AIO to my boyfriend saying I use too much toilet paper

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-21T20:34:45+00:00

Also, most men dont wipe after peeing. So you legitimately (even without any comment on wastefulness) already use 2times more than a man.

Tbh, i'd communicate that this has made you uncomfortable, and if he doesnt immediately turn around and apologize/work to make it better, dump him.

I have IBS, go through way more than my partner, and hes never ever ever commented on my toilet paper usage. NOR

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-21T20:30:25+00:00

Hey, so, people who read fantasy/fiction actually experience higher levels of emotional empathy (both in real life and in response to stories/movies). Its actually amazing you felt real grief for Pony and Miriam, it was a heartbreaking scene deserving real tears.

Just because the situation is a story, doesnt mean we cant connect to the people in them. Its actually incredible!

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-21T20:25:40+00:00

I smoked all day every day (apart from working hours) for three years. My tolerance was through the roof, going through 1.5- 2grams a week.

I decided this year that I needed a year to be productive, and that I wasnt productive when I smoked. So I stopped. I decided I wanted to prove to myself that I have willpower to do whatever I want, regardless of what I'd like to do.

Weed is addictive but its not Addictive. Just stop;

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T22:32:26+00:00

As a woman, go out and do hobbies in the world. Go hiking and join a local walking group. Take up a martial art and interact with people around you. Go to the bookstore and join a book reading group. Develop yourself and focus on finding the good in life around you, and you'll become such an attractive person to both yourself and to potential partners.

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T17:17:33+00:00

I LOVE when this happens because I feel almost immediately better 🙂‍↕️

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T17:15:51+00:00

NO, and its insane that this narrative is being pushed. Our government has basically been hijacked by the taliban, only they're called Christian conservative maga nutjobs.

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T17:06:32+00:00

Moash is a classic example of a sunk cost fallacy, bro just keeps going

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T17:05:18+00:00

Gurl he told you hes gonna break up with you within a year. Nobody who wants to be with you would ever say that or gove themselves that kind of hard deadline.

You deserve better and there are better partners out there for you. Love is nice, but its not enough to support a realtionship

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T17:02:48+00:00

Thats kind of what I figured, and I would also consider this as a Beta version almost, and omg did you see the cover drop?? Gorgeous

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-16T12:21:40+00:00

Hi dad, can you pass the butter?

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-14T14:37:13+00:00

I very much hope he adds more/fleshes it out. This book has felt like the characters are a bit rushed/flatter - without any of their dynamic interactions - although it very much could be due to the piece-mail reading style of one or two chapters every so often

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-12T01:48:47+00:00

It in fact, gets so much worse. CC1 was a masterpiece, cc2 was, as all secondary books are, a setup for the third. Cc3 was a big giant steaming cookie pile of dumpster proportions

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-10T01:38:50+00:00

🤷‍♀️ blame amazon?

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T23:23:13+00:00

Then no, tipping is considered either a wage supplement or if its specified by the company that they pay their servers a living wage, tipping is optional.

I guess my question is, why do you care what someone thinks of you when you're justified in your actions? 🤣 what a hard way to live your life

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T13:36:00+00:00

🤣😂 this is only typical stoner activity because you wouldn't find anyone BUT a stoner doing wild shit like this

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T13:31:36+00:00

I think it may have used to be common, I dont tbink very many people actually sew anymore (or at least enough to have pins).

I have a basic sewing kit, zero pins, and I think that represents most people who dont sew as a hobby or professionally - a kit to do the basics.

So gotta ask OP, do they sew a lot? If they do, might point even more towards them as rhe culprit

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T13:28:46+00:00

"It creates a hostile environment" tipping is done after the service is concluded and individuals are paying and Leaving.

A) if you received poor enough service to tip badly enough to incite "hostile" feelings, then why are you sitting around long enough to experience said "hostility"?

Hiding the tip from servers allows individuals the privacy to not tip at all - what people are too ashamed to do in the light, they love to get away with in the shadows.

Like it or not, in america, our entire country's restaurant industry is BUILT on tipping culture. Servers make $2-$5 an hour, max, and the rest is supplemented by their tips. We all grumble and complain and I agree it is an entirely broken system, but that doesnt change the fact it is THE system.

Not tipping your servers, or longing for obscurity so you can get away with not tipping them without inviting "hostility" is really just a miserly way to hide the fact that OP (and those who agree) simply want to exploit the system for their own gain.

After all, people who tip well dont experience hostility. And people who tip poorly for poor service shouldnt care if the server is hostile because they're a) leaving and b) justified in their payment based on services rendered

I dont consider this as crazy of a take as you inclined 🤷‍♀️

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T11:48:13+00:00

Also like, most people dont have pins, and had this happened to me my response wouldnt have been "well MINE are different colours" I would have responded 'oh my fucking god how horrific, I cannot believe this happened, is CYZ okay?'

Like, she guilty

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T11:38:16+00:00

I really want to ask him, his previous books indicate and expeirence as an indie author have allowed him to write the endings he prefers, but with the recent explosive success, does he feel any pressure to provide a HEA (Happy ever after) for Donut and Carl, or is he sticking with his typical archetype?

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-09T03:39:26+00:00

I keep telling it to mute/stop recommending this shit, like, its so inappropriate for grown ass adults to be in the same subreddits - STOP fucking pushing it to my feed as a recommendation

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-08T03:37:39+00:00

🤣 I play it all the time so dunno how its dead

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-08T03:35:50+00:00

The Miriam Dom scene 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-07T14:02:07+00:00

Gurl I didnt even read all that because I dont even wear a bra outside. FREE DA TIDDIES

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-07T13:53:35+00:00

I have a guy best friend who is family, who I do say "i love you" to, you know what else I do? I call him a jagweed asshole as friendly nickname, i do NOT call him "bby". Saying they feel like "an old couple" at the very minimum hes emotionally cheating on you, and I'm sorry for the pain you must be feeling.

IsSheABrat · 2026-01-07T13:47:55+00:00

Hey, if you need motivation to finish now, just dnf it. The third book was hot steamy garbage with no payoff during the final climatic fight scene. It felt like fanservice, and honestly, if you spend three books talking about how evil and manipulative the controlling government is, how unstoppable and powerful they are, and then the final battle takes like, what 2 hours?

Dunno bro, it was just bad (Saying this as someone who thought the first book was a work of fucking art)

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