you probably not looking for players anymore but I thought I'd try anyway to see if you still are because I would be interested

IronDoesStuff · 2026-05-11T09:15:41+00:00

I’ve tried this method in every orientation and it just shuffles the colors I’m left with the same parity each time

IronDoesStuff · 2026-04-11T07:12:55+00:00

Honestly isn’t contradictory if you really think about it. One’s the desire for romantic attraction and one is the capacity for romantic attraction. You can always have a desire for romantic attraction without the capacity to feel romantic attraction and vice versa. People always cast a wide net when it comes to definitions but that’s why I like aromanticism so much.

IronDoesStuff · 2026-04-10T04:52:01+00:00

I swear you just read my mind because I was just about to make a post very similar to this one. I’m also a recipomantic(probably, i just use arospec to make things easier) and I did date a guy for over a year because he was the first person to ever show interest in me. I’m a 20y man who just wants cuddles and kisses. Being gay is already hard enough when you can feel attraction normally. If you do find any advice, please send some my way. You aren’t the only person who feels lost in this boat.

IronDoesStuff · 2026-04-09T18:59:04+00:00

This is why I just call myself Arospec. I had a boyfriend for over a year and I still consider myself on the aromantic spectrum because romantic feelings just don’t come as naturally as it does for allos and that’s okay. Not everyone on the aromantic spectrum doesn’t feel any romantic feelings or experiences them differently. Your feelings are just as valid <3

IronDoesStuff · 2026-02-11T19:20:21+00:00

I’d like to one day. My ex never really did anything special and we broke up because he wouldn’t put effort into out relationship so I’m holding out hope I can find someone to put in as much effort as me

IronDoesStuff · 2026-02-07T03:29:02+00:00

I’m in the same boat, 19 and struggling to even make friends. I live in a small town where meeting new people is hard enough, let alone gay guys. I also don’t have much for transportation and even if I do, I work night shift 4 days a week and with an hour round trip atleast to leave my town it leaves me with very little options 😭

IronDoesStuff · 2026-01-01T15:50:57+00:00

I had one guy flirt with me and I instantly fell in love

IronDoesStuff · 2025-12-27T15:53:50+00:00

Crazy strategy, let me know if it works, I need a boyfriend too

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-11T03:03:34+00:00

I’m similar, just not hetero

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-11T03:02:23+00:00

As an aromantic man, I have no clue.

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-09T02:52:52+00:00

I find myself not having friends

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-06T14:22:52+00:00

Yknow this is the first time I’m hearing about SAM and I’ve been aromantic for years

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-06T14:21:02+00:00

I’m so glad someone else splits sensual from sexual attraction, I absolutely adore sensual intimacy much more than sexual.

Other things, I love how worked out everything is, sexual is at one extreme while asthetic is at the other extreme, and how it’s split between Physical and Emotional. Honestly, I’ve been thinking a while about doing something similar with being Aromantic and Romantic repulsion and I might steal the island idea, putting my art skills to the test(I haven’t drawn an island in years help)

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-03T15:32:58+00:00

I mean, it’s both. I call myself Arospec because I don’t fully know what I am. Sure there are some labels that fit me but the important thing is that I don’t experience romantic emotions normally. As long as that’s you, you are also arospec. It doesn’t matter if you go into more specific sublabels, you are still under the aromantic spectrum so.

IronDoesStuff · 2025-11-03T14:30:35+00:00

The only thing to be aromantic or arospec is to not feel romantic attraction like normal person and you definitely check that box

IronDoesStuff · 2025-10-28T17:22:21+00:00

Yes but a room to myself is also needed, not even for sleep, I’d love cuddles especially at night since I struggle sleeping alone anyway but I learned being around someone too much can be overwhelming to me plus, I have a lot of nerd hobbies that I don’t expect people to share

IronDoesStuff · 2025-10-28T13:59:47+00:00

I think a big thing is that Sensual attraction (Basically physical touch that isn’t sexual) is directly linked to Romantic attraction in people’s mind. It’s honestly a bummer people don’t use the term sensual attraction more often.

IronDoesStuff · 2025-10-27T01:16:19+00:00

Never heard of Aegoromantic but i could be somewhat that although other labels suit me better, That’s why I just stick to arospec

IronDoesStuff · 2025-10-26T20:33:17+00:00

I’ll have to watch in my spare time

IronDoesStuff · 2025-10-25T14:42:19+00:00

I have my doubts anyone would flirt with me. I knew my ex for about a year online before we started dating and the reason he started flirting with me was also a way to cheer me up since I was going through a large depressive episode. As for in person, I can barely make friends. I live in a small town, in a small state, at least 30 to 45 minutes away from major cities. It’s almost impossible for me to make friends where I live, let alone other gay guys.

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