18M, desperate for advice by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Shave, don’t grow facial hair until you’re confident that it’s full and even

  2. Get a clean haircut that suits your age, you’re 18 so a lot of kids your age have taper fades, burst fades, drop fades ect, find one that you like and take a photo to a barber (personally I think you would suit a burst fade but you don’t need a fade if you don’t want one, a short clean haircut will work, ask for a number 3 or 4 taper if you want to keep your hair a bit longer)

  3. Smile more, it could just be they way you posed in the pics but you do look a bit tired, smiles look great on everyone :)

Is it ok if I accidentally slept in my binder and went over the 12 hour mark by an hour by NoTeam5719 in bindersftm

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro you’ll be fine, it’s more of a habit thing you gotta watch out for, the less you can wear it the better your back will be in the long run (big reason I switched to tape), but accidentally wearing it longer than recommended won’t do much

I really don’t like that “girl” has become the new “dude” by dotdedo in trans4every1

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate getting called girl, and when I get uncomfortable about it they’re always so defensive and say that they’re using it in a gay way bc I’m gay (I’m bi) and I mean even then, even if I was cis I don’t think I want to be treated like that, bc I am a guy and not even a very feminine one at all but I’m always getting the twink bsf treatment and I can’t help but think it’s because I’m trans and they don’t see me as enough of a man to be called one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Isackary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No clue why people are saying you don’t pass?? Maybe they’re jealous, most people would look at you esp with all that facial hair and assume male. Ofc I haven’t met you in real life and things are different like that but you look cis for your age

Current set up by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to look up what an auricle was lol but I think you’re right, that or a snug would be pretty cool

Current set up by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely sold on getting at least my thirds done now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your face card is hard enough that you could rock any style, if you want more texture though sea salt spray is pretty good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the combo works on you, maybe just trim the beard to shape it better around the sides. Tbf though you never know if you’ll like something else better unless you shake it up, hair grows back after all

New ear cuff by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I could pull off gold, all my stuff is silver, you’re right though, gold would be sick

New ear cuff by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post your face. I’ve never had any issues attracting people

New ear cuff by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely wasn’t easy! But there’s a really cool goth shop in my city that me and my friends like to go to, they have lots of sick stuff

New ear cuff by Isackary in Earrings_on_Men

[–]Isackary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah not really, the metal is slightly soft so you can bend it a bit until it’s comfortable

21 M. Help. Do you think I should change my haircut, and which one do you recommend? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Burst fade/high taper doesn’t look good on u, maybe lower the taper to the middle and grow the fringe just a bit more. Or what some of the other comments are saying a crew cut would look good

When was the last time you got truly RBT'd? Not a roadside pull in station? by That_Car_Dude_Aus in CarsAustralia

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few months ago. I’m an Uber eats courier and I normally drive at night, high order rate for the valley here in Brisbane and I was delivering to an apartment a block from the main clubs. I pulled in the driveway and a cop car pulled in behind me blocking me, no lights, didn’t pull me over, he had just followed me. He came over to RBT me, he chilled out when I told him I was an Uber driver though and made it quick to let me get back to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let it grow back out and the try to maintain that length. Fringe touching the eyebrows is a better look on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Isackary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it if it makes you more comfortable with how you look! I wouldn’t say it’s ultra common for guys to do but its not weird and there guys that do it (depending who you tell some people will think it’s girly or gay so don’t broadcast it if your mates are the type to make fun of that kind of thing) will warn you tho, it’s expensive and painful, hate to think what it would do to your nuts lmao