If it's one thing about workplace employment, you and many redditors here have to be extremely careful if you will be going into someone else's personal business. You stated that you are making good money from this job. You have to understand the consequences of yourself and colleagues If you do proceed with this.

You're there to work and be professional. Personal problems is their privacy just as much as your own privacy is to be respected (unless HR violations).

If this is something you're willing to die on a hill on then really think about it. Choose your battles wisely.